Family education, more than any kind of education, is in the first place in children's education.

School education, the most important thing is to impart knowledge, in most cases just to make children better at the college entrance examination. University education, on the other hand, is to train students to better integrate with society, and in most cases, to better find jobs for students.

Family education, on the other hand, has been teaching children how to behave.

The influence of parents on their children is subtle, far-reaching and long-lasting. Parents are the first role models for children, the "heroes" that children first know, and what kind of people parents are will greatly affect their children's lives and form a shadow in their subconscious.

Recently, the state has been advocating "family style", which is actually an important way of family education. Under the social phenomenon of the general aversion of the public to "bear children", family education is particularly important. If you don't let your children become bear children, parents can't be bear parents in the first place.

Juvenile delinquency in China is mainly concentrated in three types of families: first, single-parent families who do not receive sufficient care from their guardians; second, family relations are extremely disharmonious, with fathers often drinking and domestic violence, and mothers having too cowardly status in the family; and third, the elders in the family are too doting and indulgent to their children.

As the saying goes, "Filial piety comes from under the stick." But in fact, this perception is not correct, and the premise of this sentence depends on what kind of parents are parents. Take the father as an example, if a father is a man of good moral character, good character, courage to take on family responsibilities and love the family, then when the child makes mistakes, appropriate punishment will play a good role in punishing the child. "Noble sons from poor families" often come from families with such fathers, and even if the family is poor, the father must set a positive example for his children.

At the same time, hitting the child is not the goal, but to tell him why he is being beaten and how to avoid being beaten in the future. In this way, the child will become better under the influence of the father.

And if the father is a man who is not doing his job, has bad deeds, is drunk and domestic violence, and comes home after being angry outside, he vents his anger by beating his wife and scolding his children, and uses violent means to enhance his majesty and consolidate his family status. Then beating and scolding the child will make the child more rebellious, hate the family more, and the father-son relationship will always be in a state of tension when he grows up.

Also, corporal punishment is okay with the child, but don't scold the child. Scolding children is pointless, and it is easier to irritate and bring bad children than corporal punishment.

Again, most of us will eventually become parents, and we should also be better versions of ourselves for the sake of our children.

Liu Weiguo and his father confronted each other nervously, and Lin Ping was sandwiched between the two.

Lin Ping grabbed Liu Weiguo's father's wrist and then slowly put his hand down, and said, "I know that you are concerned about the child and worried about the child's life. But don't worry, as a teacher, except for parents, no one in the world cares more about the safety of children than us, I brought them to swim are fully prepared, choose the safest place, and I also have certain swimming skills, can effectively protect the children. ”

Liu Weiguo's father looked at Lin Ping but did not speak.

Lin Ping continued: "I believe you also know the story of Dayu's water control, Dayu's father Kun has been controlling the water for many years but ultimately failed, because Kun uses the method of 'blocking', the flood can only be managed for a while, and the more it accumulates, it will eventually break through the embankment; And children are like a flood, it will not work just by blocking, they will rebel, they will secretly go down the river from their parents, which is more dangerous. You also came from the age of Wei Guo, and I think you should be able to understand your youth. ”

Liu Weiguo's father glanced at Lin Ping, then shook his head and said, "You people in the city will play tricks, but you can't talk about you." There is culture, but you can't play. ”

After speaking, Liu Weiguo's father put on his shoes and turned around to leave.

Looking at his father's back, Lin Ping shouted: "Don't blame Liu Weiguo, communication is the best way to educate, you can blame me, you can go to the school to talk to me in the future." ”

Liu Weiguo's father bowed his head and scolded: "Han Zai, I'll talk about you with a shovel." ”

After Liu Weiguo's father left, Lin Ping and the children were not in the mood to continue swimming, so everyone climbed out of the water and got dressed.

Lin Ping looked at Liu Weiguo and said: "Weiguo, you did not give your father face just now, adults have good face, don't be so reckless in the future, it will make the relationship even more stiff." ”

Liu Weiguo lowered his head and said, "Teacher, you are a good person. I don't want to hear my father say that about you, and he doesn't say that about you. ”

Looking at the lost Liu Weiguo, Lin Ping smiled and hugged his shoulders. Not far away, the autumn leaves fell and returned to the roots under the trees, and Lin Ping breathed a long sigh of relief: "It is really the greatest luck in my life to meet you." ”

"No, teacher, it's the greatest blessing for us to have you. Liu Xiangqian said with a slight sycophancy.

Lin Ping laughed heartily, then hugged Liu Xiangqian again, and then several other students also joined in, everyone put their shoulders on each other's shoulders, and the seven of them formed a long "one" shape, and walked happily up the slope together.

At this time, Lin Ping and these six students seemed to be not teachers and students, but the closest friends.

"Students, can you sing?" Lin Ping asked happily.

"Yes. ”

"Of course!" said the children, stumbling.

"What will it be?" Lin Ping asked.

"Will be the national anthem!" Liu Weiguo said proudly.

"The national anthem is too solemn and solemn, it doesn't fit our current atmosphere, will there be anything else?" Lin Ping continued.

"The sun will come out and climb the hill!" Liu Xiangqian said mischievously, and then continued to sing, "I will fumble around when I climb the hillside......"

"You can pull it down, in the future, you will sing properly, and you will learn from learning, and don't put these messy things in your head. Lin Ping knocked Liu Xiangqian's head with his head.

"Can you sing 'Let's Swing the Sculls'?" Lin Ping asked again.

"Yes!" replied the six children in unison.

"Okay, let's sing together, okay!"

"Good!"

Lin Ping cleared his throat: "Come, I'll get up, 1!2!3! Ready, sing!"

"Let's swing the oars, the boat pushes the waves, the sea reflects the beautiful white tower, surrounded by green trees and red walls......"

The autumn wind carries a slight coolness, blowing down a few autumn leaves, the autumn is high and refreshing, the sky is exceptionally clear, and the singing of Lin Ping and the children soars into the sky, echoing between the mountains of Kushan.

Many years later, every child still remembers this day of "hooking shoulders and backs" and singing "Let's swing the sculls" together, which is an eternal memory in this mountain village years.

PS: By the way, I've always wanted to say it, but I always forgot to say it when I posted it, so let's talk about it here.

1 Thank you very much for reading and support, thank you for your collection and every recommended ticket, thank you very much!

2 This book itself is a book that promotes positive energy, so it may not be as cool as other books. And now...... Well, everyone understands that 404 is a bit fierce, and this book will be poured with poisonous chicken soup from time to time, I hope you don't dislike it and can take its essence and remove its dross.

3Well, I didn't think about it, thank you all again, bow!