Chapter 346: Time Lapse
I lay on the bed and sent a message back to the unfamiliar number, "Who the hell are you?" I was shocked that the other party could actually receive text messages, so I quickly called, "The number you dialed is empty, please verify and dial." β
Why is this happening? This number must have been processed by some kind of virtual means, and tomorrow I will have to go to the mobile company or the telecom company to check it and see if there are any results.
"After eating, what do you think, you can't give up all day. Zuomi woke me up.
"Oh, right away. β
Looking at the delicious food on the table, both women are very powerful, I am a white eater.
The short-haired Zuo Mi said: "In my house, you can't be lazy, remember to wash the dishes after dinner, clean the kitchen, and throw away the garbage by the way, no opinion, right?"
"No opinion, no opinion, I'll just come. I hurried.
Zuo Mi is like a person who has nothing to do, and from time to time he counts me a few words, it is my wife who is undoubtedly, after cleaning up the dishes, I went downstairs to take out the garbage, there is a figure in the distance, which makes me feel a little familiar, I try to recall, trouble him how to be in my dream, I quickly got on the elevator, for fear that he would see me, why did I meet Zhang Yunhai here, I knew that the problem came.
"Why have you been there for so long? Did you fall in love with that neighbor's little sister?" Zuo Mi, who had short hair, still teased me with his legs crossed in the old posture, and Zuo Mi just came out of the kitchen washing fruit.
I didn't answer the question of the short-haired Zuo Mi, Zuo Mi gave me a look and asked me to go back to the room, I did it, I felt that I had matured a lot after going through so many things, I didn't say everything, sometimes silence is also a good thing, so that I could avoid suffering a lot of losses.
In life, many people are "unable to tolerate a grain of sand in their eyes", and they love to be more true in everything and distinguish between right and wrong. But life is not a matter of judgment and judgment, and not everything can be clearly distinguished from right and wrong, and reasoned. Everyone has their own position and situation, and you don't have to ask others to be consistent with you, let alone force others to do things according to your way of thinking or habits.
I believe everyone has had such an experience, a neighbor or colleague who had a good relationship, for a trivial matter or a joke or two, suddenly deteriorated into irreconcilable contradictions. In such a state, no matter who is on both sides, they will definitely not feel comfortable.
As the saying goes: people are not saints and sages, and what is needed to get along with others is not to "see what is going on" and to be more truthful in everything, but to understand each other and tolerate each other, only in this way will we have more friends and create a harmonious interpersonal relationship. Otherwise, others will only hide away from you, and no one will want to associate with people who are more serious about everything.
I was a little unhappy with the short hair Zuo Mi sentence just now, after all, my wife is still there, this is to provoke the feelings between us, but it's hard to say anything, after all, the younger one is the benefactor who provides me and my wife with a place to live, and the older one is my boss, this kind of thing can only be heard at once, and you can't be too careful.
I remember a female friend of mine who was talented and beautiful, but she never had a good career ahead. In fact, the reason is very simple, that is, she loves to be too serious. In interpersonal communication, whenever someone makes a little mistake, she will point it out. For the little mistakes of others, she always holds on. After a long time, everyone will inevitably resist her, so she often encounters obstacles when she works. Every time she meets up and chats with friends, she constantly complains or blames others, including her colleagues, partners, and friends.
Once, she made an appointment with a client for a meeting, but the weather conditions were not good that day, and when the other party arrived, it was half an hour later than the appointment time. Although the other party repeatedly apologized and explained the reason, she did not forgive the other party for this, on the contrary, it was another complaint. Most people can accept her criticism and accusations at first, but people are dignified, and she always accuses each other again and again, which can only cause disgust from the other party.
Her friends advised her to be kind to others, pay attention to other people's strengths as much as possible, and don't keep staring at other people's shortcomings, which would be very tiring. But she was naturally the same, and she didn't have the slightest intention of examining herself, so her life was still not going well.
In fact, if a person is too serious, it will inevitably affect their communication with others, and it will inevitably make people feel that you are not easy-going, difficult to socialize, and over time, people around you can only choose to stay away. Therefore, we must not be too serious about being a person and doing things, we must be good at understanding others, seeking common ground while reserving differences, having measures in our minds, and being able to tolerate the shortcomings and advantages of others, so that we can establish good interpersonal relationships, and be able to meet the source left and right in the social field. As the saying goes, "tolerance is great", we must know how to be tolerant in dealing with others, do not compare with others because of some inconsequential trivial matters, and do not compare the rights and wrongs and gains and losses, so that we will become open-minded and interpersonal communication will be much smoother. In the past few days in the company, whether it is Lin Jing or others, they are complaining about the short hair Zuo Mi, I am just a deaf ear, I have not delved into it, I don't have that idle time, there is a reason, I think it is always the short hair Zuo Mi which is not very good, will cause others to be disgusted.
Zuo Mi pushed open the door and took a bunch of grapes, "Look how good I am to you, don't throw it around, remember to put it in the trash, the TV series is very good, let's sleep first." β
After Zuo Mi went out, I continued to think about today's events, why did I repeat it, who was reminding me that Lin Jing was Zhou Ziqiao? Now there is another Zhang Yunhai, forget it, don't think about it, let it be, if it goes on like this, I will soon become mentally ill.
"Sister, your husband fell asleep so soon?" said the short-haired Zuo Mi chewing melon seeds.
"She's like that, she doesn't talk much, sometimes it's good, sometimes it's boring. β
"No, I think he can say it, especially the study of women, it's too thorough, the ancient poetry is used very well, and a woman can't stand it. β
"I was deceived by this trick in the first place, and now I regret it, my first boyfriend and first husband came here like this. β
"Haha, no, then again, there are quite a few people who pursue you, right?"
"There are not many of them, but there are a lot of people who pursue my husband, which makes me feel terrified every day, for fear that I will be robbed by other women that day. β
"Wow, underestimate him, tell me about those people in your world who like your husband, personality traits and so on, I'm curious?"
"I didn't expect the dignified manager to like gossip too?"
"I'm curious? Tell me about it. β
"First of all, the first one, Zhang Xue, that is, Xue'er, looks like a watery and watery, a little girl at the school flower level, about 1.68 tall, slender, fair-skinned, and naturally needless to say, her appearance is naturally needless to say, it seems that she is a bird, and her husband has a story, what is it specifically My husband has not told me, the second is He Qiqi, originally it was my husband's patient, this girl is not low in appearance, quite scheming, with a superior IQ, younger than Xue'er, there is a characteristic is dual personality disorder, but the strange thing is that the condition has not recurred after getting along with my husband. The third is Tang Tang, who is also a big beauty, and then quit without knowing why, as well as Nuo Lan, Nuo Yan, Lele and most of them have a crush, and there is one of the most important people, guess who?"
"Ah, sister, say it quickly, I'm in a hurry, and I lose my appetite at a critical time. β
"Jin Wenhui. β
The short hair left Mi opened his mouth wide, and he felt a little incredible.
"Impossible, sister, how could she?"
"What's impossible, everything is possible, it's not strange that my sister likes wind chimes, but I didn't say it, this proves from the side that my husband is amazing, I can get the appreciation of many beauties, I can talk to my husband, that's my blessing." β
"Awesome, awesome, sister, I didn't expect you to get out of it all? haha. β
"How do you speak, it's not the right word, okay, it's almost ten o'clock, sleep, good night." β
"Good night, I'll turn off the lights. β
I was already drowsy when Zuomi came in, leaned on top of me, blew a breath of fragrance in my ear, and muttered, "I'm really asleep." β
I didn't make a sound, I didn't want to disturb, and gradually I fell asleep, and in the middle of the night, like last time, I was awakened by urine, and turning on the light in the living room startled me.
"What are you doing with the lights on, you didn't see me sleeping?" complained to the short-haired Zuo Mi, ruffling his loose hair.
Unexpectedly, Zuo Mi also woke up, opened the door and looked at me and said, "What's wrong with you?"
"Oh, I ate too much fruit last night, so I went to the toilet first. β
I glanced at the short-haired Zuo Mi, she got up and poured a glass of water, how is this action so familiar, after I came out, the short-haired Zuo Mi crossed Erlang's legs with an unhappy face, I asked Zuo Mi to go back to the room first, I sat next to the short-haired Zuo Mi and said with a hippie smile: "Sorry, manager, I didn't know you were here, I have night blindness, so ......"
"So you woke me up, I'm a bit weird, if I wake up from sleep, I won't be able to sleep again, and I'll have to go to work in a few hours, you can do it, either put me to sleep, or you won't sleep tonight." β
My pupils dilated instantly, and I said in horror, "You said the same thing to me two days ago?"
"What are you talking about, talking to yourself, when did I say these things to you, you don't think you're trying to cheat, no, you can't sleep tonight. β
Why do you repeat the scene of the night before yesterday, I hurriedly went back to the room and turned on my phone, and found that the time had also returned to half past three in the morning the night before yesterday, I grabbed my scalp, I slept too weirdly, and I could even go back in time, touching the same conversation, I asked you Zuo Mi, she also said me, is it really as Lin Jing said, these are all characters I imagined, Zuo Mi didn't enter my dream at all, that was my fantasy, I looked at the two of them, I grabbed my scalp and ravaged my hair, this move frightened the two of themγ
The short-haired Zuo Mi hurriedly made amends: "I'm sorry, did I say the wrong thing somewhere, I'm sorry, I won't say it again, I can fall asleep, I just teased you, sister, get your husband back to the room, I don't know how to stimulate him." β