After Su Lin discussed the death record, I hurried to find Nuo Lan and inform me of the news, before Dr. Pu whispered a few words to me, to the effect that Dr. Su said that the patient was not admitted to the hospital, and could not be further administered, and it was okay to be rescued, but if it was not rescued, it would not be good, and I would have to find trouble.

I thought about it carefully, I didn't blame Dr. Su for not saving him when he saw death, first of all, the doctor-patient relationship is not as simple as it was in the last century, the respect for doctors is declining, the doctor-patient relationship is tense, and medical malpractice is not so simple, plus now is the Internet era, if you don't have a good reputation, your reputation will be ruined, which is immeasurable, and it doesn't mean that Dr. Su won't save him when he dies, if he doesn't rescue him, even if Li Kai doesn't look for trouble, then Li Kai's family can't find it? Not necessarily, and there is no agreement signed, so now Dr. Su's position is correct, there is no way, now they are afraid of taking risks, and the patient is really because of the acute onset of the disease, the time is too short, otherwise the ventilator and ECG monitor would have been used a long time ago.

This is like what is often said on the Internet, if the old man falls down, he will not help you, and if he does not help, there will always be someone who stands at the highest moral point to criticize you.

Now hospitals are afraid of taking risks, a medical accident to lose money is a simple matter, if the reputation is damaged, then the hospital can be closed, sometimes the inaccurate condition is willing to let the patient transfer to other hospitals to see, and do not accept this patient, and some patients like to record and video, which is extremely distrustful of doctors, but also makes doctors very headache.

Dr. Su has seen more than me, I have no reason to complain that he did not use the best equipment to save this patient, even if the onset was not so urgent, I believe that Dr. Su would not do this, I also sympathize with Li Kai, a filial son, who has done what future generations should do, I should learn from him.

The more I think about it, the more headache I have, I just don't want to, this thing still has some stimulation for me, and there is nothing to do in the afternoon, squinted on the sofa, just lay down for less than five minutes, Nuoyan's phone came again, it was the depressed person Song Congwu, I really wanted to sleep for a while, but no way, since Nuoyan called me, if I don't listen or find a reason to refuse, this will have a certain impact on my future work, but the strange thing is that this time Song Congwu didn't come in the middle of the night, but came during the day, it's really strange, I arrived at Nuoyan's office, Nuoyan was already hypnotizing, and made a gesture to me not to disturb, telling me to close the doorI did.

Looking at Nuo Yan's skillful words, this time Song Congwu was very natural, he didn't sweat on his forehead last time, and it was over after ten minutes.

Nuoyan said, "What do you think of this time?"

"Doctor Noyan, since you hypnotized me last time, I have also figured out the scene I saw, it is my own problem, I have not fulfilled the responsibility of a husband, I did not feel excited after this hypnosis, but I still feel very guilty, I used to beat her only in front of her children, such a marriage will not last long, I deeply reflect on my own behavior, I am thinking about why that man can get my wife's heart, what method is used, I think calmly for a few days, I have let go of the past, if that man really loves my wife and my son, it can also make them live better。 ”

"Actually, it's right that you can think so, now is an opportunity for you, although you are in your fifties, but it is not that there is no room for recovery, Ren Zhengfei is a good example, we are all the same, just a few decades, if you don't do something, wouldn't it be a pity. ”

"You're right, once, when I didn't have a result with my wife, when I got along with my ex-girlfriend, I was only thirty years old, an older unmarried young man, and I was thinking that she would always be my future, and she couldn't miss a part, she was very important, more important than my own life, and I tried all kinds of ways to be good for her, to make her happy, and she was happy, and she was happy, and she accepted all the ways I did well for her.

I also thought that just such a dedication, just make her happy, she will accompany me to go on, our life will become better, and slowly everything will be better.

Unexpectedly, she still followed others.

I know, it's the people I met who are wrong, in this world, there are still a lot of good girls, but a lot of girls, a lot of people, is a cruel reality than I imagined, she will accept my good to her, but she knows more clearly that this poor child in front of her, except for a heart, nothing, if she just wants to fall in love, or play, she can find a fool like me, or find a handsome guy who looks good, but if she wants to entrust her life in the future, she clearly knows that she wants to find a family with good conditions, rich, material conditions are the most important, because money can bring her a good life, bring her enjoyment, and a poor boyand what can be given to her.

I used to be very uncomfortable, but then I gradually understood that in the first place, survival of the fittest, the strong survive, and the strong can continue to reproduce. The weak are eliminated, and this is true of the animal kingdom and the same is true of humans. Although I don't have the anger and discomfort I once had, I still feel hopeless about her, she can take this love so lightly for money.

However, it's also normal, not only can she not afford me, but when I have no money, when I bathe the dog, how many people can watch me. So, let's try to earn money, I tell myself every day. Song Congwu said his heart, but I still didn't say a word.

Noyan poured us water and said to us, "I remember seeing the signature of a girl who came from a very poor background and worked hard to make a name for herself in this city: I work hard to make money, not because I love money so much. It's that in this life, I don't want to be with anyone because of money, and I don't want to leave anyone because of money.

There is some truth in this, but it is not too reasonable, if you meet someone who is only with you for money, then you have no money, she will leave you, so what is the use of such a person.

Money is indeed the first condition to be measured, but the most important thing for a partner is morality.

Twenty-year-old girls that men will always like regardless of whether the conditions are good or not, they know that girls have gone downhill when they reach twenty-five years old. Some of my friends have a very high vision and want to find someone with good conditions, but at this age, it is impossible to find someone much taller than themselves. There was an American girl who posted a question on a website forum, "How can I marry a rich man?" She said, she was a beautiful girl, 25 years old, and she was very pretty, very tasteful. She wanted to marry a man with an annual salary of $500,000, she wanted to live in a noble home in the heart of New York, and she wanted to find and marry a man with such conditions. Then, a Wall Street financier who earns more than half a million dollars a year replied to her, saying that from a businessman's point of view, marrying the twenty-five-year-old was a bad business decision. Aside from the details, in fact, what this twenty-five-year-old beautiful girl is talking about is actually a simple sum of money and the simplicity of appearance. The woman provides a glamorous appearance, the man pays for it, and the fair deal is made. However, there is a fatal problem, the woman's beauty fades back with the years, while the man's money does not decrease for no reason. In fact, the man's income is likely to increase year by year, while the woman is unlikely to be more beautiful year by year.

Therefore, from an economic point of view, the man is an appreciating asset, and the woman is a depreciating asset. If beauty is the woman's only asset, then the woman's value will be worrying ten years later. Wall Street terminology says that every transaction has a position, and dating a woman is a trading position, and once the price falls, it should be sold immediately, and it is not suitable to have it for a long time, that is, the desired marriage. It sounds cruel, but for a product that needs to depreciate at an accelerated rate, the sensible choice is to lease rather than buy. And people with higher conditions than this girl are certainly not fools, and even say that they are extremely smart, so on the basis of no feelings, they will only associate with these beauties and will not marry her. So he advised the girl to stop looking for a secret recipe for marrying a rich man. But she can find a way to turn her into a person with an annual salary of 500,000, which is more than the chance of marrying a rich fool. ”

I spoke: " Uncle Song, let it be, what you just said made me reacquaint myself with you, since you can't change others, then work hard to change yourself, your foundation is still there, it's not nothing, now there are many people who are divorced in this society, you are not the first, nor the last, your efforts are in the eyes of someone, if there are suitable female friends or patient friends around me, I will introduce you, I wish you a speedy release from the shadows, Nuoyan's words are not unreasonable, men are value-added assets, the older you get, the more popular you are, the recovery is good, I believe you can defeat yourself。 ”

Nuo Yan also cheered up: "Uncle Song, there are few people who can be so magnanimous at your age, your mentality is rare, among so many depressed patients I have seen, you have the deepest impression on me, sometimes you take a step, and the remaining step will not stop, I am the same as Director Feng, I have suitable female friends, I will introduce you, I wish you a speedy recovery!"

Song Congwu held my hand and said: "Doctor Wind Chime, Doctor Nuoyan, thank you for your help to me, if it weren't for you, maybe I would have left, just like you said, you can't change others, then change yourself, I won't give up my own, the scenery outside is still very beautiful, where there is sunshine, there is hope, thank you." ”

After Nuoyan and I watched Song Congwu leave, we were very happy, this patient is not simple, and he can be cured, thanks to Nuoyan.

"Nuoyan, thank you, if it weren't for you, maybe Song Congwu wouldn't have been able to get over the hurdle in his heart, you are not only beautiful, but also kind-hearted, I can work with you, it is really a blessing from my previous life. ”

"Haha, thank you Director Feng, if you hadn't given me this job, I wouldn't have had the opportunity to show my talents, we complement each other, I love it here, not only because my sister is here, but also you. ”

Looking at Nuo Yan's sweet smile, my mood suddenly improved a lot, Li Guoqing's matter gradually faded in my mind, and the work had to continue, and I began to get busy.