Listing testimonial: Always retain the pursuit of a better life
Recently, the mood is more complicated, I believe everyone has read the notice sent by Kunlun a few days ago, if you follow the friends from the last two street books, you know more about this experience.
The character of Ning Daqiang actually has the shadow of my father-in-law, and I really hope to go back to the past and take him to a physical examination.
Unfortunately, now he is deceased.
In the introduction of the book, I will write down my dreams: those regrets in the past will finally have a chance to make up for them.
Because of these, this book will not simply write about entertainment, but also about family and affection.
Kunlun has only been married for three years, and I have known my father-in-law for less than four years, although there is no blood relationship, I still have deep feelings for him.
When I first got married, I was poor and white, and my father-in-law was willing to marry his daughter to me, and his savings for many years were only hundreds of thousands, but he did not hesitate to lend me 200,000 yuan to buy a house.
In fact, I don't talk about this, but his unreasonable trust in me alone makes me feel nostalgic.
However, in the past few years, he only had respect, but he couldn't talk about it, mainly because he had little contact, he opened a small shop selling chestnuts in Yangcheng, running around for life, and it was rare to come back once a year.
Until last year, also this month, my father-in-law was hospitalized with a sudden cerebral infarction, and I was running a new book on the street, thinking that there was nothing to do, so I bought a ticket to take care of him the next day - the store had to be taken care of, my uncle couldn't leave, and my mother-in-law ran back and forth in the hospital store.
It was also at that time that I got along with him day and night, watching his body deteriorate day by day, until he was finally diagnosed with a brain tumor, and then a craniotomy, and postoperative tumor tests: glioblastoma, grade 4.
During that time, I had insomnia every day, and I was the only one who knew about it, and I didn't dare to say it from them at that time, for fear that they wouldn't be able to stand it.
I have always been by his side during the postoperative rehabilitation, radiotherapy, and chemotherapy, until he returned to his hometown this year to be hospitalized, and to leaving, I watched but could not do anything.
I have wondered more than once why our parents were so healthy and carefree when my parents were my age, in their early thirties, and their lives were carefree, but when I was my age, they had to endure this kind of thing.
At the beginning of last year, my daughter came and brought joy to the whole family, but since my father-in-law was hospitalized in August, my grandfather was hospitalized in September, and then my mother had high blood pressure and went to the emergency room.
And this year, first my sister-in-law was hospitalized with breast problems, but fortunately the result was benign, and then my grandfather was hospitalized with a cerebral hemorrhage, and he was anxious.
After they were discharged from the hospital, I thought I could breathe a sigh of relief, but my wife's relatives had accidents one after another, her aunt was hit by a car, her sister-in-law's son fell into the garbage heap on a bicycle, but he was unlucky enough to have five tendons in his left hand cut off by a glass ballast, and her aunt had liver, spleen, and stomach surgery not long ago.
As for my brother-in-law's fall on someone else's motorcycle, these are all small things in front of them.
If I didn't say it, no one would believe that I was going through this, so I am especially grateful for the experience of poverty and the education of my parents, so I am not crushed.
Things are handled one by one, relatives are taken care of one by one, and time code words are squeezed.
Saying these is just some words in my heart to pour out, and I don't mean to sell miserable to everyone, because I think life is still full of hope.
Just like I comforted my wife: everyone has this day sooner or later, but it is the length of time, maybe God sees that our father is too tired, so he wants him to rest, we live well, and he will be happy in heaven.
My father-in-law did not enjoy the blessings, he did a lot of things over the years in order to support his family, and finally opened a store in Yangcheng a few years ago, earning some money, but in this short year, he gave it to the hospital.
To investigate the cause of the disease, we guess that there are three points:
Sleep time is less, often sleep at 11 o'clock at night, wake up at 3 or 4 o'clock in the morning, especially after July when the chestnuts are ripe.
The other is smoking, he himself has one or two packs a day, but when a customer comes he has to smoke, and others smoke him, and he has to smoke two or three packs a day.
The last is psychological pressure, my uncle is divorced, and there are often people who do business and do not pay off their debts, and they have to keep the store when they open a store, in our words, it is 'very hard-boiling', just like our code words, three days of fishing, two days of drying the net, readers have to run out, and they must be open every day.
It's nothing in a short time, but if it's like this for a long time, no matter how good his body is, he has to collapse, not to mention that he stays in the store, he can't walk and exercise like others, and his body is fat, except for high blood pressure, high blood sugar and high blood lipids, fatty liver are all out.
But he won't say anything about any distress, he hides it in his heart, and all he gives us is a smile.
Therefore, I hope that everyone can maintain good living habits, and if you are unhappy, you have to confide in you.
I wrote this sentence in the book: If you have a disease, it is better to cure it, and you can quit all bad habits.
My father-in-law was like that, after being hospitalized last year, he quit smoking for decades without hesitation, but it was too late......
This book has stumbled to the present, and it is time to put it on the shelves, and I am really grateful to my editor-in-charge Winnie, who took care of her father-in-law in Yangcheng at that time, and the code word time was updated for a short time, and she also gave a lot of support, even more so in this one.
I would also like to thank the editor-in-chief for his nonsense, although he has not spoken, but the current results of this book must be inseparable from his completion.
I want to thank you even more, or friends who have always cared about and supported, because there are too many names, I will take the time to sort out a list of thanks, in short, thank you, I can only use good content to reciprocate.
I would also like to thank the author friends who gave the recommendation: Erbao Angel, Du Hongchen, Elbow, Morning Star, Baoxing, Qiancui Bailian, Zhuo Muxian, I am the whitest, Wu Ma Xing, Seven Fleas, thank you.
It will be on the shelves at 12 noon today, and it is estimated that it will be delayed by more than ten or twenty minutes.
Because there is no manuscript for the time being, there are at most two changes at noon, but Kunlun is still very tenacious, and he will add more outbreaks when he slows down, because of his father-in-law's affairs, he doesn't dare to stay up late anymore to burst his liver, and he really can't afford to hurt the old and the young.
【Renewal Plan】
Guaranteed two watches.
Now the collection of more than 23,000, according to 10 to 1, as long as the first order is more than 2,003, I owe you five more, no matter how much I dare to guarantee that everyone can't believe it.
Reward the head plus one more, the alliance leader plus two more, more dare not expect extravagant, can genuine reading is the greatest support.
I like the lyrics of the ending song of "Wulin Gaiden" very much-
There are too many unsatisfactory things in this world,
But your life still has to go on;
The sun still rises every day,
Hope is always planted in your heart.
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I wish everyone good health, smile always, and always retain the pursuit of a better life.