☆、07452 - just arrange work

Brother: "Part of the reason why Pei Miao and I got married late is that my father has brought us too much pressure. ”

Me: "Daddy can really hear us now. ”

Brother: "I said the same thing to my face." If a single or double spiritual root encounters a problem, the master will definitely have to pay part of the responsibility, and of course, the biggest problem will definitely be on the person who married the baby. However, Pei Miao and I, especially Pei Miao, did not get married at that time, and the most obvious obstacle was pressure. Some of these pressures are on our own initiative, some of them are external, and in the middle, Daddy is the big one, because for both of us, Daddy's presence is very strong. ”

Me: "Why don't I feel this pressure?"

Brother: "Just because you didn't feel it, Dad put more pressure on you, and then he also used this pressurized feeling on me and Pei Miao, forcing us to bottom out." You say you're so tireless. ”

Me: "Do you have any records of how my father and my brother got along in the past? This is the kind of record that says that when my brother was not very stable, my father pointed him out. ”

Brother: "I don't think the mentality of the senior brother is very unstable. There may be some confusion sometimes, but he will be firm when he works. In that process, Dad probably arranged some work for the senior brother, but in the matter of arranging work, the worker directly assigned by the father was actually the head, but the head of the work has always been able to push the work, so many things eventually fell on the senior brother. ”

Brother: "So if you want to give advice, it should be that after the head saw the content of the work, he felt that this content could be done by the senior brother and was conducive to his cultivation, so he transferred it to the senior brother." It's the master's teaching to the apprentice, it can't be said that the father is instructing the senior brother, right? Anyway, even if the senior brother doesn't take those jobs, the father will definitely still ask to see the work completed. If others can't do it well, let the head do it himself. ”

Me: "Dad directly instructed the senior brother to take someone to the Kunlun Kick Gym. ”

Brother: "That's what the ancestor asked Dad to handle, otherwise the matter should be transferred to the debt collection office." The ancestor felt that the senior brother could handle the matter by himself, and in that case, if the debt collection department employee took action, it would not necessarily be more than the senior brother himself to recover the debt, and it would give the senior brother one less chance to train, and maybe this opportunity would become the demon of the senior brother, so the ancestor arranged for the father to persuade the senior brother to do it himself. ”

Brother: "As for why the ancestor arranged for the father to persuade him, instead of saying it himself, you have to ask the ancestor." However, the master may not say any justification, anyway, the master instructed the apostles to do things often very unreasonably. ”

Brother: "And Dad's persuasion will definitely not be a soft comfort." He directly assigned this matter as a task. It seems that the elder brother quite likes Dad's comfort method of being straight to the point and not saying polite words. ”

☆、07453-cub identity

I would also like. That's a lot of truth. Empty words of comfort and palliative treatment are not cured. When you have the strength to solve the problem, you should do it first, and then talk about whether you want to talk about it or not.

Me: "Senior brother is called Daddy's half apprentice, is this saying widely spread?"

It's hard for me to judge whether a claim is widely circulated, because with the amount of information I've gathered, I can only count how many times a claim has been mentioned on which occasions, at what time period, and by which type of people, but this cannot actually be used as a basis for judging whether it is widespread or not. Especially like the big brother, there are a lot of black, it may be that a few people are swiping the screen intensively and some people are biased by the people who swipe the screen, which has caused a heated discussion for a period of time, and this situation has been mentioned many times, and it seems to be very lively, and the recognition is also very limited.

Just because you have a loud voice doesn't mean you can get into people's hearts. I wonder what the silent ones think.

However, the elder brother couldn't come to a conclusion, he only said: "There is such a statement, but it should not be wide." Things related to my father, except for giving birth, are not widely spread. ”

Pei Bing grasped another key point to criticize me: "The language spoken can't satisfy you anymore?"

Maoqiu: "The stronger the divine sense, the easier it seems to be to see through people's inner thoughts?"

Pei Yue: "However, the stronger it is, the less likely it is to return to the identity of the child who should be taken care of." ”

As long as you start to break away, no matter how strong you are, you can't go back. When the cub retreats and is weak, the adults will pity it, and the adults will only be trampled on by other adults when they become weak.

The pup stage is indulged only so that the cub has a full opportunity to develop its potential and see if it can lead the whole group to be strong, and when the pup period is over, the potential has been turned into actual ability, and the unknown expectation value is lost, and the need to be treated leniently is lost.

Wait a minute, Pei Wei Lingbao said that my cultivation ceiling has not been formed, that is, my potential has not been fully realized, that is, I still have unknown expected value.

Pei Jianzhuo said with a smile: "Yes, that is, you can continue to forcibly rely on the cub group." ”

Actually, there is a compromise, I can continue to be a cub in the hearts of a small number of people while being considered an adult by most people. Isn't there a saying that in the hearts of parents, children are always children?

Pei Kong: "You...... Can you first explain the reason why you have to hold on to your child's identity? Just to get more tolerance? But haven't you always liked fair trade? While receiving Elder Pei Ji's protection, you have always hoped that you have brought Elder Pei Ji the same benefits. ”

Pei Kong: "What can the positioning of a child bring you more? Even if the whole world thinks that you are an adult, no one will stop you if you want to play, right?" Elder Yi Ruo is still playing with the junior, and Elder Guanghe, as an old disrespectful thing, others will not say that he should not be like this with his identity. Isn't this group of monks always unscrupulous, as long as they want to do it, as long as they cultivate high enough, can they do anything in any capacity?"

☆、07454-Fear

Pei Kong: "Am I right to understand it this way? Or am I missing my understanding as a bystander because I don't have spiritual power?"

Well...... It should be right, very reasonable.

Pei Kong: "So?"

I just don't get used to it. Or ...... Fear of change. Rational analysis: I know that a small identity change does not prevent me from doing what I want to do, but I am afraid that there is a compulsion hidden in this change that I did not expect now.

Even though I knew that I was not first given this identity and then asked to do what this identity corresponded to, but I first did what this identity should do, and then I was positioned under this identity. I know that I was called a new identity only after I had been fully converted, and that everything except the change of title was just a continuation of the present and would not have any compulsion, but......

Still afraid.

It's fear.

I want to talk to Elder Hui Mushroom about my fears and fears. But now I can clearly realize that Elder Hui Mushroom will definitely not answer all my questions. It's not the confused feeling of 'Elder Hui Mushroom doesn't answer because she annoys me, but if I happen to be in a particularly good mood with her, or if I happen to be carrying something that interests her, maybe she can reward me with two words', but 'I can't get the benefits she needs, so she won't give me benefits for nothing'.

'What she's interested in' and 'She's happy to see me' is actually the same as 'she's happy to have an advantage'. The two types of expressions are the same thing, but with a different expression, it seems to be a lot colder, and I can't get used to it. But the problem is that I am sure that I prefer an explicit exchange of interests to the special care in the name of false affection.

I hesitated to contact the elder brother and asked, "Can I still get preferential treatment from you that doesn't deliberately explain the exchange of benefits?"

Senior brother: "There is an exchange of interests, as long as you don't say it directly?"

Me: "If I ask you to be straightforward, you will explain to me in detail what you have gained from me and what you have given me?"

Big brother: "If the explanation can bring new benefits, yes." Generally speaking, however, even if an act of explanation can bring benefits, it is either only necessary to explain a few key points, or only one point needs to be put forward to delay the explanation, and it is almost impossible to make a comprehensive and detailed and precise explanation. ”

☆、07455-grasp the key points of the event

Me: "I was scared of being treated like an adult creature. ”

Big Brother: "When you really step inside, you should find that all your worries are easy to solve. ”

Me: "Is it 'existential but easy to solve' rather than 'non-existent'?"

Big Brother: "When you're worried, it's there. Your worries are part of this being. ”

Me: "I find words valuable. The same content, in some terms, just makes me more acceptable. ”

Big Brother: "Part of the reason for this is that you listen too much and do too little. When you do enough to focus your attention on the 'thing', any 'statement' of others related to the matter will automatically become an extension of your understanding of the matter in your consciousness, and become the decoration of the 'thing', without shaking the thing itself. ”

Senior Brother: "If you use one speech to analyze the other, assuming that neither speech contains other powers, but is just a contest of the words themselves, then the two are of the same level, and there is no distinction between the two and you, and you can only judge the winners or losers based on your preferences and cognition. ”

Senior brother: "But if there is an 'event' to rely on, then the event will replace you as the referee, so that you can stay away from one step and not be involved in the speech, always with the 'event' filter, peel off the distractions of the speech, and restore the relatively fixed authenticity." ”

Senior Brother: "In battle, the magnitude of 'facts' is higher than that of 'discourse modification', and discourse can defeat facts in a roundabout way, but the ceiling of discourse achievements is far lower than that of facts, and if discourse and facts are not opposed, and choose to cooperate, that upper limit ...... There can be no upper limit, and the world can be achieved. ”

Me: "You're crooked." ”

Big Brother: "Has the fear subsided a bit?"

Me: "It's gone." ”

Senior Brother: "That's not crooked. I'm grasping the 'key points of the event', not the superficial semantics. As long as the core topic is not ignored, then how the surface words seem to deviate will eventually be summarized to the core. ”

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