Chapter 164: Believe
Liu Qingmei happily told Lin Ping about her high school life in the past month after entering the county No. 1 Middle School, for her, everything is new, everything is desirable, and everything is expected.
Looking at Liu Qingmei's cute appearance of positive sunshine, Lin Ping smiled and asked, "No one bullied you, right?"
Liu Qingmei shook her head and said with a smile: "Of course not, I think everyone is fine." ”
Lin Ping nodded and said calmly: "Qingmei, people's hearts are unpredictable, the most difficult thing in the world to see through is people's hearts, don't trust anyone easily, and don't define others as a good person casually." Including the teacher me. ”
Liu Qingmei was stunned when she heard Lin Ping's words, looked at Lin Ping and smiled and asked, "Old ...... Teacher, I don't quite understand what you mean?"
Lin Ping put the documents in his hand on the table, then looked at the ceiling and said: "If you can't believe your words, you will be reasonable; ”
Lin Ping looked at Liu Qingmei and explained with a smile: "This sentence means that you can't completely believe what others say, you must observe it carefully, and then analyze and measure it on a rational basis, so as to judge the truth or falsehood of this sentence." Don't rush to do it, you must first ask your heart, ask yourself if you are really willing to do it, whether it violates your conscience, and then decide whether to do it. What I tell you this means is that you should not draw conclusions about people and things too early, and you can see people's hearts after a long time, and don't label others as good and bad people in your heart too early. ”
Liu Qingmei smiled and said, "Teacher, I think...... I haven't met any bad guys. ”
"yes, that's your biggest problem. Lin Ping looked at Liu Qingmei seriously and said, "Because you have a simple and kind personality, and you always look at the world with kindness, it is naturally difficult for you to discover the sinister aspects of human nature for a while." But therefore, the teacher tells you a sentence that you must keep in mind in the future: you are well-intentioned, but the world is not entirely well-intentioned, and your kindness may just give the bad people the opportunity to commit crimes. ”
For Lin Ping, educating students is to distinguish education, like Liu Gang, Liu Hesheng and other "bad" children want to do laws and regulations to persuade and educate them to be good, because they have a kind of "evil" in their hearts, only by persuading and educating them to be good, can they gradually use goodness to reconcile the "evil thoughts" in their hearts, so that they will not amplify the evil thoughts in their hearts with growth, and finally can become an ordinary person with a balance between good and evil, clear love and hate, and law-abiding.
And like Liu Qingmei, she is kind by nature and simple-hearted, which is a good thing in itself, but society is cruel after all, and people with too much kindness are often easy to be taken advantage of by bad people. Therefore, Lin Ping had to find a way to educate them to restrain their goodwill and enhance their vigilance and sense of danger.
In this society, it is necessary to let children have a kind heart, but it is also necessary to let children have a sense of danger and vigilance.
Liu Qingmei said with a smile: "Teacher, don't they all say that there are still many good people in the world." ”
Lin Ping glanced at Liu Qingmei and said very sternly: "Yes, there are still many good people in the world." But nothing good happens to you with ninety-nine good people, and once you meet one bad person, that bad person may kill you. In this world, don't bet on human nature, don't bet that the people you meet must be good people. ”
Lin Ping continued to smile and said, "Do you think I'm a good person, teacher?"
Liu Qingmei nodded and then said with a sweet smile: "Well, Teacher Lin must be a good person!"
"Wrong!"
Lin Ping retorted sharply.
Looking at Lin Ping with a serious face, Liu Qingmei was a little at a loss.
Lin Ping then said indifferently: "Don't trust anyone 100%, including teacher me. There are no 100% good people in this world, and it is impossible for 100% good people to survive, which is the law of survival of the fittest in nature and human society. Any good person you identify as having a dark side to them that they don't know about, and maybe 99 percent of them are good and the remaining 1 percent are bad. And the same is true of teachers, so even people like teachers and me, you have to beware of a little bit, you have to beware of the dark side in the hearts of every good person. ”
Liu Qingmei looked at Lin Ping blankly, her mind was overwhelmed by Lin Ping's words, and she opened her mouth and said, "Teacher...... I...... You ......"
Lin Ping looked at Liu Qingmei and showed a warm smile: "You are a kind girl, and I also hope that the world can treat you gently." But society is complicated after all, so I hope that you can grow up healthily and not be hurt by your kindness. ”
Liu Qingmei lowered her head and was silent for a long time, then raised her head, her bright eyes contained a look of doubt, looked at Lin Ping and asked, "Then, teacher, is there no one in the world who is completely trustworthy and entrusted?"
After hearing this, Lin Ping smiled and said, "Qingmei, how can you still ask such a stupid question. Although you asked, I think you should have a clear answer in your own mind. But the teacher still has to tell you: no. Unless you are desperate and have no choice but to trust someone completely. ”
Liu Qingmei's eyes flickered: "Teacher, what about the parents?"
Lin Ping was silent for a while: "Do you still want to ask me this question? Didn't your father abandon your mother and you?"
Liu Qingmei lowered her head and whispered, "What about my mother?"
Lin Ping sighed and said with a smile: "Parents will also have limitations due to the environment, times, knowledge and other issues, most parents love their children, but there are always some exceptions. Didn't your mother make mistakes before and didn't let you go to school? No one is a sage or a sage, and everyone makes mistakes sometimes, even parents make mistakes. So, study hard, read a lot of books, listen to a wide range of positive and negative voices, and then set a standard for judging things in your heart, and don't blindly believe and follow everything. If you obey your mother and don't come to school, then you may stay in this mountain for the rest of your life and then obey your mother's words and marry and have children casually. ”
Liu Qingmei lowered her head and was silent for a long time without speaking.
After a while, Lin Ping said with a smile: "What the teacher said may be a little heavy and cruel, but I hope you can understand, you will be a kind girl after all, but the teacher hopes that you will not be too kind." ”
Liu Qingmei raised her head at this time and looked at Lin Ping and said firmly: "But, teacher, no matter what, Qingmei will believe you." ”