Chapter Seventy-Six: His Advice
Zhang Wuwei put his chin on one hand and said softly: "I'll give you a suggestion, do you want to listen?"
Zhao Baoxuan sniffed: "Listen." ”
And it is unconditional acceptance, and everything is said.
She took a tissue and put it in the palm of her hand, poured some lemonade on it, made a ball, opened it and wiped her face, and looked at her boss seriously.
Zhang Wuwei said: "As a mother, they all like to listen to the soft words and good words that their children say, as for whether the words are true or false, they don't care, as long as you say it to her, she won't be angry with you." ”
Zhao Baoxuan: "...... Isn't this a lie? Besides, I'm not wrong, and I'm the one who should be angry, right?"
Zhang Wuwei nodded lightly: "Just because you have been wronged, you can't have a cold war with her or reason with her, when you are a parent, you have to save face, the clearer you tell the facts, the more embarrassed she is, at this time, not only do you not convince her, but also follow her mood to melt things, she will feel that you are the person who understands her best, and when she finds out afterwards that she has really wronged you, she will be doubly good to you." ”
In order to make Zhao Baoxuan understand, he deliberately slowed down his speech.
In this world, it is not in line with nature for parents to bow their heads to their children and admit their mistakes.
However, to make this clear, this is not the most appropriate time.
Now it's just a matter of solving the problem at hand.
Zhao Baoxuan sighed: "Then what should I say?"
Zhang Wuwei said: "What does your mother like most about you?"
Zhao Baoxuan blurted out: "Listen to her!"
Zhang Wuwei's head shook slightly: "Then you will say that you are obedient." ”
Zhao Baoxuan pouted: "No, if I go back to my mother and say, 'Mom, I will listen to you in the future!', and then I tell her that I want to go to Jincun, and my mother says, 'No! Don't go!', then do I listen to her or not? Or go first, and come back and confess that I didn't obey and will listen in the future?"
She spoke out in one breath about the normality of her interaction with her mother, and also preset new possibilities.
Zhang Wuwei couldn't hold back, and sneered: "I understand! You have always been a good baby!Ah, such a well-behaved good child, how can anyone be willing to scold you?"
Zhao Baoxuan's face flushed: "Then you teach me how to say it!"
Zhang Wuwei's smile did not diminish: "When you talk to me, don't you admit your mistakes at any time? ”
Zhao Baoxuan bit her lip: "My mother's aura is two meters eight, I can't say anything when I look at her." ”
Don't say that you are patting against your will, even if you really bow your head and admit your mistakes, you are reluctant.
"Oh, are you saying that your aura is stronger than mine?" Zhang Wuwei raised his eyebrows: "I guessed correctly, right? You dare to say anything as long as you are bold, right?"
Zhao Baoxuan muttered in a low voice: "I haven't said anything about begging for someone." ”
She always felt that begging for someone meant to keep her voice down, which meant that she had no dignity.
What hope is there for a life without dignity!
Zhang Wuwei looked at Zhao Baoxuan's stubborn little face, and wanted to knock a chestnut on her head to see if she had opened her mind, and then saw her clear eyes staring at him so trustingly, and his heart softened for no reason: "Then I'll give you an example, it may not be suitable for you, you can refer to it." ”
He rubbed his eyebrows, not to mention, he had almost forgotten how he had said good things in front of his mother when he was a child.