Han Gang, who felt the need to talk to Yuan Jie seriously, once said to her solemnly when Yuan Jie asked him to go to his parents' house: "My parents' family is very important, and I have no disagreement with you on this point, but I think our own small family is also important." You said that your big family is also made up of you and your siblings' own small families, and if your respective small families are full of problems, the big family will not be harmonious, right?"

Yuan Jie asked unhappily, "What do you want to say?"

Han Gang said: "If you want to maintain your big family and make it happy, I agree with this." But the relationship between this big family and the small family is dialectical, just like a human body, and the overall health is based on the health of each cell. If there is a problem with the cells, it is a luxury for the human body to be healthy. I mean that you always go to your parents' house and your siblings' house regardless of time and place, so it's better to change your mind and think about it, let's run your own small family first is the first to bear the brunt. Only on this basis can we have a good relationship with them. Not to mention anything else, during the two rest days on Saturday and Sunday, I didn't even have time to read professional books by myself, and I spent the whole day at your parents' house and your siblings' house, and it was not good to go on like this for a long time!"

Yuan Jie said with disgust: "Are you misleading me, are you trying to provoke the relationship between me and my family?"

Han Gang was a little dazed in his head, he couldn't have imagined that he had explained the problem so clearly, but Yuan Jie's first thought was the most unlikely meaning in his words.

He was not only speechless at this time, but also deeply aware that the solution of this problem may take a long time.

Han Gang, who has been looking for an opportunity to discuss this issue with Yuan Jie again, once when the two were sitting on the sofa watching TV, he saw that the content of the law was discussed on TV, so he took advantage of the topic on TV and said: "In fact, there seems to be no blood relationship between the husband and wife, but from a legal point of view, the relationship between husband and wife is as important as the blood relationship between parents and children." The question of inheritance rights just mentioned on TV is very clear, and the relationship between husband and wife is the same as the blood relationship between parents and children, and they are immediate family members, ranking in the position of first heir. Other siblings who are related by blood are only collateral relatives, and their inheritance rights are ranked after immediate relatives. I've read an article before, which is more straightforward and realistic, saying that who can be with you for the longest time? is not someone else, but the other half of the relationship. In fact, if you think about it carefully, it is really like this, parents can't accompany you to old age, children can't accompany you to old age, and the only thing that accompanies you to old age can only be the husband and wife. Only a husband or wife is the one who accompanies you to the end of your life. ”

After Han Gang finished saying this, Yuan Jie didn't make any statement, Han Gang secretly observed Yuan Jie's expression, and she seemed to have listened to these words.

Although I don't know what she thinks in her heart, this time the effect is obviously much better than the last time she said in disgust that she wanted to sow discord between her and her family.

When Han Gang said this, Yuan Jie was not pregnant, he thought that Yuan Jie would change after hearing it, but what he didn't expect was that things were still the same.

After Yuan Jie gave birth to a child, this situation became more obvious.

His mother came all the way from her hometown to help her take care of the children, but she couldn't get the slightest favor from Yuan Jie, but she hated this and that.

The mother didn't stay long in her son's house, and Yuan Jie made an excuse to go home and replaced her own mother to take care of the child.

On the surface, it seems that although Han Gang's own mother doesn't have to work anymore, things don't look like this. Yuan Jie treated the two mothers so distinctly, which made Han Gang feel very angry in his heart.

He originally wanted to have a big fight with Yuan Jie, but after thinking about it carefully, he found that the handling of this matter was not so simple.

First of all, I can only stay at home for one or two days a week, and I don't have the confidence to speak by myself. If the relationship with Yuan Jie falls out, it is still the child who suffers.

Han Gang now deeply understands the embarrassing situation of a man between his wife and mother, to put it mildly, he is really like a rat in a bellows who is angry at both ends.

It is said that the relationship between the husband and wife will be stronger after they have children, but in Han Gang's opinion, this is not the case.

Before having children, the life of the two was relatively simple, and there were many things in common that could be found. But since Yuan Jie gave birth to a child, the contradictions in all aspects have intensified, and every time he returns home from work, he feels like an outsider.

It turns out that the world between the two is not as perfect as he expected, but it can always be expected. But now it's different, it turns out that Yuan Jie's heart is pretending to be her parents first, then her brothers and sisters, and then herself.

Now with the addition of children, Yuan Jie has even less thoughts on himself. There are more mothers-in-law and little nannies at home, and the time and opportunities for him and Yuan Jie to get along are getting less and less, and the relationship between the two is becoming more and more indifferent.

After Yuan Jie fed the child, he handed the child over to the little nanny to hold and sat down at the dining table to eat.

Just as her husband Han Gang felt in his heart, in Yuan Jie's heart, Han Gang had no place.

Now except for every weekend when Han Gang comes home, Yuan Jie can't remember that there is still this person.

Han Gang's salary income is very small, and his work place is far away from home, so he can't help himself financially or in family affairs.

In Yuan Jie's heart, even if the father of this child is Han Gang, it is only this child who is related to him, not her husband Han Gang.

Now that even this child has nothing to do with Han Gang, Han Gang's position in her mind can be imagined.

Yuan Jie has not thought about what to do with this relationship with Han Gang in the future, and now that the children are still young, it is not realistic to file for divorce at this time.

Anyway, now Han Gang only comes back for one or two days a week, and there are not many of him at home, so let's wait and see.

After Yuan Jie finished eating, he took the little nanny to push his son downstairs in a stroller for a walk.

After breaking up with Li Xin today, Yuan Jie remembered his husband Han Gang for a moment in his heart. But this thought was just a flash, and in Yuan Jie's heart, this dying relationship was no longer in her consideration.

What she has to think about now is the economy.

In the past year or so, because of Li Xin and the large investment of China Southern Group in the futures market, Yuan Jie's commission and income have increased tremendously compared with before.

But now, after the Southern Group withdrew the funds, Li Xin also transferred the funds, and his income has dropped sharply in the past few months.

It is said that people can go up but not down, but in fact, Yuan Jie's current salary income is not much different from that before Li Xin and the Southern Group injected funds into futures.

But the crux of the problem is that after Li Xin and the funds of the Southern Group entered the futures market, Yuan Jie enjoyed a high commission that he had never imagined.

The high income during that period of time made Yuan Jie's consumption psychology and consumption level instantly increase by several grades, and now her income has suddenly dropped sharply, making it difficult for her to adapt psychologically for a while.

There is another reason that she desires a high income that cannot be said, and that is the future of her and her children, and she must prepare in advance.

The end of the relationship between husband and wife is only a matter of time in Yuan Jie's eyes. When she gets to that point is not her worry, what she is worried about is the ownership of the child's custody at that time.

Han Gang, who doesn't know the child's background, will definitely fight with himself for the custody of the child when the time comes.

To completely solve this problem, Yuan Jie has a killer weapon in her heart, but she doesn't dare to show this killer feature easily until she has to do it.

This killer feature is the child's life experience, once this problem is broken, the problem of child custody will be completely solved.

But the problem is that once this matter is discovered, he and his children will face too many uncertain factors in the future, so Yuan Jie is also quite afraid of this.

She expects a high income as a powerful weapon in the fight for custody of her children.

The thoughtful Yuan Jie had pondered this issue more than once before.

Han Gang's place of work is far away from home, and he does not have the objective conditions to take care of the children in terms of time. His salary income was much higher than Han Gang's salary income before, but this difference is not a difference in quantity, if you want to fight for the custody of the child, a higher income gap will be more beneficial to you.

If you can maintain the high income you had before you had a child, you will be able to solve the problem of child custody, and it will not be a problem to have a showdown with Han Gang at any time.

However, judging from the results of today's talks with Li Xin, within a few months, Li Xin will no longer put funds in the futures market.

Now it's almost June, and if you can't find a large amount of new money coming in, your performance this year will be lackluster, and your income will not improve.

The little nanny pushed the stroller in front, Yuan Jie followed, she took out her mobile phone and looked through the phone numbers in the address book carefully, but did not find a suitable candidate.

In fact, she knows very well in her heart that the performance of the brokerage business depends entirely on the usual accumulation, how can it be effective to hold on to her feet temporarily, unless it is relatives and friends whose relationship is too iron.

But the problem is that even if it is relatives and friends, who will have such a large financial resource as Li Xin, he can easily have tens of millions of funds.