☆、06892 - Desire to control

Suddenly, I felt that the eldest brother's desire for control was not bursting. Senior Brother doesn't care about the disciples' private small treasury, if there is a disciple who can raise his private treasury comparable to the Yunxia Sect's warehouse without harming the interests of the Yunxia Sect and the disciples of the Yunxia Sect, then this disciple's ability is counted, encourage him to continue to carry it forward, and you can also consider hiring him to participate in the official money-making work of the Yunxia Sect.

——It is to participate in the existing money-making projects of the government, not to let the disciples merge their own money-making projects into the official. The disciple's own projects can also cooperate with the official, for example, my Tongming Fruit is sold through the official sales channel of the Yunxia Sect, but the Tongming Fruit is essentially my product, not the product of the Yunxia Sect, and the official Yunxia Sect is only selling on behalf of the official.

When selling through the same channel, outsiders may mix the products of the Yunxia Sect with the products of the disciples of the Yunxia Sect, but the official of the Yunxia Sect will definitely not mix them, as evidenced by the distribution of sales revenue.

The elder brother will not require the staff of all departments to follow the rules when working, and he allows the staff to be emotional to a limited extent.

As for things outside of work, the elder brother has always taken a laissez-faire attitude.

Except for the bottom-line rule of 'endangering the Yunxia Sect' that cannot be shaken, everything else can be discussed in the eyes of the senior brother. At best, the control freak of the senior brother makes the relevant personnel feel that they have suffered a loss and want to scold him, but it rarely makes people feel that they are bound by the senior brother. The so-called control of the senior brother is a matter of interests, not a personal issue.

I sighed to Ke Yuanjin: "Your parents' desire to control is a bit terrifying. "If I had been born in the Ke family, I might have fallen out with my elders a long time ago.

Even if I can't fight the family alone, I have to find a sect to get into. Even if I can't get into my favorite sect, I have to find a random sect that is willing to accept me and manage my disciples in a relaxed way, and then separate myself from the Ke family. The Ke family is the bottom of the third-rate sect, as long as I can be admitted to the second-rate sect or the third-rate sect with a number greater than two in the Jindan period, the Ke family will not be able to control me.

Ke Yuanjin: "The total resources in the family are limited, so the elders hope to make overall arrangements after all of them are concentrated to maximize the effect. I'm not against this kind of management, and it doesn't matter if I have pocket money or not, but I want to have a choice when my choice doesn't consume additional resources and I accept the negative consequences of my choice. ”

Ke Yuanjin: "Don't have to go through countless quarrels and even hurt each other every time to get a slight compromise. I hope to skip those struggles and get my ideas approved with a sentence or two of confirmation. ”

Ke Yuanjin: "I'm really fed up with the quarrel. ”

☆、06893-Outside and inside

Me: "When I chatted with Ke Fanyi, I thought he was quite reasonable. Ke Fanyi Daoyou is the highest cultivation of the Ke family now, and I thought his style was ...... At least partly represents the current style of the Ke family?"

Ke Yuanjin: "Our family's Jindan ancestor has always been kind and talkative when he treats outsiders, but when he gets along with his family, he hopes that his family will only obey. He doesn't like to hear objections or meaningless echoes when he finishes speaking, and we don't need to open our mouths, we just need to implement them. ”

Me: "Is it such an arbitrary nature? Is it just a disguise to communicate with outsiders? I don't feel like it." I feel that when I objected to Ke Fanyi's words, he thought about it very seriously, and then expressed his views in a probing tone, not forcing me to agree with his views, but respecting the differences in ideas between different people. ”

Ke Yuanjin: "Outsiders have nothing to do with him, he can be polite, anyway, how outsiders basically don't affect his resources." But family is the link that makes full use of the resources he can control, and he must work together and work together, once his heart is not aligned, it will cause a waste of resources. He had a particular aversion to waste. ”

Me: "It's not a question of not wasting it...... No matter how many individuals in a family are, it is impossible for them all to think the same way. This person exerts force in the direction of due east and the person exerts force in the direction of 12 degrees north-east, although it will cause some of the forces to cancel each other, but as long as the main body is in the same direction and can form a resultant force, it is enough for daily life, right?"

Me: "Everyday life is not to the point where you can't tolerate the slightest mistake, is it? ”

Ke Yuanjin: "The ancestor of our family said that the Ke family has reached the time of life and death, and before the appearance of the next Jindan period, it is all wartime, and there can be no slackness internally. ”

Me: "Unless you cultivate the Urgency Dao and the Pressure Dao, this thing of Jin Dan can't come out without being nervous, right?"

Ke Yuanjin: "It's better than eating, drinking, and having fun every day to raise Jindan." ”

I asked the other juniors of the Ke family. They don't agree with the centralized distribution of resources at home as much as Ke Yuanjin, and they are tired of excessive pressure, but they also think that what the elders ask is not wrong, but it just makes their lives uncomfortable.

Ke Shicuo, who is fifteen years older than Ke Yuanjin, is a five-spirit root, and he said: "My spiritual root, even if I don't slack off in cultivation for a moment, if I don't have adventures, it will be a foundation building period in the future, and if I am slack, then I can only reach the Qi cultivation period." I can accept that my whole life is just a period of Qi training, and I hope that the elders can also accept this, and it is best to accept the probability that the Ke family will fall to the point of not entering the process in the future. ”

☆、06894 - There must be pressure

Ke Shicuo: "Is it difficult to admit that one's own family has declined? Is it necessary to pursue the Jindan period at all costs, and it is best to go out of the Yuan infant stage? Yuanjin is a double spiritual root, as long as it does not die young, the Jindan period is already complete." Before Yuanjin was born, the elders who had been only afraid that there would be no next Jindan stage should be satisfied when they saw Yuanjin, right? No, they greedily want Yuanjin to enter the Yuanjin, and it is best to be able to rush into the gods. Anyway, it is to force out all the potential of everyone and rush to the extreme. ”

Ke Shicuo: "As soon as he was born, he was burdened with the rise and fall of the family, and no matter how far he has done, the elders feel that Yuanjin can do better. They will never be satisfied, and will always add a new round of pressure to Yuan Jin after she has adapted to a certain level of pressure, and there is no end. ”

I asked Ke Fanyi what outcome he hoped to achieve with the juniors.

Ke Fanyi: "Let them take their hearts back to the family, and don't be distracted to do other irrelevant things." ”

Me: "But as long as someone in the family does a lot of things, they can be regarded as related to the family, and what was once irrelevant becomes relevant. ”

Ke Fanyi: "Pei Lin Daoyou, you and I can discuss the Tao, and we can be imaginative when discussing the Tao, but our Ke family has been out of the stage of theoretical discussion. The same set of exercises practiced by a family is our same roots, we need to make our roots grow as strong as possible, and we need to water and fertilize our plants with actions. What is needed is action, not rhetoric. ”

Me: "Work and rest need to be combined. Stretching yourself and your family too hard can be ...... It will have the opposite effect. ”

Ke Fanyi: "I am the person who knows the Ke family best. The Ke family is not afraid of pressure, but once there is no pressure, they will be excessively lax. If I don't put pressure on the juniors, they will immediately abandon their cultivation. I don't practice basic sword moves, I don't read theoretical books, and I don't even bother to use spiritual power every day. ”

Ke Fanyi: "If we don't force Yuanjin to take the Dan cultivation path, she won't learn the pill, and she won't spend time on the sword cultivation path." Just because we weren't optimistic about her becoming a sword cultivator, she had to squeeze out time to learn the sword cultivation course in Dan Xiu's training. Once the time doesn't need to be squeezed, she doesn't take the time to get down to business. ”

Ke Fanyi: "The Ke family is either forced or forced, if they are neither under pressure nor pressure, they will collapse immediately." ”

Me: "...... There are quite a few sects in the cultivation realm that focus on self-torture and mutual torture. ”

Ke Fanyi: "A large part of cultivating truth is the truth of human nature, and naturally we need to constantly challenge the limits of all aspects of human nature, including the pleasant and the unpleasant. Some sects have different paths but can understand each other, while some sects have differences that make both sides feel that the other is unreasonable. ”

☆、06895-inquiry

Ke Fanyi: "The road of the same road, the road of different roads, the road of all directions." You like the Tao that I like, you like the Tao that I don't like, you don't like the Tao I like, you don't like the Tao that I don't like, all kinds of things exist. ”

I asked Pei Jianzhuo: "Do you think Ke Fanyi is telling me to 'shut up and get out of the way, the Ke family's internal affairs don't need outsiders to dictate'?"

Pei Jianzhuo: "You couldn't take care of the Ke family's internal affairs. Even if you do say a lot about the internal affairs of the Ke family, Ke Fanyi's most tolerant reaction is only to discuss with you, and will never change the internal management model of the Ke family because of your few words. ”

Pei Jianzhuo: "The juniors in their family don't think that this management model is wrong, they just want to steal some ease." ”

I asked for information about Ke Fanyi's youth, especially his mentality when he faced the Ke family's generation.

Bao inquired about Zhang Feng: "Mentality? The mentality of a third-rate sect-level cultivator family's cash Dan period when he was still a junior in the family? If you ask my master about his mentality before he became an elder, he himself can't tell. ”

Zhang Feng: "That Ke Fan Yidao friendship has never been the core figure of the breaking news, that is, we have not interviewed him carefully before, and there is no detailed past record of him, and if you want his past information, you can only inquire about it temporarily, and when the current information tells the past events, it will inevitably bring the current filter, not the truth of the past." ”

Zhang Feng: "For example, I wrote a report last month, and now if you ask me to say how I felt when I wrote the report, I will express a lot of regrets, and I can only rate 50 points of satisfaction; in fact, I still have the impression for the time being, when I just finished writing it, I felt that I had written a news story with a breaking point, at least 70 points. ”

Zhang Feng: "That is to say, the score that directly describes the mood at that time is 70 points, and the mood at that time from the perspective of the present is 50 points, and when I express it to you, I may tell you that it is 60 points. ”

Zhang Feng: "The mentality thing is very ethereal to describe. Do you have an objective direction for information needs? For example, Ke Fanyi had a few relationships when he was young. ”

Me: "What do you care about in love? ”

Zhang Feng: "Wherever the public cares, what the public cares about is what we care about, and peach news has always attracted attention." Improper love is particularly attractive. ”

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