Chapter 372: Everyday Meals (4)
Li Xin said: "Maybe it's a coincidence, after work, I almost can't get in touch with software development opportunities, all I get in touch with is the data of sugar production, and I am doing it well in sugar futures, so I slowly put my attention on investment." It just so happens that I need to deal with a lot of data when making investments, and I am sensitive to data, so I guess I stumbled into it by mistake. ”
Although Xia Xiaona's father is a technical job and has nothing to do with financial matters, he has rich life experience and knows that everything has a reason.
There is a story about Sister Lin falling from the sky in the novel, and there is no such thing as coming and going without a trace in real life. It's the same with investment, there must be a history to trace, and the history of everything ultimately comes down to data.
The first thing to do in the learning and development of any technology is to learn from the past history, without which everything is empty talk.
A philosopher once said: All my achievements have been achieved by standing on the shoulders of giants.
I have bought stocks for many years, but I have never raised the matter of buying stocks to the level of data research, no wonder Li Xin can see investment opportunities that he and the two chairmen of their company can't see.
didn't expect Li Xin to be able to see through such a profound truth at such a young age, which made Xia Xiaona and her father secretly admire.
From the perspective of a person who has come over, just from today's short contact and the situation his daughter said, he can see that Li Xin no longer has any problems in terms of professional technology, and his problem is that he is young and vigorous. If he can solve this problem, the future of this young man is limitless!
However, as a person who has also been before, he also knows that the handling of social relations is often more difficult than the breakthrough of technical difficulties, and there are too many things here that are not subject to your personal will.
The breakthrough of technical difficulties, as long as it takes time, there will always be some gains, if the parties are smart, sometimes it is just half the effort, and it may even be twice the result with half the effort.
However, the handling of interpersonal relationships has too much to do with personal pattern and personality, but has little to do with IQ. If it is that person, he is familiar with dealing with such a problem, and there is no need to deliberately do it at all. But if it weren't that person, he would be at a loss in the face of such a problem, and he wouldn't know where to start.
Where the young man in front of him will be in the crowd in the future depends on his interpersonal skills, and if he does a good job in this area, his business ability is a good cornerstone for him to reach the next level.
But if interpersonal skills are lacking, things are likely to be a different story.
The rafters that come out break first. There is no shortage of smart brains in the world, but at the same time, there are more mediocre heads.
If a smart person wants to stand out, he must either be able to protect himself or have someone to protect him, otherwise, it is easy to disappear in the world of jealousy and envy.
Judging from what my daughter said just now, such a thing will not happen in the future, but has already happened, otherwise, Li Xin's position as assistant to the chairman should still be there now.
It seems that his estimation is correct, if his talent is to be displayed to a greater extent, it is difficult to get such an opportunity by relying on his own personality and temper, unless someone can help him.
Thinking of this, he just wanted to speak, when he heard his wife say: "Xiao Li, you are really young, what kind of work do your parents do?"
As a mother, Xia Xiaona's mother does not think as far as her husband, or she thinks about problems from a different angle than her husband, she thinks more about firewood, rice, oil and salt.
Xia Xiaona is her only daughter, and her family is also a scholarly family, and whether her well-behaved and beautiful daughter can have a good home in the future is what she cares about the most. The young man in front of her is impeccable in terms of talent, knowledge, and ability, but she also wants to know more about his family situation.
In fact, this is not a small problem, she doesn't want to climb the dragon and the phoenix, but she doesn't want to wronged her baby daughter, at least she has to be in the right place. Her daughter is kind, and she doesn't want her daughter to face a family with a poor cultural quality in the future.
What kind of family environment a person grows up in, it must bear the imprint of that environment. The bigger thing can involve the level of world view, and the smaller one has to do with a person's behavior in family life for decades to come, and it is related to the happiness of the daughter's life.
Unexpectedly, the husband and wife came to the same end in the same way, although the starting point for considering the problem was different, but in the end, they both settled on the issue of Li Xin's family background. As soon as her question came out, Xia Xiaona and her father were secretly surprised, and this was what she just wanted to ask.
Li Xin said: "My dad is in the bank, my mom is in the hospital, they are ordinary cadres. ”
"Are they also in Jiangcheng?"
"No, they said that they were not used to living in Jiangcheng, and they had been in their hometown in Lucheng. ”
"No wonder you are so experienced in investing, it turns out that your father is in the bank. ”
When Xia Xiaona heard this, she quickly interrupted her mother's questioning: "Mom, look at what you are doing, it's like checking the household registration, and you don't let people eat." ”
Xia Xiaona was very uneasy when she saw her parents inquiring about Li Xin's situation so endlessly. Although she has a crush on Li Xin in her heart, the current relationship between the two is still just an ordinary colleague relationship after all. If her parents continued to ask questions like this, it would not only make Li Xin feel embarrassed, but also embarrassed, so she quickly diverted the topic.
Although she complained a little about her parents in her heart, their questioning still made Xia Xiaona know some about Li Xin's family situation, and she didn't know anything about Li Xin's parents before that.
Xia Xiaona's mother listened to her daughter's words and said to Li Xin apologetically: "Look, you see, we have been chatting and have forgotten the theme of inviting you to dinner today." Because of the idea you gave us, you helped Nana and us make a lot of money, and I just want to thank you in person by inviting you to my home for this meal today. ”
Li Xin said: "Auntie, don't say that, Xia Xiaona and I are colleagues, so you don't need to be polite." ”
The speaker has no intention, but the listener has a heart.
Li Xin's answer deepened the worry in Xia Xiaona's and her father's hearts.
Xia Xiaona and her father often travel on business trips inside and outside the province, and he has been to Lucheng a few times, and he has some impressions that it is a small county town more than 200 kilometers away from Jiangcheng.
Compared with Jiangcheng, the banks and hospitals in Lucheng are only equivalent to the scale of a district-level bank and hospital in Jiangcheng, and they are even less famous in the province and even the whole country.
Li Xin's parents work in such a unit, even the top leaders of the unit will not have much energy, not to mention that Li Xin said that they are just ordinary cadres. It is obviously impossible to expect them to protect the young and vigorous Li Xin in the future, and go higher and farther.
Several people chatted while eating, and the meal lasted for more than an hour.
After coming out of Xia Xiaona's house, Li Xin secretly breathed a sigh of relief, he was very unaccustomed to such a scene, and the shirt on his back was wet.
Xia Xiaona sent Li Xin downstairs to the car, and she said apologetically: "My parents are chattering a little gossip, don't laugh." ”
"No, your parents are very enthusiastic, which makes me a little flattered. ”
"It's good that you're not surprised, and to be honest, sometimes I'm a little overwhelmed by their concern. ”
"You don't know how good it is to be in the midst of blessings, and how good it is to be by your parents' side every day after work. ”
Li Xin opened the car door and sat in, and then said to Xia Xiaona: "Go back, just say thank you to your father and mother, see you tomorrow." ”
"See you tomorrow!" Xia Xiaona stood in place and watched Li Xin's car gradually drive away, full of worries, she did not turn around and go home, but followed the street to a lake not far away. She hadn't recovered from her euphoria, and she needed to think quietly about what to do in the future.
I have known Li Xin for so many years, and there are many opportunities to eat together, but I can eat alone with Li Xin like today, or in my own home, Xia Xiaona's heart feels extremely happy.
Although she invited Li Xin to eat this meal in the name of gratitude, she injected a lot of girl's thoughts into this meal, she was worried that Li Xin would not be able to see her thoughts, and she was worried that she would be self-defeating.
So it's not just Li Xin who feels nervous and cramped at today's meal, Xia Xiaona is the same.
But in any case, today's contact is completely different from the previous contact with Li Xin in the company.
In Xia Xiaona's heart, the relationship between herself and Li Xin has taken a step further. The girl's heart was already full of expectations, and today's contact made her look forward to the future.
In the past, when she thought of Li Xin, Xia Xiaona's brows were frowned, but today, Xia Xiaona, who was standing by the lake, snuggling up to the railing and quietly looking at the lake, was filled with a joy that was not easy for outsiders to notice.
Unlike her daughter, it was Xia Xiaona's mother who was in a hurry to do it on the side.
After seeing Li Xin off at the door, as soon as the door was closed, Xia Xiaona's mother asked her husband, "What do you think?"
"How's that?"
"This young man. ”
"It's ok, pretty good. ”
"I think it's pretty good, it's just ......"
"Just what?"
"I think his relationship with Nana is really just an ordinary colleague. ”
"You're really, young people let them make their own decisions, it's not good for you to be so lazy. ”
"Don't you think Li Xin is good?"
"He's good, but that's what Nana has to do. ”
"I'm not worried about that, I think Nana likes him, but he doesn't necessarily mean that. ”
"How do you know?" asked Xia Xiaona's father curiously.
I could tell it from the way he looked at Nana. Don't you think Li Xin behaved very calmly in front of us?"
"Look at what you said, we didn't ask him anything, and it wasn't torture to extract a confession, it's normal for him to be calm and calm. ”