Chapter 162: The Truth About Suicide
Su Chen said this, not because of He Jingguo's identity as the principal.
Su Chen's attitude towards Li Xuan was so indifferent, let alone to a principal, the reason why he respected He Jingguo so much was because of He Jingguo's temperament.
Scholars will have a literary temperament, and the richness of this literary temperament is determined by the level of talent.
People with high talents, people who are good at learning, the more rich this literary atmosphere is, and in China's thousands of years of history, everyone knows the one with the highest literary atmosphere, that is Confucius.
This is the true saint of literature.
But in addition to doing one's own learning, there is another situation that will also accumulate a literary atmosphere, that is, teacher morality.
Teaching and educating people, every time you teach a student, with the continuous improvement of the student's academic level, the cultural tone of the student's identity will also be fed back to the teacher.
However, this kind of culture has high requirements for the teacher's morality, and the teacher must teach these students sincerely, not because of the teacher's job, because of some interest reasons, is to really pass on the karma and solve the doubts.
The teacher sincerely teaches the students, and the students are grateful from the bottom of their hearts, and this cultural atmosphere is condensed in the teacher, and finally it will converge into the aura of teacher morality.
When Su Chen first saw He Jingguo, he found that the other party's aura behind him had converged into an aura, and this aura was still obvious, which showed that He Jingguo was a teacher who really taught and educated people, and cultivated many outstanding students.
For such a person, Su Chen is respectful.
Similarly, Su Chen didn't say such things because he respected He Jingguo, he had a layer of aura of teacher morality, He Jingguo himself was invincible, and He Anwen was He Jingguo's son, the two lived together, He Jingguo's teacher was virtuous, Xie Yating didn't dare to enter the He family.
Therefore, when the matter between Xie Yating and Zhao Qianqian is understood, and the cause and effect are completed, Xie Yating's soul will return to the underworld, so as long as He Anwen stays at home and does not go out, it will be fine after the waiting time.
Maybe many people think this is unfair, but the law of the yang world is like this, which is actually the same reason that the state now gives some people who have contributed to society, and some martyrs and some people who are righteous and brave, giving their children extra points in exams, and giving priority to some jobs.
It's like there is a popular saying among the people: do more good deeds and accumulate blessings for future generations.
This is true.
"Mr. Su, can you tell me the specific situation?" He Jingguo asked.
"Let's let your son tell me what happened first, why Xie Yating committed suicide by jumping off the building, what did he say to Xie Yating, and is there some kind of selfishness in the criticism of Xie Yating?"
Xie Yating committed suicide by jumping off the building, and she must have resentment, but if He Anwen really criticized Xie Yating out of the teacher's hatred for the students, and did not report any selfishness, no matter how big Xie Yating's resentment is, it will not hurt He Anwen.
Because this is not allowed by the laws of the yang world.
Heaven and Earth Monarch Teacher.
Teachers are second only to parents and elders, and it is natural for parents and elders to teach their children, and it is also natural for teachers to educate students, and it is also permissible for teachers to criticize students.
The son does not teach the fault of the father, and the teacher is lazy if he does not teach strictly.
"Anwen, did you hide something and didn't say it?"
As soon as He Jingguo heard Su Chen's words, he understood, and immediately turned his head and glared at his son, and shouted, "You'd better say it one by one." ”
Being drunk like this by his father, He Anwen's body trembled, his body has been weak recently, but he was not so frightened by a sentence, Su Chen understood that this was because He Jingguo was very strict with his son's family education, and the majesty formed over the years.
"I ...... There's one thing I haven't said. He Anwen replied hesitantly.
Say. He Jingguo didn't expect that his son would really hide some things, thinking that this was related to a girl's life, his face turned pale.
"At that time, didn't the school evaluate advanced teachers? I was competing with Ma Ting, but in the end it was Ma Ting who was selected, I was angry in my heart, whether it was teaching quality or class results, I was better than Ma Ting, why did I lose the election?"
When He Anwen said this, his tone was still with a wisp of resentment, but Yang Li on the side heard this, but his eyes looked at He Jingguo, he was clear about the process of selecting this advanced teacher, and the reason why Ma Ting was selected in the end was a decision made by Principal He.
In the words of Principal He, Mr. Ma is from a rural area, and if he is selected for this, he can get the urban household registration index, and Mr. Ma Ting is also very good, which is fully qualified for this qualification.
When He Jingguo heard his son's words, his face twitched, but he didn't speak.
"When the results of the selection were announced that day, Ma Ting was wearing a red skirt, I was very angry, and when I went back to the classroom, I happened to find that Xie Yating was also wearing a red skirt, so I sent this anger on her and asked her to go to the office to punish her, and the criticism of her was heavier when she was in the office. But I ......."
Syllable!
Before He Anwen finished speaking, He Jingguo slapped him, this slap was very hard, and He Anwen's whole person was stunned.
"How many times have I told you, as a teacher, teaching and educating people, you can't bring your private emotions to the classroom, let alone treat students differently by virtue of your own preferences, I'm glad that I didn't give you the title of advanced teacher at the beginning, you can't afford this title at all. ”
He Jingguo's hands were trembling, but you can imagine how hard this slap was, which also showed how angry he was in his heart.
After being a teacher for so many years, He Jingguo knows very well how much impact a teacher will have on students if he brings his or her own private emotions to the classroom, especially for primary school students, who are just beginning to be enlightened.
"Do you know? When you were studying as a teacher, many relatives and friends said that I had a successor, but I was full of worries, because I knew that the profession of a teacher was not easy to be, at least if you were a teacher, I would have very high requirements for you, so on the day you were admitted to the quasi-editor, I specially sent you three sentences. ”
"Young people are rushing streams, fast but shallow, and boats are easy to run aground, and old teachers are deep pools, slow but deep, and can withstand the bottom of the rocks.
All good relationships must first let the other party know what their bottom line is. For teachers, the bottom line is to ensure the normal order of education and teaching, and for students, the bottom line is to ensure that their own personality is respected.
Utilitarianism is an important cause of burnout. It is inevitable that human beings will have vanity and utilitarianism, so we must always be vigilant against ourselves. Burnout is difficult to completely eliminate, and only by finding a sense of professional happiness can we drive away and replace burnout. Weeds can never be uprooted, only crops can be planted. ”
He Jingguo's three sentences made He Anwen blush, he chose to be a teacher because he saw his father so respected by others, but when he really stepped on the classroom post, he knew that being a teacher was harder than he imagined.
Seeing He Jingguo teaching his son, Su Chen sighed, a good teacher, who taught so many students and disciples, but he didn't expect that he didn't teach his son well.
But think about it, in fact, there are many such things, and some teachers and police officers are often too dedicated and neglect the education of their children, which eventually leads to tragedy.
He Anwen's reason was found, but now there is still the truth about Zhao Qianqian.
In Xie Yating's suicide, what kind of role does Zhao Qianqian play.
Su Chen looked behind him, and a figure appeared there, the figure of a middle-aged woman.
"It's Xie Yating's mother here. ”
Seeing this figure, Yang Li said a word and named the identity of the person who came, but He Jingguo made an unexpected move at this time, directly slapped his son on the head, and shouted: "You brute kneel down for me." ”
He Anwen stumbled after being beaten, but when he saw his father's eyes that wanted to eat people, he finally gave in and knelt down.
"Principal He, Teacher He?"
Seeing this scene, Yang Li hurriedly opened his mouth to persuade him, but He Jingguo directly interrupted his words and said: "I asked him to kneel, so that he knelt down to Xie Yating's mother, this beast killed someone's daughter, shouldn't he kneel?"
When He Anwen knelt down, Xie Yating's mother also happened to come over, and when she saw this scene, she obviously didn't understand, so she was stunned for a moment, and then asked suspiciously, "Teacher He, what's wrong?"
"Mother Xie, this beast is sorry for your family, killed Xie Yating, I asked him to kneel for you. He Jingguo explained.
"This ...... How can I blame Teacher He, Teacher He is also to teach my daughter well, the principal, I really don't need it, I only blame my daughter for being too fragile, I don't blame Teacher He. ”
Xie Yating's mother hurriedly waved her hand, when she knew that her daughter was dead, she did have a grudge against this Teacher He in her heart, but she didn't hate it later, in her opinion, Teacher He also wanted to teach her daughter well, and also to make her daughter become a talent.
As a divorced single mother, Xie's mother clearly knows the importance of knowledge, so she has great hopes for her daughter and sends her daughter to the best primary school, hoping that her daughter can study hard and not have to live so hard in the future.
And in Xie's mother's opinion, it is natural for teachers to criticize students, and when she was a child, teachers often beat them with a ring ruler.
Children are too naughty, so they have to rely on strict education to be useful.
"Mother Xie, you don't know what this beast has done. ”
When He Jingguo heard Xie's mother's words, the guilt on his face became even stronger, he thought he was worthy of the profession of a teacher in his life, but he didn't expect that he would be ruined in the hands of his son in the end.
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