Chapter 47: The harder you work, the happier you are
Ying's father and Duan's mother are very entangled, on the one hand, they want to follow the rural tradition and the ancestral house belongs to their son, on the other hand, they know too well in their hearts that they can't live without Duan Xiaoyu in old age. Over the years, Duan Xiaoyu has occupied a pivotal position in their lives, Duan Xiaoyu is the spiritual pillar of their old couple, and they can't live without Duan Xiaoyu.
Since the demolition, the old couple has not eaten well, and it is even more difficult to sleep at night, the palms and backs of their hands are full of meat, they want to take care of their children, but they can't.
Ying Xiaoyang and Xiaoyuan felt that Ying's father and Duan's mother were partial, and the ancestral house said that it was theirs back then, but now they have to share it equally with their sister.
Duan Xiaoyu also felt sad, for so many years, his parents have mostly taken care of themselves, and his father entrusted his mother to Duan Xiaoyu twice. The parents' health will only go downhill, and the burden on Duan Xiaoyu's body can only get heavier and heavier, what will happen to his parents in the future is unpredictable, and the money will definitely not be kept in the hands of his children, Duan Xiaoyu must leave enough pension funds for his parents in the future.
After thinking about it again, Father Ying and Mother Duan finally insisted on their plan very firmly. That is, 500,000 yuan of medical reserve funds will be left, and the remaining children will have a house for each person.
Time can dilute everything, and Father Ying and Mother Duan returned to their previous lives. They would talk about Ying Xiaoyang from time to time, and they felt cold about some of the words their son had said, but in the end they forgave Ying Xiaoyang from the bottom of their hearts, after all, it was their own son. The only thing that can't be forgiven is Xiao Yuan, they will repeat what Xiao Yuan said every time, and their hearts are even cooler. Ying's father and Duan's mother are always muttering, Xiaoyuan's parents are gone, she has no burden in her heart, Xiaoyuan only thinks about her son, and does not take their pension to heart.
After Ying Xiaoyang went through this incident, he went back to his parents to be more diligent, he blamed his parents for being partial to his sister Duan Xiaoyu, but at the same time, he also vaguely felt in his heart that his parents seemed to be more dependent on his sister. Xiao Yuan also went back twice, but the parents-in-law were silent in the face of Xiao Yuan, and they couldn't find anything to say for a while. Xiao Yuan was bored after going twice, and Xiao Yuan felt very uncomfortable.
It took Duan Xiaoyu a long time to come out. Although her parents have achieved a bowl of water in this demolition, this process has made Duan Xiaoyu lose the balance in her heart, and the fairness she wants is unfair in tradition and secular life; Duan Xiaoyu loves her brother very much, she feels that she has always owed her brother, if Duan Xiaoyu takes the initiative to say that she will give up during this demolition process, there will definitely be no farce, but Duan Xiaoyu is not like this, she knows that the future is unpredictable, and she doesn't know what will happen to her parents in the future, she must be prepared enough, spiritually, and materially。
Duan's mother was hospitalized again, and during the hospitalization, she saw a patient who came out of the nursing home, she and her husband divorced at an early age, and there was only one son, who was busy with work and could only send her to the nursing home. She was covered in bruises, which she said had fallen. Duan's mother was very scared, and seriously explained to Duan Xiaoyu: "I'm old, don't send me to a nursing home, and you can't let someone take care of me." This time, Duan's mother said with confidence, because she felt that she had not treated her daughter badly. She entrusted herself to her daughter, and she felt that this was the most reassuring.
Duan Xiaoyu replied with a smile: "No problem, I'll take you with me, and I'll take care of it myself." ”
Duan's mother smiled after hearing this, and her smile was very stretched.
Ying's father still felt sorry for Duan Xiaoyu in the end, and told her that it would be fairer for you and your brother to take turns when your mother was hospitalized in the future. Duan Xiaoyu said with a smile: "I'm familiar with hospitalization, this doesn't matter." Ying's father said: "Yes, everyone has to do their filial piety, it was always you before, let your brother also know these things and your difficulties." Duan Xiaoyu felt warm in his heart after hearing this, his father understood Duan Xiaoyu, and Duan Xiaoyu felt very happy.
Time will dilute everything, Duan Xiaoyu knows that everything will pass, and her parents will have times when they are confused, she can take care of her parents' affairs, and she has done everything.
Duan Xiaoyu is very grateful to her husband Xiaokou, when she bought a house a few years ago, she proposed to buy a small apartment for her parents and buy a yard. Xiao Kou really worked too hard to see Duan Xiaoyu, and twice at night Ying's father and Duan's mother came back from a walk without a key, and Duan Xiaoyu drove to deliver it at night, and it took two hours to go back and forth. Duan Xiaoyu turned on the phone 24 hours a day, and what he was most afraid of was hearing the phone ringing in the middle of the night. These little Kou saw it in their eyes and felt pain in their hearts, so they had this proposal. The community environment is very beautiful, close to the park and the hospital, moving to a community, so that a light rain is not so hard.
Ying's father Duan's mother and Duan Xiaoyu are together, and they feel that life is rushing, Ying's father has always been very proud of one thing, his daughter's filial piety has a realm, she is his own little padded jacket, very warm.
Duan Xiaoyu gave orders to his parents to exercise well, eat well, watch TV, walk well, sleep well, and take care of his body. Duan Xiaoyu plans to spend four years taking his parents to the whole of China, and take them to enjoy the great rivers and mountains of the motherland during his parents' lifetime. This is what Duan Xiaoyu will do in the next four years.
Happy didn't tell his mother the phone call he heard that day, although those words made Happy depressed for a long time, but Happy is a sensible child, he is very filial.
Duan's mother is getting old, maybe she can't hide her words in her heart, and she told Duan Xiaoyu what her brother Ying Xiaoyang and sister-in-law Xiaoyuan said in her anger that day, Duan Xiaoyu refused to listen to these angry words, but she couldn't stop it. Later, Duan Xiaoyu didn't block it, because her mother was comfortable when she said it. Duan Xiaoyu was really painful when he heard these words, some words from the person he loved were sharper than a knife, and his heart was pierced. Duan Xiaoyu has been calming down his emotions and letting these negative things not hurt him.
During the Mid-Autumn Festival, the nephew sent a box of moon cakes to Duan Xiaoyu from the university in the south, Duan Xiaoyu shed tears, and she was also relieved, no matter what, the nephew was educated by her sister-in-law Xiaoyuan, and the nephew was very competitive and sensible, which is the most proud thing.
When Duan Xiaoyu chatted with his mother, he would mention in front of his mother that his brother was good, and his sister-in-law Xiaoyuan was good, after all, it was a family, in the face of such a thing as demolition, everyone looked back on their hearts, and struggled to face their true colors, although cruel, but it was also a kind of practice for everyone. Everyone will be punished, that is, when they dream back at midnight, there will be wisps of pain in their hearts, and in an instant, they will knock down the fragile human nature, so Duan Xiaoyu decided to store happiness, store enough happiness to cope with the pain that will arise from time to time in the future.
As a family, parents always plan for the long-term of their children, and children should also plan for their parents. Duan Xiaoyu's generation may be the last generation to be able to do their best to fulfill their filial piety, but it is also the first generation who will face the choice of other ways to provide for the elderly.
Duan Xiaoyu is an ordinary person, coming out of a family of four, there are many small blessings along the way, and there are also many inevitable pains, but Duan Xiaoyu is the one who works hard, because Duan Xiaoyu believes that on the road of filial piety, the harder you work, the happier you are.