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What does it mean to settle the matter?

In ancient times, it was necessary to find a matchmaker to talk about the matchmaker, and after it was decided, it was necessary to go to the government to verify the identities of both men and women, and make sure that they met the regulations, so that they could enter the stage of talking about marriage.

The process of talking about marriage and marriage, in ancient times, there was a special word, called three books and six rites, which should be looked at separately, of which the six rites are the etiquette norms used in the process from talking about marriage to marriage, which are Nacai, asking for names, Najib, Najib, Nazheng, inviting and welcome. As for the three books, they are the letters of appointment, gifts and letters of welcome that need to be used in this process.

In the end, all the six ceremonies were completed, and all the three books were drawn, and this matter was decided.

Some people believe that the low divorce rate of ancient people also has a certain relationship with this, and it is so tiring to get married, and it is not possible to "make a fortune" by relying on money like now, who wants to toss it all the time.

In modern times, this matter has become much simpler, how simple is it? To put it in the simplest way, the man and woman go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to get their certificates, and it is settled!

Even if it is more complicated, as long as the bride price is enough, it is decided.

Well, no kidding, it's that real.

Of course, such a situation generally occurs in ordinary families, and whether it is Zhang Bufan or Tong Liya, they are not ordinary families, so the situation is another story.

What kind of bride price or the like is not a problem, there is only one thing that is called, whether the parents agree or not.

Both of them are more traditional people, so at least until something they don't want to see actually happens, the two of them will definitely not do anything like getting a license in private or holding a wedding without anyone else.

The position of the head of the family is truly reflected in such a major event.

Don't look at Dad Tong, who is always called back and forth by Mother Tong, and sometimes he is so angry that he can't speak, but when it comes to such a big event, he is the one who speaks.

Tong's mother obviously had her own ideas, but in the end, her eyes fell on her husband first, waiting for him to speak.

And Dad Tong, after being silent for a moment, finally spoke, "Bufan, although this is the second time you have come to our house, in fact, your aunt and I have been observing you. ”

It's normal that their daughter's boyfriend is the one who is most likely to develop into a marriage, and normal parents will devote more attention to him.

"You're really nice. This sentence is quite qualitative, "It's been more than half a year since we last met, and you have never had a scandal, and there are few disputes, and the only time is for my daughter." ”

While speaking, Dad Tong doted on his daughter, if it was in normal times, Tong Liya would definitely quarrel coquettishly, but at this moment, this situation made her have no idea, and lowered her head to the empty bowl in front of her and filled the turtle.

Dad Tong continued, "Actually, I said when you first came here that we don't want Yaya to be rich and wealthy in the future, we just hope that she can live well and be happy." Now, that's what we mean. ”

He paused, and turned his head to look at Tong Liya, "Yaya, are you happy to follow him?"

I couldn't pretend to be a turtle now, but it was originally just a matter of nodding or shaking my head, but suddenly I was a little at a loss, and I didn't know how to answer, so I could only continue to lower my head and quietly give Zhang Bufan a look.

"How shall I answer?"

Nonsense, of course, to say happy!

Zhang Bufan thought so in his heart, but of course it was impossible to show it, sometimes it was not good to be too eager, so he gave him an encouraging look, "Just answer what you really think in your heart!"

Well, the eyes certainly can't convey such a precise language, but that's roughly what it means!

Tong Liya finally raised her head and said, "Happy, when I am with him, I am the happiest." ”

Tong's father nodded, ready to continue, but his daughter did not stop, but continued: "I want to ...... I want to live so happily with him, for the rest of my life!"

This is a dead sentence, so what are you going to let me say?" Dad Tong smiled bitterly, but still opened his mouth, "Since you think it's good, then Mom and Dad support you." ”

Then he turned to Zhang Bufan, "Your business, we agreed!"

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"Hey, daughter-in-law, you hit me, you hit me again. Zhang Bufan took Tong Liya's little hand and put it on his face.

The two of them had already left Tong's house on the grounds that they wanted to go to see the decoration of the restaurant, but in fact, it was just to give Tong's father and mother and themselves some time and space to digest the words at the dinner table and the things that were finally decided.

"Oh, you've asked me to beat you three times, it's not enough. Tong Liya looked at Zhang Bufan with a smile and a smile, this product is just like eating stomach and appetite tablets, the waist is not sore, the legs are not painful, and the stiff neck is fine, but she is a little nervous, "And even if you want to fight, you can't go to the face, I don't know, I still think I am abusing you?"

"Hug, I have to hug it, come to my daughter-in-law, hug one to celebrate!" Zhang Bufan came up with his hand open.

Tong Liya was really laughed at by him, but from the bottom of her heart, a wave of joy had actually been bubbling out, so she didn't stop him, let him hug him tightly, and hugged him with a backhand.

I really thought she would be able to calm down? Fake! Just force her to be calm.

After hugging for a while, seeing that this product had no intention of letting go, he was unhappy, and finally pulled this product off his body with both hands and feet, and said angrily: "It's such a cold day, you are ready to hold it like this all the time, and wait for the two of us to be frozen into statues, right?"

"Hey, hey. Zhang Bufan smiled stupidly, since Dad Tong agreed, the IQ of this product has been completely offline.

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"Daughter-in-law, when do you say we are going to get the certificate?" Finally normal, the two of them stood on the side of the street waiting for the rental, there was no way, the little broken car was left on the set and didn't drive back, Zhang Bufan took Tong Liya's hand and asked.

"What do you say?" asked Tong Liya rhetorically.

"I said of course the sooner the better, but it's a pity that you and I have both passed our birthdays, otherwise we will be in a hurry for our birthdays, and then our birthdays and wedding anniversaries will be celebrated together, how festive. Zhang Bufan said: "Hey, why don't we also find a yellow calendar to check and choose an auspicious day?"

"Come on, you. Tong Liya raised her crisp fingers and nodded on Zhang Bufan's forehead, and then thought about it seriously, this was an absolutely commemorative day, and she didn't want to fool around.

After thinking for a while, she spoke, "Or ......"

"Oops. Zhang Bufan interrupted her, "I also thought of one day, otherwise, let's write the time on our mobile phones and see if we have a heart?"

"What? If it's different, if it's not for the heart, this marriage won't be over, right?" Tong Liya stared at her with big eyes.

Zhang Bufan was stunned for a second, "How can it be, is it just playing." ”

In the end, Tong Liya finally nodded, she actually wanted to know if the two of them could really understand each other.

So, the two of them turned around, took out their phones and started typing, and after a while they were all right, and they got together again - well, they had long forgotten that they were waiting for a taxi, and they ignored the dozens of cars that passed by them.

People got together, and the phone was put in the middle.

"Hah"

Seeing the date written on their phones, the two laughed at the same time.