Chapter 1542: Pity the hearts of parents in the world
Even if Zhang Nan made an analysis, Charlie still felt that raising ten children to adults was incredible, and it was almost an impossible task for ordinary families!
Giving birth to a child is a pass, and there are ten students in line, and one class is pulled out, three more than Colonel Trapp's house in "The Sound of Music".
Birth is still a small problem, and then this raising...
Adult, no matter what, you have to be 16, or even 18 years old, this amount of work is terrifying!
In South Africa and the United States, which she is familiar with, mainstream families are ordinary families that are not particularly poor but not rich, and it is normal for couples to have two or three children, and the situation of only daughters like Charlie seems to be in the minority.
Before coming to the United States, Charlize Theron didn't think about how other people's families lived, and now, her own family can be regarded as a reference.
Brother has a group of women in the dark, counting Adjani, it can be counted that the four women who live in the manor have given birth to four children for him, plus a lovely Lily, 5 children are enough to be lively.
It is one of the few super estates in the United States, and there is always a group of nannies and servants around the children, but when they get together, they can still make the whole family jump when they are not careful!
If this is all born by a mother, it doesn't need to be multiplied by two, and it is an ordinary small farm or an ordinary middle-class family...
Cooking, washing clothes, coaxing children to sleep, especially when they are young, they have to take care of them all the time, and they can't leave school, even if they have state subsidies?
Oh my God, Charlie thinks it's an absolute disaster!
"Well, it's really great!" the girl said, looking at the photo on the certificate.
That's right, Zhang Nan smiled and said: "There is a great man who said, 'There is great power in numbers', which is a wise saying!"
No one, that's a mess!
If this person is alive, don't expect the society or the country to provide for you for the elderly, even if there are a lot of pensions in the future, there are nursing homes, and there are too few children, so when you are too old to walk, you will lie alone in the nursing home and become the life of a nursing home ATM.
Hehe, how miserable?
Alone waiting for death to come, with children not around, busy with work, even thousands of kilometers away, this is an absolute human tragedy.
In other words, if I really get mixed up with that, I might as well give myself a shot. ”
Of course, Zhang Nan is just talking, he has a lot of children, and he has a lot of money, and before hanging on the wall, it is estimated that a group of the best and most expensive medical staff will revolve around him, and by the way, surrounded by bodyguards with loaded guns at the door, the barrister team is always waiting to be called.
Speaking of which, Zhang Nan's mind drifted to the time of his previous life, how many poor people were in the nursing home at that time, and he was ashamed to think about it: the worst thing was some rehabilitation hospitals, not to mention wanting to give himself a gun without a gun, some old people didn't even have the strength and consciousness to hold a gun, and they became a lonely panting creature waiting for death.
At this point, Zhang Nan suddenly said nonsensically to the entourage around him and his nephew: "Remember one thing, don't keep forcing your children to study hard, take the exam for a prestigious school in the future, and if you can't study, you will either move bricks or be a security guard."
If you think about it this way, the salary of a security guard in our company is actually quite good, no worse than sitting in an office.
This is too good at reading, except for a few young people, the better the academic performance and the higher the academic qualifications, the farther away the child will be from home in the future!
We live in New York quite well, there are many prestigious schools, and there are many employment opportunities.
If you are in a small city or a small place, you can read too well, the children will not be able to go home once a year, and it will be fine when we can still move, and when we can't move and lie in the nursing home, we will not regret taking the medicine.
Don't forget to put a gun under your pillow when the time comes, and you can solve it yourself when you can't hold it and feel too miserable..."
No one said it was unreasonable, because it really made sense!
Young people in the United States are used to living independently very early, but through Zhang Nan's words, the bodyguards from the United States can also imagine the survival of their parents in nursing homes after they are too old to move.
Miserable and desolate, many guys want to spend more time with their parents after they go back, and try to accompany the elderly at home in the future, or take the elderly to their side.
Andrei and other Russian guys have the habit of living together as a family, but they also feel the same way, thinking about spending more time with their families.
As for Jin Wenbo, Lin Ming and others, not to mention, although there are basically many brothers and sisters in the family, they still have to go back a few more times, and they may return to their roots in the future.
A group of people were infected, and Charlize Theron, who was young and couldn't forgive his mother yet, was not poured out by this psychological chicken soup.
This Zhang Nan said vigorously and conclusively: "How good the child is, even if there are a few unfilial descendants, there is still something to rely on."
Dying in hospitals and nursing homes is a tragedy, and it is even worse when you are too old to move without children!
Besides, even if it is for the sake of the children, then you have to have a few more, don't think about relying on medical insurance when you are old enough to treat and see a doctor, and you can still share it when you start the funeral, right?"
How many will only children raise in the future?
Crush you!
In the previous life, the parents in the eighteenth-tier small county town fought hard for their children's education, shouting every day that their children would be admitted to Tsinghua University and Peking University in the future, but in Zhang Nan's eyes, they were all a bunch of stupid forks!
When the time comes, leave the old man and the old lady at home with big eyes and small eyes, and wait for you to die!
"My hometown has always been particular about having more children, and many rich people used to follow the custom of keeping their young sons at home, and the old experience can't be wrong. ”
Speaking of this, Zhang Nan stopped, and despised the test-taking education and "short-sighted" parents in his previous life, and he didn't have a backache when he stood and talked.
But it's also the truth, Tsinghua University, Peking University, Fudan and other things are good, but the housing prices in Beijing and Shanghai are even better! A house is casually tens of millions, and you can't see a child in the last year of studying, and this child has all become miserable house slaves, and he doesn't even have a chance to become a house slave!
Is that really good?
Hearing this, the nephew didn't understand, Charlie crooked her mouth and said, "Brother, is it your fellow countryman who put forward this theory?" ”
Zhang Nan pursed his lips and said to Charlie: "There are too many Huaxia people, okay, I'm too lazy to discuss this."
As the old saying goes, 30 years in Hedong, 30 years in Hexi, this is almost halfway, and another 15 or 20 years will wait and see!
But then again, it's actually true that no matter how many or only one are allowed, the lofty statement is the theory of relativity, and the truth is that..."
Zhang Nan paused, "Didn't my brother-in-law say that the first half of the night criticized and the second half of the night urgently notified to stop the criticism, whether it was up and down or left and right, it was right." ”
Charlize Theron rolled her eyes, "You know, the truth is based on a mouth, what you say is what you are, just listen, execute, don't make noise if you have opinions, and implement it honestly." ”
"Yes, that's it.
The situation in the Soviet Union and China is still different, the land is vast and sparsely populated, more men died in World War II, and after so many years, the population ratio is still out of balance, and the labor force is also lacking.
I don't think the mother's medal and medal system that has been suspended and ignored will be implemented again in the near future, and it's a big deal to change the prefix.
It's just that I think it won't be many years before it will be difficult for ordinary people to have more children!"
This was not only incomprehensible to Charlie, but also to Xiang Weirong, Andre and others: I could hear that this was not just about the situation in Russia, but at once I couldn't guess what Zhang Nan meant.
Looking at the expressions of the group of people, Zhang Nan smiled and said, "Is Russia still the Soviet Union?"
Even if there is a subsidy in the future, the original whole distribution system will collapse, and if you have so many children, it doesn't matter if the children buy a house or get married in the future?
We don't care if the subsidy is enough or not, and the food and education expenses will be overwhelmed, and you will not dare to have more children.
But you are not among them, you all earn a lot, you can afford it, you can afford to buy a good house in New York and Moscow, it seems that I am still a good boss. ”
Andre and the others laughed cooperatively.
Yes, the annual salary is a lot and the benefits are good, and you can afford to raise a few more children, Zhang Nan is really a good boss!
An annual salary of one million dollars is certainly enough, but how many families in the United States will have this income?
Can ordinary people afford it?
Americans can't take it!
It's not easy to be a parent, Zhang Nan has watched an American documentary about wilderness survival, which is to scatter a group of people to an island or something.
Survive alone, without knowing the time and state of the opponents, see who lasts the longest!
Only the one who persists the longest is the winner, and the idea of a prize of 500,000 US dollars has not yet been given to the United Television Network, so it will be used after the filming equipment can be miniaturized.
I remember one season when the winner was an ordinary middle-aged pastor with two daughters, who overcame all the odds alone, longer than a whole bunch of famous wilderness survival experts, wilderness survival experts, veteran hunters, and even more than a professional wilderness survival coach!
Because the pastor has identified a belief in the long process of survival: he has no more ability, and he has no other ability to earn more money for his children and live a better life. Stick to life, never do anything superfluous, just try to live!
Other experts basically eliminated themselves by themselves, with too many ideas, and an ordinary pastor and great father with strong faith support insisted on it to the end, which is really pitiful for the hearts of parents in the world.
The young Charlize Theron here actually knows that there are many Chinese brothers and sisters in the generation of his brother and brother-in-law, and it is rare for an only child like his brother to have such a child.
But ten of them are still too much, and it's scary to think about.
"Actually, brother, I think five or six are already very powerful. ”
Zhang Nan smiled, "Of course it's amazing, so the Soviet Union's mother's medal series actually has three kinds and six levels." ”
Speaking of this, he pointed to a few medals and medals next to the "Heroic Mother Medal" on the stall and said: "It's still very complete here, but there are two less levels."
These two are the first and second class mother's medals, and the upper one is the Glorious Mother's Medal, which is divided into three-level levels: first, second, and third, and that is the third-class Glorious Mother's Medal, and the Heroic Mother's Medal is the first level of independence.
The Medal for Mothers of the Second Degree is awarded to mothers raising 5 children, the Medal for Mothers of the 1st degree is for 6 children, and then one by one it is pushed up, and the Order of the Hero of the Soviet Union is 10 or more. ”
At this point, Zhang Nan asked Andre on the side: "This Heroic Mother Medal was first awarded in four years?"
"It's 1944, boss.
The Presidium of the Supreme Soviet signed and awarded, the first batch was awarded to 14 mothers, and I remember that the first recipient of the Order of the Heroic Mother was a Heroic Mother from Moscow.
That mother raised 12 children, and she had eight sons who served on the front lines during the war, four of whom died.
In 1983, there was a statistic that about 371,000 medals of the Order of the Heroic Mother were awarded, many of which were awarded in the fifties, because there were really many orphans in the Great Patriotic War, and many families who could afford them went to adopt.
By the way, this medal has also been awarded to gay men, and the only time that man adopted 12 boys on his own, and he also raised them all as adults, a remarkable person. ”