Huang Yixi frowned, these days a few children have to wear the clothes of their brothers and sisters, she knows that her little aunt's life is not easy, but she doesn't know that it is so difficult.

Seeing Huang Yixi like this, 40,000 comforted her sensibly, "Alas, there is no way, if you don't let you wear it, you won't wear it...... My sister's clothes are beautiful, saffron, hee-hee......"

After speaking, he frowned, "But Brother Huzi in the village said that I would become a girl if I wore girls' clothes, but my mother said that children have no gender, sister, what is gender? I don't want to become a girl, my mother spent a lot of money to give birth to me." ”

Huang Yixi's face was black, what kind of mess was this, but seeing Forty Wan's cute appearance, she couldn't help but tease him, "If Forty Thousand doesn't want to be a girl, it's okay, it's okay to go back with my sister, my sister's family is very big, and she has a lot of money, so she can buy beautiful clothes." ”

Forty thousand shook his head enviously, "No, the children have to go back to their own homes, and besides, when I grow up, I have to earn a lot of money, build such a beautiful house for my mother, buy new clothes for my sister, well, and buy a lot of delicious food for my sister, and buy a lot of beautiful clothes." ”

Forty thousand waved their small fists and loudly expressed their wishes.

"Huh...... Well, my sister is waiting, waiting to spend our 40,000 dollars!"

Although it is a child's fairy tale, the more a child's words are, the more he can express his innocent and sincere emotions at that time. In a few words, Huang Yixi couldn't stop laughing.

Huang Yixi took out two colorful storybooks from the desk, put a bunch of snacks in front of 40,000, and let him sit aside to play, and then got busy with Huang Haiyan again.

"Why did you suddenly make a birthday for my second sister-in-law, I didn't hear you mention it during the Lantern Festival. Huang Haiyan asked curiously.

"It's just that my grandmother suddenly mentioned that there is a cook at home, and it doesn't take much effort. Huang Yixi replied lightly.

As soon as she said this lightly, Huang Haiyan immediately figured out the key, "That is, she will have so many demon moths, and the older she gets, the more uncultivated she becomes." ”

Thinking of Li Yuzhen's Lantern Festival, when she said that other people's families didn't admit it, and there was no difference between accepting concubines and so on, Huang Haiyan was angry for a while, saying that people were not soft-mouthed, and it was easy to use others.

However, she didn't dare to say these words in front of her second sister-in-law and niece, and saying them had no effect except that they were angry.

"As she is, the banquet must be expensive, how many people are you going to invite?"

"You also know that my mother is not the kind of flamboyant, just her family and a few good neighbors around, as well as a few of my classmates. Huang Yixi replied.

Yu Qiu and the others were called because they were also very familiar with Lin Shufang, and Yu Qiu and others also said that they seemed to be another mother.

Especially Wu Meili, when she was not married to Zhang Yaxing in Baishui Prefecture, she lived at home for a while.

"Didn't Xiaoyu's family call?" Huang Haiyan was a little worried, the third sister-in-law would definitely say some sour words if she knew it, "Even if you haven't registered, you've crossed the Ming Road, how can you be considered a family member, how can you not have any contact with people and the world, or if you want to sleep with someone's daughter, say some nonsense and coax people, and so on." ”

Huang Yixi didn't know Huang Haiyan's worries at all, "No, when there is a chance for the two families to get together again in the future, now is not the time." Huang Yixi explained, "Don't worry, he won't mind." ”

Huang Haiyan looked at her little niece speechlessly, she was afraid that she would suffer, "You are young now, and he likes you again, but when you get older, your feelings will fade, and it will be too late for him to turn his face. ”

Living until now, there are too many things I have seen and heard, men like you, and the stars in the sky want to pick you up, and I don't like you, and I feel that it is an eyesore to look at you.

Huang Yixi knew Huang Haiyan's knot, but she couldn't agree, "I know that his parents don't like me, why should I compromise on everything, compared to the so-called reputation, a lifetime of happiness is more important, besides, this society is different from before, falling in love is really just an ordinary thing, and it is normal to divide and merge, not to mention, you also know that Ruitong City and Fenglai City, many people wait for the birth of a son or even two sons before holding a marriage ceremony." ”

Premarital cohabitation, unmarried pregnancy, marriage with children, and dink families are all too common.

Huang Haiyan was dumbfounded, although she had heard these things, she never regarded them as normal, "That's not good, you are not married, you are embarrassed to spend his money." ”

Huang Yixi looked at the little aunt who lived in the early days of liberation, and had a little headache, "Little aunt, don't think that marriage is a man's responsibility for a woman, marriage itself has a higher risk for women." ”

"How is that possible?" Huang Haiyan didn't believe her little niece's words at all, thinking that she was just comforting herself.

"How could it be?" Huang Yixi began to wrench his hand and read it to her.

First of all, because women need to bear the responsibility of childbearing, men and women in marriage pay unequally, no matter how free women are, as long as they get married and have children, they must pay more than men.

For example, Huang Haiyan, she gave birth to four children, because of economic reasons, her body has not been well adjusted, and now she has back pain after doing a little heavy work.

And for the sake of the family and children, the hard work she paid was unimaginable to ordinary people, while making tofu to make money, she also had to do housework and accompany the children, and Liu Ye, when she came home after work, she waited for her like a big man.

"Your sister-in-law is doing those heavy jobs very hard, how can I eat if I don't rest when I go home, and he sees that I can't be busy, and he also helps. Huang Haiyan tried to defend her husband, and her expression was sweet when she talked about Liu Ye.

"Your body can afford to eat, why didn't you rest when you couldn't bear it?" Huang Yixi looked at the thin Huang Haiyan, old and tired, and her life experience was all on her face.

"Isn't that no way? Huang Haiyan whispered.

Huang Yixi also understands, so she doesn't want to say much about this, the family background is there, Liu Ye is not bad to say, his wife and children like him very much, and he sends his wife and children back to his parents' house, and he goes back to take care of the children after getting wet, which can be regarded as a good husband and father.

It's just that his economy is not good now, and if the economy is good, I don't know if his heart will change, it's hard to say.

There are too many husbands and wives who share hardships and cannot share wealth and wealth.

Huang Yixi shook his head, put this idea behind him, and continued to analyze, "Secondly, the time cost borne by women is higher, as long as a man has money, even if he is divorced at the age of 50 and widowed at the age of 60, he can find a woman twenty or thirty years younger to marry and have children."

It doesn't even cost too much money to get it done.