Chapter 270: The Kindness of a Woman
If Wang Jufen hadn't taught him this matter, and asked him like this, this kid would definitely stand up and refute himself. His current silent performance shows that his guess is right, saying that he doesn't care about him, it must have been Wang Jufen who told him, and this kid can't think of it himself.
After Huang Hongliang figured out this problem, he immediately understood why Wang Jufen taught children to say this.
In the past two months, Wang Jufen has asked her son to ask her twice to increase child support. When they divorced, there was a clear agreement between the two on alimony, which was based on Huang Hongliang's salary income, and Huang Hongliang paid alimony every month according to that requirement. And when they divorced, Huang Hongliang and Wang Jufen had an agreement that in terms of child support, or other matters involving their sons, they should only be discussed between adults, not with their children.
So when his son proposed to him to increase child support, Huang Hongliang's first feeling was that he was very surprised, why did Wang Jufen let the child come forward to talk to him about this matter?
Although he was surprised, Huang Hongliang still explained to his son that his income during this period was not high, and he would increase the child support when he had the conditions in the future.
Huang Hongliang knew that his son would relay his reply to Wang Jufen, so he didn't take it to heart afterwards. Thinking about it at this moment, Huang Hongliang suddenly felt shocked: he agreed with Wang Jufen not to talk about some things with his son, but to talk about them between adults, which was actually prescient. I originally expected that Wang Jufen had no brains, and maybe she would say something to her son that shouldn't be said, which would hurt the feelings between her son and herself. Now it seems that such a result was unfortunately corrected by himself.
The most fatal part of this matter is not Wang Jufen's brainlessness, but her son's inexperience.
Wang Jufen pushed his son to the front to ask for child support, at his son's age, he didn't understand many things at all, the only thing he knew was that when he asked his father to increase child support, he didn't give him according to his requirements.
And I can't tell such a half-old child that his monthly income is not very high, and after deducting the money to repay the debt, he is living a tight life every month. These things are not suitable to tell his son, even if he does, he doesn't understand them, and Wang Jufen is clear about these things.
At that time, Huang Hongliang scolded Wang Jufen hatefully in his heart: You just think Lao Tzu is an ATM, and you have to be a good machine for Lao Tzu, if I starve to death, you won't even get this child support!
But now that he thinks about it carefully, Huang Hongliang suddenly despaired, not for himself, but for his son's educational environment. Children are extremely malleable, Wang Jufen educates him like this all day long, how will this son look at the problem in the future?
This woman planted hatred in the child's heart, could it be that she was planning to completely lose the child emotionally in the future?
If this is the case, it would really be a woman's kindness that she couldn't bear to fight with her for the custody of the child in court!
Huang Hongliang let out a long sigh, he secretly thought in his heart: I didn't expect that his vision was not as good as Wang Jufen, how could he not see this scene a few months later.
He glanced at his indifferent son next to him, as if he had seen what kind of attitude he had towards himself as a father ten or twenty years later.
It's too late to think about anything now, I couldn't bear to fight with Wang Jufen for the custody of my son in court, because I was afraid of hurting my son's feelings, and if I re-mentioned the custody of my son with Wang Jufen now, the damage to my son would only be greater.
But if this continues, his son's future thinking mode will definitely be very similar to Wang Jufen, which Huang Hongliang dare not imagine.
After some consideration, Huang Hongliang decided to find a way to meet Wang Jufen's request for increased child support first, and then try to get in touch with his son as much as possible, subtly affecting his thinking mode, which may be the best way.
Frustrated, Li Xin drove to the downstairs of Jiang Xiaolan's dormitory, and the two of them made an appointment to go out to dinner together in the evening.
Li Xin called Jiang Xiaolan after stopping the car, and after a few minutes, Jiang Xiaolan hurriedly ran downstairs and said, "It may not work tonight, there is something temporary, let's do it another day." ”
Li Xin said dissatisfiedly: "Didn't you say yes? Why did you suddenly change your hexagram again?"
Jiang Xiaolan said: "The topic discussion meeting of the research group where we intern has been temporarily rescheduled, and it has been changed to 7:00 p.m. today, so it is not okay to go out to eat, let's do it another day." ”
Li Xin said: "Anyway, I have to eat, and it's too late for me to send you back after eating." ”
Jiang Xiaolan said: "Go out to eat in a hurry, why don't you eat in our school cafeteria, didn't you say that you haven't eaten food in the school cafeteria for a long time? ”
Li Xin said: "Okay, that's all. ”
Jiang Xiaolan came over and grabbed Li Xin's arm and said, "Let's go, go over now, I'll ask you to rub it together, hehe." ”
Li Xin said: "It's a big meal, what do you have to eat here?"
Jiang Xiaolan said: "There are many, there is everything, you just look at it yourself." ”
At this time, it was dinner time, and the student cafeteria was full of people, Li Xin found a table and sat down, and said to Jiang Xiaolan: "You go buy it first, and I'll buy it after you finish buying." ”
Jiang Xiaolan said: "Go together, and buy it back at one time." ”
Li Xin said: "It's better for you to go first, you buy your own, and finally come to your student cafeteria for a meal, I have to take a good look and find a few delicious dishes." ”
Jiang Xiaolan said: "Then you sit, I'll go first." ”
After a while, Jiang Xiaolan came back, she handed the meal card to Li Xin and said, "You go, buy what you want to eat." ”
Li Xin took the meal card, went to find a dinner plate, went around the windows for a long time, and made four dishes, and then returned to Jiang Xiaolan with the plate and sat down.
Jiang Xiaolan saw that Li Xin's plate contained four dishes: braised beef, mapo tofu, stir-fried green bamboo shoots with pickled peppers, and cold cucumbers.
She asked, "Why didn't you buy food?"
Li Xin said: "I don't eat, I will eat vegetables today." ”
Jiang Xiaolan smiled: "You also call it a big meal?"
Li Xin smiled and said, "When I was in school before, I rarely ate 4 dishes at a time, and ah, I made a double portion of this beef, which is enough luxury compared to before, you can help me eat a little." With that, he took a few pieces of beef and put them on Jiang Xiaolan's plate.
Li Xin looked around while eating: "Don't say it, the atmosphere in this school cafeteria is good, and as soon as I come in, I have a great appetite and want to eat." ”
Jiang Xiaolan said: "Otherwise, I'll get you a meal card, and you can come to our school cafeteria every day to partner up." ”
Li Xin said: "Your idea is really good, but the road is too far, and it is too troublesome to run back and forth every day." If your school were next to our company, I would definitely come to your cafeteria every day to eat. ”
After coming out of the cafeteria after eating, Jiang Xiaolan said, "It's still early, can you take a walk with me?" ”
Li Xin said: "Eating in your canteen is really time-saving, and you can take a walk after eating, if you go out to eat, it is estimated that you haven't served the food yet." ”
The two walked side by side on the boulevard of the campus, and after a while, Jiang Xiaolan asked, "Do you have something on your mind?"
Li Xin asked in surprise, "How do you see it?"
Jiang Xiaolan stretched out her finger and scratched Li Xin's eyebrows, saying, "It's all written here!"
Li Xin subconsciously touched his brow and said, "Can you see this?"
Jiang Xiaolan said: "You can't hide things on your face, tell me, what's going on?"
So Li Xin said the depression in his heart one by one. After Jiang Xiaolan heard this, she asked puzzledly, "Didn't you say that this matter has nothing to do with you? Why are they treating you like this now?"
Li Xin said: "Alas, the internal affairs of the unit are intriguing all the time, and the more I think about it, the more boring it becomes. ”
Jiang Xiaolan said: "This kind of thing is estimated to be the same everywhere, and you should not take it to heart, it is too cost-effective to resign! Didn't you also say that the fact that you were able to make this money this time was also related to your experience in the Southern Group? If you did not understand these basic conditions of copper, you might not be able to seize such an opportunity." It's not much fun for you to quit your job and go out alone, so why don't you stay in the company and maybe you can meet other opportunities?"
Seeing that Li Xin didn't squeak, Jiang Xiaolan persuaded again: "There are some things you don't take too seriously. ”
Li Xin said: "How can you make money if you are not serious?"
Jiang Xiaolan said: "That's not what I said, I mean to say that you can't take other people's attitude towards you too seriously, don't take it seriously." Especially if you think you're doing the right thing, other people's comments can only be ignored. ”
Jiang Xiaolan's words touched Li Xin very much, and he said to Jiang Xiaolan: "Your words reminded me of an incident in college. ”
Jiang Xiaolan said, "What's the matter?"
Li Xin said: "During the summer vacation of my junior year, a teacher assigned a social practice assignment and asked us to inspect a unit, carefully analyze the changes that have occurred in it in the past one or two years, make an analysis based on the data, and then form our own conclusions. The final score of this inspection report is used as the test result of this course, which makes everyone dare not take it seriously. I have a relative who works in a paper mill, and I asked his relationship to find the director of this factory and interviewed him seriously all morning. It's the first time I've done this kind of thing, and I'm very serious, and I guess it's the first time that the factory director has interviewed him, and he's also very serious. In this interview, I got the production data and detailed situation of this factory in recent years, and after I went back, I seriously wrote an analysis report and handed it in. ”