Chapter 228: Time Turns

Life is made up of journeys one by one. Every journey is a road, straight, curved, or even roundabout, straight is temporary, and twists and turns are eternal. There is no river in the world that leads straight to the sea, and life does not lead directly to death. Life is a process of hurting, healing, and starting again. If the injury is healed, the sun will be shining, but in the next paragraph, there will still be setbacks, and there will be injuries, or scars, or wounds outside the skin. Injury is not terrible, as long as you keep moving forward, you will eventually return to a happy place, and happiness is the ultimate yearning of life. To be a man, you must know how to go around the corner, and you can't be a person who hits the south wall and doesn't look back. Many people are smart, but they don't succeed, mostly because they don't know how to detour, and stupid people often fly first, because they know how to try all kinds of methods again and again, even if they don't hesitate to spare a long way. Turning a corner, isn't it "the mountains and rivers are full of doubts, and the willows and flowers are bright and another village"

There is no such thing as a perfect person, and nothing is perfect. For example, in love, even if the two love to death and live, there is still the trouble of not being able to be together, breaking through all the obstacles, and then being together, there is still the sadness of "going first and then leaving". It is also common if you can't meet someone who can love or love you in your life. For example, when you are sad for your career, time still slips away from crying ruthlessly. The same is true of filial piety to parents, caring for friends, schooling, and so on. Every road, even if it seems smooth, is up or down. When you go up, you reach the top of the mountain and you can enjoy the beautiful view of the mountains, but then you have to go down. When you go down, the road is like the bottom of a pot leading to a big cauldron, and finally there is an upward road on all four sides, if you don't strive to go up, then you will always stay in the low place, and there will be no turning point for life. No matter up or down, as long as you are willing to walk, there is still a road at the end of the road. Why do people have no way out? In fact, it is a feeling of despair. When there are thorns on the road under your feet, you have already imagined the worst ending, and all the roads in front of you are regarded as a sea of swords and fire. What is even more incomprehensible is that there are people who are always obsessed with feelings of despair. A person who yearns for happiness regards suffering as a lesson, and his heart is still attached to happiness, and he regards painful days as moments waiting for happiness.

Happiness or unhappiness is not measured by the current situation of life, but by a state of mind. With hope, courage and courage, anything is possible. To have happiness requires striving to get closer to happiness, and then to trample the pain under your feet and let happiness pour into life. On the road to happiness, one foot deep and one shallow, painful and crying, in the end, it is just a story to talk about, not the haze of life. Life is finite, and happiness and suffering are half each, which is the law of balance in life. Life is still a circle, the beginning is also the end, and the end is also the beginning. Instead of crying, it is better to be happy, not to suffer because of loss, not to be complacent because of gain, gain and loss are a kind of possession. Happiness will not be anywhere else, and happiness is true happiness when you feel happy. "There is nothing in the world, mediocre people disturb themselves" to be able to take it, but also to put it down, always go forward lightly, meet the river to repair the bridge, open the road in the mountains, tired, take a break, bitter, suck nectar, happy, grasp it. Refresh yourself every day, delete what you don't want to see or want, open the picture you need, and everything in the world is as you wish. Life is a practice, life is a state of mind, adjust the mood, no matter how big the difficulty can be calmly faced, but also can penetrate to the other side of happiness

I like that kind of friendship, not so much, not so strong, not so sweet, not so all the time, even sometimes it takes years, ten years, half a century to time it, it is so little, so true, so long.

If there is someone to share the sorrow, it is not a comfort, and if there is someone to accompany you, when and where is not the heart is warm and peaceful.

The truest feelings are always the same: the tears in the dead skin are broken into laughter, and the willingness is tireless.

Some people enter their hearts as they walk, just like old friends, and some people fade out of sight while walking, and it is difficult to make friends;

Some loves, in the course of the years, slowly dissolve, no longer unforgettable;

Some people, in the intersection, slowly move away, as if there is no trace;

Some things, in time, slowly calm down, and never move again.

Therefore, the encounter between people depends on fate, and the heart and heart know each other by sincerity, if there are two or three friends in life, nothing to talk about, never leave it, it can be described as lucky......

It doesn't matter how long two people have been together, what matters is whether you have been in this person's heart or not. Some people stay in their hearts for a lifetime even if they are together for a day;

Some people have not spent a day in their hearts even if they have been together for a lifetime.

To choose a friend is to choose a way of life.

Self-cultivation is the premise of making good friends, which is equivalent to opening up the friendliest world to oneself and making one's life shine.

A true friend is not one who has endless conversations together, but one that doesn't feel embarrassed even if you don't say a word.

Friends are like sparkling gems, which need to be carved with sincerity, kept fresh with understanding, and modified with communication.

Friends don't have to be the right person, but they must be in the same boat;

It doesn't have to be inseparable, but it must be heart-to-heart;

It doesn't have to be the icing on the cake, but it must be a blessing in the snow, and it doesn't have to be seen every day, but it must be kept in mind.

Habit is an action that accumulates over time.

Lovers often say: "I no longer have love for you, it has become a habit" In fact, there is nothing wrong with habit: it makes you do it naturally, think about him naturally, and love him naturally......

When you no longer feel that you are giving, maybe you feel that you have begun to get used to it, and having him by your side in your life is true love.

Treat the person you're used to!

If you don't give up, how can you have it, and if you don't keep loneliness, you can't see prosperity.

The real charm of a person is not that you make a good first impression on the other person, but that the other party still likes to be with you after knowing you for many years.

It's not that you instantly attract the other person's attention, it's that the other party still appreciates you after they are familiar with you.

It's not that after the first meeting, there is a feeling of hating each other, but after going through all the vicissitudes of life, I sincerely confide: It's good to know you.

Sanmao also once said: The beauty of time lies in its inevitable passing. Spring. Autumn Moon. Summer. Winter snow. If it's good, it's wonderful, and if it's bad, it's an experience.

Cherish the time now, time is fair, as long as you work hard, every moment is the most beautiful time.

Be happy: let the world be troubled, and keep the years safe.

The years are a journey with no return, and the good and the bad are the scenery. Live happily in the moment, do not avoid, do not escape, and face life with a calm and natural attitude.

Life doesn't need too much baggage, accept yourself calmly, enjoy life, enjoy happiness, and let yourself smile like a flower