355, no outsiders

Throughout the ages, one of people's descriptions of family affection is that blood is thicker than water.

But in Ning Yuan's opinion, this thing doesn't seem to be very convincing, and it's not an illusion, so how can there be any bloodline power.

Just like many abducted children are found to be at a loss and at a loss in the face of their ecstatic biological parents, if they don't tell their children who this is, they are still strangers in their eyes.

When they know that this is their biological parents, they will have a close idea psychologically, and then slowly accept it later in life.

The child's closeness to his parents and those relatives is also based on time and affection, not overnight.

For his aunt's family, Ning Yuan also had such a foundation after Ning Daqiang was about to die in the previous life, and after knowing what his aunt had done for his family from his mouth.

Otherwise, without this 'know', even if she lives again, Ning Yuan will have no feelings for her like then.

People are mutual, except for a very small number of white-eyed wolves, most of them know gratitude, and with those foundations, it is nothing to buy a down jacket for your aunt and uncle.

And their character is not the kind of 'Shengmi Endou Mi Hatred', even if they reluctantly accept it, they have always felt embarrassed, and they keep saying thank Ning Yuan.

After Ning Yuan exposed this topic, she and her uncle began to thank Ning Yuan for pulling Zhu Xiaojing to the company.

Of course, Zhu Xiaojing didn't think that working in her cousin's company would be arrogant and she could do whatever she wanted, but she would be as conscientious as ever, otherwise she wouldn't have let her go back together.

Ning Dayun and his wife have not gone to school, but their children's education is still qualified, not to mention how good they are cultivated, at least there is no problem in terms of values.

When Ning Yuan was reborn, he came to their house for the first time to pay New Year's greetings, although Zhu Xiaojing and Zhu Xiaosong were a little cynical, but from their point of view, it was actually human nature.

If you have an uncle like this, and your mother often helps their family, those 'oil bottles' are not only not grateful, but they also take revenge and drive your mother away with a broom, not to mention visiting them during the New Year's holidays, and everyone will be indignant in their hearts.

Over time, it's no wonder that you can have a good mood.

Suddenly, one day, they came to the house for the first time, and they heard that Ning Yuan went to the art performance department - ordinary people have a hard time providing for such art students, and part of the money in their family is still given by their mother.

Therefore, after meeting, I didn't drive out with a broom, which is already very qualified.

Ning Yuan They came in the morning, and they didn't leave after lunch, even if they wanted to leave, Ning Dayun would stop them, so when Ning Yuan and they came, they planned to play here for a day.

At the beginning, Ning Yuan chatted with them, but after chatting for a while, he inevitably played the entertainment project of every household in his hometown for the New Year - playing cards.

In the nineties, when fighting landlords was not yet popular, everyone played double buckles, two decks of cards, and four people played in two pairs.

Playing double buckle is the name of the hometown, and it is more widely called nationwide, or it is called double promotion, or playing upgrade.

At that time, in my hometown, most ordinary families played this purely for entertainment, and it was not colorful.

However, in the past two years, the limelight of fighting landlords has completely overshadowed the double buckle, and it seems that this kind of play is born for gambling, except for some children playing and adults playing, there is almost no color.

Of course, it may also have something to do with the improvement of the economic level, a few years ago, as long as the vast majority of families in their hometowns did not go out to work, they did not have much money in their hands to stay in the local area, and there were no those who had the quality to play with money.

And now, whoever wants to say that they don't have color will be immediately despised: "How old are you? Why don't you go fishing with the kid next to you?"

Ding hook fishing, in the hometown is every child will play, is to divide a deck of cards into two halves, each time two people each out of a size.

In addition to the jack is the largest is in order, the big one eats the small one, and then both cards are in the bag, and in the end there may be few on one side, and the other side is thick.

Because the rule is J is the largest, it is called Ding Hook Fishing, which is completely larger than the size, and there is no need to use your brain at all, but it is similar to the future of the 'bullfighting' gameplay.

The other is to run fast, and children play a lot.

But after having the landlord, it is simple and convenient, and three people and four people can play, and it has become an 'entertainment' project suitable for all ages.

Every time a family or friends gather, play for a while before a meal, and play for a while after a meal, it has become a pastime that many people are happy to use, and even many people are addicted to it, in addition to eating and sleeping, other times are used to play, and there are also fixed gambling friends, of course, this is also a minority.

However, if there are more people at the party, everyone will play another kind - fried chicken, which is the name of the Lingshan people, and most of them are called fried golden flowers outside.

This is how many people can play, as few as two, and as many as a dozen.

In a circle, one person is dealt three cards, but before the cards are dealt, a certain amount of money needs to be placed on the table, which is called 'priming'.

Generally, there are not too many requirements for the foundation, at this time it is still a few cents, even after more than ten years, most of them are one or five yuan of foundation.

Because what they care about is not this bottom, but the back and forth of you and I add to it, and that's the big head.

The amount of the base, as well as the amount of the raise, will be said before, although in the end it is also the size of the card, but before everyone shows the card, it is a kind of psychological warfare.

If you have a good psychological quality, you can go to the end or even win without an A, and if you have a bad psychological quality, you will have a pair of cards, and you will be hesitant to throw them under the 'scare' of others.

Of course, this kind of fried golden flower, Ning Yuan has little fun, and when it was popular, he had already gone to Shacheng, and he was very busy after that, and he was not free at all.

Including fighting landlords, Ning Yuan doesn't play much, and he won't count cards like some professional players - remember which cards others have played, and then compare them with their own hands, you can calculate which cards are left in the opponent's hand in the end.

This is a pure test of memory and intentions, in fact, everyone can do it, but some people are too lazy to remember, so they just use it as a pastime, including Ning Yuan.

Even now, with Ning Yuan's memory, it is not a problem, but Ning Yuan did not do it, otherwise, it would be too easy to win their money.

Because Ning Yuan is a guest, Ning Daqiang doesn't like to play this, so naturally Ning Yuan goes into battle, and Zhu Zhigang, as the host, has to accompany him, plus Zhu Xiaoming, they play together.

Zhu Xiaoming ran the transport, and when he arrived at the place waiting for unloading and loading, the drivers of them got together to play to pass the time, and naturally, they practiced a superb hand of cards.

As for Zhu Zhigang, he occasionally plays with neighbors and relatives, which is stronger than Ning Yuan.

said that it was their father and son who accompanied Ning Yuan for recreation, to be precise, it was almost the same as Ning Yuan and Zhu Zhigang accompanying Zhu Xiaoming for recreation, because this was still proposed by him.

It's not that Zhu Xiaoming is addicted, but this is also the 'hospitality' that Lingshan people don't have rules, just like when a guest comes to the house, he has to bring tea and pour water and hand over cigarettes, if you don't take the initiative to mention it, the guest is embarrassed to bring it up, who knows if the guest wants to mention it, in case the guest doesn't mention it, wouldn't it be slack.

If the guest doesn't want to, they will naturally refuse, and if they do, they will respond immediately.

Ning Yuan didn't have much interest, but since Zhu Xiaoming brought it up, Ning Yuan didn't save his face, anyway, it was rare to get together once a year.

And Ning Yuan's promise also made Zhu Xiaoming breathe a sigh of relief, and when he first mentioned it, he was worried that Ning Yuan, a well-known person, was a college student and couldn't look down on it.

Although they are still relatives, Ning Yuan is too famous now, and he has invisibly distanced himself, and of course the one with the gap in this distance feels more obvious.

Because Ning Yuan doesn't remember cards, he plays less, naturally has no experience, if he is the owner is okay, if he is in the same class as Zhu Xiaoming or Zhu Zhigang, it is easy to make them shout because of the wrong cards:

"Hey, how can you get this!"

"Don't play my cards, I could have walked......"

So in the end, as long as Ning Yuan has a chance, no matter whether the cards in his hand are good or bad, he will grab the hole cards and be the owner himself.

Landlords who will fight know that they love to catch the hole cards of the landlords, generally lose a lot in the end, after all, there are good cards, once Ning Yuan has only a small king in his hand, not even a 2, but also caught, the results are self-evident.

Therefore, when it was time to eat dinner, Ning Yuan lost alone, but it was not much, only a few dozen yuan, after all, the stakes at this time were not big, and he was a relative.

learned that Ning Yuan lost alone, which made Ning Dayun so angry that he scolded Zhu Zhigang and his son:

"Xiaoyuan rarely comes once a year, and if you come, you can win money, right?"

Zhu Zhigang's personality is a bit 'face' in Lingshan dialect, that is, he is a real person who does not like to speak quietly, and he is a little sneering when he hears the words, and Zhu Xiaoming is different from his brothers Zhu Xiaosong and Zhu Xiaojing, more like his father.

was counted down by Ning Dayun like this, and they both looked embarrassed.

Ning Yuan couldn't cry or laugh: "Auntie, it's not normal to play cards and win and lose, and besides, there is not much money, it's okay, it's just to pass the time." ”

"Then they can't partner ......"

Ning Dayun chattered a few more words, but let Ning Yuan reveal a few joking words.

Every household has enough New Year's goods, and when Ning Yuan and them came, Ning Dayun worked hard to cook, and set up a big table, which made Zhu Zilu and Ning Xue drool.

Zhu Zilu was just about to sit down, but was pulled away by her mother Xie Zhen: "Adults eat, what table are you on." ”

Ning Yuan waved his hand: "Sister-in-law, there are no outsiders, and it's not that you can't sit down, you and your aunt don't be busy, come over and eat together." ”

Women don't go to the table, which is naturally an old tradition left over from the past, just like Ning Yuan's views on firecrackers and footwraps, which are definitely out of place.

And every Chinese New Year, the busiest are women, they are the ones who cook, they are the ones who wash the dishes, and they are the ones who clean up when the guests leave.

As for men, they have a good reputation for entertaining guests, so when the guests come, they accompany them to drink tea and smoke and chat, and the melon seed skin cigarette ash is all over the ground, and when they play cards, they also have to play with them, and when they eat, they also have to accompany them to persuade them to drink.

Of course, this is a custom that has been passed down for many years, and it will definitely not be reversed for a while, even in the previous life, when Ning Yuan came back to sweep the tomb during the Qingming Festival more than ten years later, he came to his aunt's house for dinner, and it was only slightly reversed, if there were no outsiders, she and her sister-in-law Xie Zhen would come over to eat together, if there were outsiders, they still wouldn't.

But now, the atmosphere has not changed, and they themselves accept this habit, after Ning Yuan said it, Xie Zhen hurriedly waved his hand.

In the end, Ning Yuan dragged his aunt over and sat down on the chair, and then Xie Zhen took Zhu Zilu to sit on the table together.

"I drove today, so I stopped drinking and drank like them. ”

Ning Yuan said this, Zhu Zhigang and Zhu Xiaoming were not people who could speak well, and after a few words of persuasion, seeing that Ning Yuan was resolute, he didn't persuade anymore.

It was Ning Daqiang, who couldn't help but look at Ning Yuan, Ning Yuan said angrily: "This is at my aunt's house, you can drink a little." ”

Ning Daqiang immediately grinned with joy, while Ning Dayun and the others were all amused.

After eating in the evening, it is inevitable to watch "Water Margin".

"You guys did a really good job, it feels like it happened at that time. ”

Zhu Zhigang and ordinary people don't understand acting, and the most intuitive feeling is that acting is like the real thing.

In other words, this is not like a TV series, but a documentary, which appears vividly in front of people, allowing people to understand the history, humanity and social features of that period.

"Haha, that's for sure, it took several years to prepare for this play, and I also consulted a lot of experts in history, costumes, etc., to restore that era to the greatest extent, but there must still be some problems in it, but it is already the best effort of the whole crew. Ning Yuan said with a smile.

At this time, they all watched it with relish, not to mention these adults, even Zhu Xiaoming's daughter Zhu Zilu, who was not yet twelve years old, watched it with relish.

As for Ning Yan and Ning Xue, not to mention, even if the plot doesn't attract them, as long as it's filmed by their brother, they will watch it.

Because of the winter vacation, Ning Xue and Zhu Zilu didn't have to get up early, so Ning Yuan and they didn't leave until they finished watching both episodes.

"I'll pick you up tomorrow morning by car and wait at home. ”

Ning Yuan said before that they would go to Qiongdao for the Chinese New Year this year, but they didn't tell others in detail, and they didn't hide it from Ning Dayun.

Therefore, the New Year's greetings after the year will be moved to the year before, today Ning Yuan and they are here, and tomorrow their family will go to Ning Yuan's house.

Anyway, the New Year is like this, eat and drink, you eat at my house, I go to your house to eat, although it is eating and drinking, but it is also to deepen the relationship, after all, there is usually no reason for that, and there is little time.

Of course, Ning Dayun didn't think that Ning Yuan was showing off, others may have an element of showing off when they buy a car, but a star like Ning Yuan, buying a car is nothing.

So they smiled and agreed.

The next day, Ning Yuan took them to his home to play for a day, and then sent them back in the evening.