Chapter 290: Guide students to establish a correct view of love

Lin Ping is really happy that Zhang Yipeng and Yu Mengfei are going to get married, and it is really a great thing that the two of them can achieve positive results during the teaching period.

And after Li Aihong heard Lin Ping say that Teacher Zhang Yipeng and Teacher Yu Mengfei were going to get married, she said with a surprised and joyful face: "Really, Teacher Zhang and Teacher Yu are getting married?"

Lin Ping smiled and nodded.

Li Aihong hesitated for a moment and asked, "Teacher, do you not have a girlfriend?"

Lin Ping smiled, lowered his head to look at the documents on his desk, and said, "Why are you asking this? This is not something you care about. ”

"Oh. Li Aihong agreed, and then suddenly walked to Lin Ping's table, then took out a folded piece of exquisite paper and put it on Lin Ping's table, and then stood there quietly.

Lin Ping glanced at the paper on the table, and then asked, "What is this?"

Li Aihong looked at Lin Ping and bit her lip, then plucked up the courage to say, "Teacher, I also graduated anyway, I want to tell you today......"

"Teacher, I like you. ”

Li Aihong plucked up a huge amount of courage to say this to Lin Ping, and then lowered her head a little shyly, wanting to hear Lin Ping's answer.

After Lin Ping heard Li Aihong say this, he thought with great joy in his heart: You finally said it, I have long wanted to educate and educate you! I want to establish a correct concept of love for you!

Lin Ping is a person from the past, and he has also walked through the youth era, so Li Aihong has already checked his admiration, but as long as Li Aihong doesn't say it, he pretends not to know, and it should be nothing, which is good for everyone.

But since Li Aihong said it today, Lin Ping must give her a good ideological education!

At this time, Li Aihong spoke again: "Teacher, can I be with you? Not now, but in the future." ”

Lin Ping smiled slightly: "Since you asked sincerely, then I will tell you with great mercy, in order to prevent you from going astray, in order to maintain the pure friendship between our teachers and students, I tell you very seriously, it is impossible!"

Lin Ping continued indifferently: "Li Aihong, I'm glad that you can open your mouth to show your heart, but Teacher Shu can't accept it. You must know that your feelings for teachers and me are not liking, but a kind of immature, irrational, and emotionally biased worship and admiration caused by the age gap, identity gap, status gap and cognitive gap. ”

Li Aihong was a little dizzy by Lin Pingyi's words, and said, "But ......"

"There's nothing to be had. At this time, Lin Ping had to interrupt Li Aihong's words, "You and the teacher are not suitable at all, there is a generation gap between three years old, and there is almost a third generation gap between the teacher and you." The teacher's love for you is based on the dissemination of cultural knowledge and the love of students, and do not overly misinterpret this feeling. ”

Lin Ping continued: "Li Aihong, you are still young now, and you lack mature cognition of feelings. I understand that girls of your age, including boys, will have longing and expectations for love, but because of this, you need to read more books to enrich your cultural knowledge, increase your opinions, and broaden your career. You have seen and known too few men now, so you will have blind admiration for teachers, but in fact, when you enter college and society, you will find that there are many excellent boys waiting for you in this world, they have their own merits, you can make more and better choices, and then your emotional outlook will be more mature, and you can find the love of your life. ”

Li Aihong digested what Lin Ping said in her mind, she didn't seem to understand it, but she sowed expectations for future love in her heart, and she asked, "That teacher, haven't you found the love of your life yet?"

Lin Ping smiled and said, "Yes, but the teacher doesn't need to tell you." ”

Lin Ping's purpose in saying this sentence is to dispel the luck in Li Aihong's heart, and whether Lin Ping has it or not, only he knows in his heart, maybe in his heart this lifelong love is the cause of socialist education.

Queen Elizabeth I of England, who never married, ended up marrying only England. In this world, Lin Ping doesn't want too many emotional entanglements and attachments, nor does he want to have the fetters of marriage. Love and marriage, he just wants to have it after returning to the original world.

Li Aihong lowered her head in disappointment after listening to Lin Ping's words, and then suddenly asked in a low voice: "Teacher, do you like ......?"

Lin Ping interrupted Li Aihong's words, he didn't want to hear Li Aihong's speculation, and said with a smile: "Don't guess, the teacher's love for any of your students is the same, but it may not be equal, because I also have some deviations in my heart, to be honest, it is inevitable that I will have more love for children who study well and obediently, and those who are naughty and don't like to learn will have one less point, this is human nature, I can't be absolutely equal, I can only try to be fair and just, so that everyone can't feel the difference." Li Aihong, the teacher also likes you, but that kind of liking is like an eldest brother and a loving father, even if there is a deviation, you must restrain and be bound to the shackles. ”

Li Aihong bit her lip and asked, "That's ...... What does the teacher think about love?"

Lin Ping said with a smile after listening to Li Aihong's question: "In the teacher's heart, choice is free, but love is never free and indulgent, it is a kind of fetters and a kind of restraint. Li Aihong, you can finally meet the right person in your life in the future, and the person who can accompany you for a lifetime. However, you have to learn to treat your feelings rationally, no matter who you meet, you must refrain from slowly releasing your feelings. The faster your feelings are released and the more violently they explode, the sooner it is easy to enter the period of exhaustion, and you will lose the freshness and enthusiasm at the beginning, and the gradual gap will lead to conflicts. True love is a gentle time, not a volcanic eruption that becomes a pain. ”

Li Aihong looked at Lin Ping and asked, "However, I read the book that love must dare to try with different people, otherwise how will you know if the other party is suitable for you?"

Girls of Li Aihong's age especially like to read some youth love magazines, and her aunt always buys some related magazines from the city, and Li Aihong came into contact with these things.

Lin Ping smiled and said, "Li Aihong, the teacher disagrees with this statement. Feelings are a thing that makes people happy, but it can also hurt people and hurt themselves. The more you try, the more you get hurt, and slowly, you will become less and less concerned about your feelings, as if you are numb, and if you are hurt once, you will feel that the next time you hurt will not hurt the first time, and in the end, it doesn't matter. And slowly, you will become less and less serious about love, and you will become less and less convinced of it, and in the end, you will hurt yourself. ”

Lin Ping looked at Li Aihong and said: "Of course, everyone has their own different view of love, and it is difficult to say who is right and who is wrong, but if you really choose between the two of rather lack than abuse and rather lack than shortage, the teacher hopes that you can rather lack than abuse." ”

Li Aihong asked again: "Teacher, but I'd rather lack than abuse, what if I miss the person who can be with you for a lifetime?"

Lin Ping smiled and said: "So, you have to study hard, not only textbooks, but also read more extracurricular books, watch more news, learn more about the world, make more friends, and deal with people better." Let yourself become open-minded, let your vision become long-term, and let yourself be more rational in dealing with feelings, only in this way will you not miss the person who should be with you for a lifetime, and you will not waste your feelings because you meet someone unladylike. ”

Lin Ping added another sentence and said: "You will eventually meet more men, there are good men and there are stinky men, only if your knowledge and thoughts go up, you can better distinguish between a lover and a scumbag." ”

[System: Student Li Aihong's concept of love has changed under your guidance, and she will be more smooth on the emotional road in this world, reducing the chance of going astray and suffering setbacks because of her feelings. At the same time, her study effort has greatly increased, reducing the chance of being distracted and falling in love. 】

Li Aihong looked at Lin Ping, thought for a while and said, "But, teacher, I think I still like you very much." ”

Lin Ping smiled and said, "It doesn't matter if you like me, you just need to know that I can't like you, let alone be with you." However, you will definitely meet a better man than the teacher, and that person is the one who will accompany you for the rest of your life!"

Li Aihong bit her lip, nodded, then got up and said, "Thank you, teacher, I will use the teacher as a template to find my boyfriend in the future." ”

Lin Ping laughed: "That teacher is really honored." ”

Li Aihong thought about it again and said, "Then if I have any emotional problems in the future, can I still come to the teacher to solve them?"

Lin Ping said with a smile: "Of course you can, but don't keep talking about emotional problems, talk to me more about study problems, and if you have any questions about high school holidays in the future, you can come back and ask me." ”

"Hmm. Li Aihong nodded.

"Alright, let's go back if it's okay. Lin Ping said with a smile, "By the way, take this letter back, the teacher won't read it, you just put this letter in the bottom of your heart and treat it as the secret of your youth." ”

"Hmm. ”

Li Aihong stretched out her hand and picked up the letter on the table, this was a love letter she wrote to Teacher Lin Ping, suddenly she smiled playfully, looked at Lin Ping and asked, "Teacher, don't you really want to see what I wrote in the letter?"

Lin Ping smiled and said, "Don't look at it, let's both talk about what should be discussed, it's better not to watch it." ”

Li Aihong took the letter and said goodbye to Lin Ping and walked out of the office, this conversation with Lin Ping in the office made her feel a lot smoother, neither the worst situation nor the expected situation, but the stone in her heart was put down, and she got the answer. Teacher Lin Ping rejected her clearly and resolutely, but she didn't feel lost at all, no matter what, Teacher Lin Ping is still so hearty and sunny in her heart, approachable and knowledgeable, she likes Teacher Lin Ping, and Teacher Lin Ping's image has become the standard for her to find a boyfriend in the future.

Watching Li Aihong walk out of the office, Lin Ping smiled slightly at the corner of his mouth, and said to himself: "What are you kidding, like me? I, Lin Ping, am a man you can't get." ”