Chapter 109: Primal Memories and Subconscious
"Sister Lele, why isn't this girl awake?"
"It stands to reason that she should be awake, the location of hypnosis is well chosen, she feels very safe, the signal released by the brain nerves should be that she wants to sleep a little longer, let's not disturb her, you cook at night." ”
"Cooking?, it's over, what time is it?" I said anxiously.
"It's almost six o'clock. ”
"It's over, it's over, yesterday Xue'er and Aunt Yuping specially came to invite me to their house as guests, I forgot, what should I do? ”
"What should I do? You ask me, I know there that I am a psychological hypnotist, and I don't go back in time. ”
"Forget it, I'll call and apologize. ”
Xue'er didn't answer, is she angry, I'm a little anxious, how did I forget about this, really.
"I didn't pick it up, the prelude to the breakup. ”
"Alas, sigh like what, how do you know that she is angry, what you don't see, don't easily deny, do you think she won't know what happened today? If you don't answer your phone, you may not hear it, or know that you are busy, in short, she won't blame you. ”
Sure enough, Xue'er called, and I glanced at Lele and smiled at me.
"Xue'er, I'm really sorry today, there is a patient at home, so I was too busy for a while, I forgot, you tell Aunt Yuping, tomorrow or the day after tomorrow in order to express my apology, I invite you, okay?"
"I know you're busy today, it's okay, mom already knows, I'll tell you good news another day, great news, don't be too surprised!"
I hung up the phone and I didn't finish it. This girl, really, is not humorous at all.
"Sure enough, as you expected, Sister Lele, are you sure you guessed, this is too accurate, tomorrow night's big lotto, you give me a prediction, if you win half of you, how about it, this transaction is not accompanied." ”
"Big Lotto! Big you're big, I'm not that good, I'm only half of me, you're embarrassed. ”
"And how much do you want?"
"If you have those two yuan, you might as well give it to me, I'll buy a lollipop!"
"What's so delicious about lollipops, it's better to ......"
He Qiqi woke up.
"Where is this?"
"Country Garden villa area. "I got straight to the point.
"Do you feel better now, wind chimes pour a glass of water. Lele commanded.
"I'm a little dizzy, but I feel safe, is this in your house?" he said.
"Yes, there are two sisters who will come back later, and my sister will cook for you what you like to eat. ”
"Not hungry. ”
"Here comes the water, honeysuckle tea, taste it, little sister. ”
When she saw me, she took a small sip, and her movements were very elegant.
"Can you really help me? Sister, I want to cure my illness, I want to go to school and study like a normal person. ”
"Don't worry, my sister has a way to make you better, provided you are obedient. ”
Sister Lele is like coaxing a child, coaxing He Qiqi, this state is not like what Sister Lele said about dual personality schizophrenia, this is simply a good girl.
"You will be treated again another day, you may feel very painful in the process, but there is no way, the disease still has to be cured, the biggest advantage of hypnosis is that there is no physical pain, I suggest that you finally switch to your other personality, so that at least your ability to resist pressure is stronger, so that it is possible to open your sealed memories." ”
"Do you want to switch to another personality?" He Qiqi was still a little puzzled, what does this have to do with personality.
"Of course, memory is a good thing, there are horrors, I have to plan for the worst, because if you see fear during hypnosis, it will stimulate your heart, a slight one will accelerate the heartbeat, and a serious one will cause sudden death, this is my suggestion, of course, you can also choose not to treat it, so that the doubts in your heart will be sealed forever. ”
"How soon will it take to start hypnotherapy for me?"
"It's definitely not going to work today, the weather is not good, I will come to you on a good day, don't go to the hospital during this time, no one knows that you are here, and this community is not something that anyone can enter casually, you don't have to worry about safety, because I know you have people you don't want to see?"
"Okay, is this little brother taking care of me?"
"Yes, boys have a sense of security. Lele laughed.
"Can this not be weak and protect me?"
I was dissatisfied: "My brother has also practiced, okay, besides, who do you think can come in casually?"
"Well, I'm relieved if you say that, you go out with me. ”
"What?"
"I want to buy daily necessities, can you help me get things?"
"This ......" Lele glanced at me and motioned for me to follow.
Country Garden is a very large community, there are more than a dozen supermarkets and the like, not to mention some commissaries and the like, He Qiqi and I entered a Wudongfeng supermarket......
"Lele, what about the wind chimes and that girl?" Jin Wenhui asked.
"I'm going to buy daily necessities, accompanied by wind chimes, don't worry, Sister Wen Hui. ”
"Okay, have you eaten?"
"No, this girl just woke up, I've been doing psychotherapy for her, but it's a pity that it's another kind of personality, and it's quite refreshing to agree, I don't know if the other personality is also so refreshing. ”
"Zuo Mi, you wash the vegetables first, I'll ask Lele a few questions, and I'll help you right away. ”
"Sister, I can do it alone, I'll come. ”
Jin Wenhui said: "What's the difference between these two personalities, Lele?"
"Sister Wen Hui, let me briefly tell you about human consciousness, human consciousness can be divided into two parts: conscious and subconscious according to Freud's subconscious. The subconscious mind is the subconscious mind, and human mental activity can be divided into three parts: the subconscious, the conscious, and the preconscious.
The subconscious mind is more primitive and close to instinct. There are also some subconscious minds that are formed when the ability to discriminate is weak in childhood and early years, and it becomes a kind of subconscious because it is forgotten in adulthood. So the subconscious mind has a characteristic, it is vague, unclear and basically unperceptible to the conscious. Consciousness is cultivated through learning, cultivation, and training, and is noble, and is constrained by social ethics, etiquette, and customs. Human personality and character are constantly improved through learning, fumigation, edification, exercise, and experience through acquired psychological development, and finally form a person's unique character and personality. Man is different from animals, man has psychological functions, thus distinguishing him from animals, but the biological instincts of the two are the same: food, air, water, sex, skin-to-skin contact, affection, comfort, freedom and comfort, stretching, unconditional competition, plunder, and fight for food, territory, and sexual objects......
The difference between humans and animals is because people have social ethics, etiquette, customs, and habits, and people have a higher and noble reason than instinct. Human beings can consciously suppress the instinctive low-level needs, so as to elevate and transform these low-level, primitive, and animalistic needs into human, high-level, and noble needs and behaviors. This is the character of people, the charm of people. Therefore, the personality of adults (i.e., personality) is transformed, cultivated, and tempered after the psychological development process that begins at an early age. But the primitive, low, instinctive need remains, it exists in the subconscious, it is suppressed by the conscious, it is consciously suppressed by the noble character. Therefore, this inhibition does not cause psychological conflicts and contradictions, so people with normal psychological development do not feel that their personalities have a duality. ”
"Lele, do you mean that what we have to do now is to open He Qiqi's primitive subconscious?"
"Yes, but it's difficult, I can't guarantee that she can be cured, because in the process of hypnosis, she is alone in the face of the subconscious what she sees and hears, all I can do is to induce, encourage, teach her how to do it, how to face it, so that she is not afraid of this subconscious, in that case, the purpose of treatment will be achieved, and she will truly recover." ”
"I see what you mean, let's work together, can you give me an example?"
"When I was in Hangzhou before, I was not treated at the time, I was just listening, and the patient said when he described his distress: I look like everyone else, but when I talk to them, I feel that I am working hard. I mean, I tried so hard not to let myself not talk to others, and my expression may be calm, but in fact, I was surging in the process, and I couldn't be at peace for a moment, and my mind flashed countless shots!! picking up a knife and killing him, picking up a stool and smashing him to death...... My new friend said that when he first met me, he found me unapproachable, but later learned that I was fine. Actually, there are times when I'm happy, and I say, "I'm still happy." This kind of happiness is not uncommon to me. I often feel that I am just upset, and many of my colleagues around me say that I have a cheerful personality, and my friends also say that I am much more cheerful now. I don't know exactly what I'm going to say. I'm just mentally irritable, but I often slip around thinking about some messy things, and I get annoyed when I think about it, and I don't want to live anymore. Or I think about it and get sad, these things that others say they won't know, and when I come back to my senses, I feel that I hate it again, and I always think about those useless things, things that have passed irretrievably. Sometimes I feel like I'm running away from something, that it's only by dying that I can be hurt. I feel that I am hurting myself, doing something bad for me, and refusing to help myself. No one will believe me if I say anything, I don't want to say anything. ”
This shows that this patient has two emotions, which can also be said to be a dual personality. This is a pathological psychology, a disorder of psychological functioning, an obstacle, and the root of this disorder is manifested in the subconscious, which is very stubborn and deep-rooted, and it is a kind of obsessive thinking, a kind of sick thinking. Therefore, even if the patient supervisor tries not to think about it, but he is powerless to do it, unable to drive it away, it just lingers, and becomes the devil!
The conflict between the patient's dual personalities is so intense that "in the process, there is no psychological peace." Those shots in the mind, which show that this dual personality of the patient is not voluntary, it is forced. Although he felt that "he felt that he was hurting himself, doing things that were not good for him, and he was unwilling to help himself", he just couldn't get rid of it, and he couldn't change this double emotion and dual personality. The main root cause of this is that the roots buried deep in the subconscious have not yet been consciously excavated and understood, and thus they are powerless and difficult to extricate themselves.
This is one of the most important causes of mental disease, and it is extremely important to dig it out, analyze it, and understand it as it is. When the root of the disease is found, the treatment task is more than half completed. Helping patients understand the duality of personality and the extremely mechanistic causes, and helping patients discover the harmful consequences brought about by knowing their own subconscious, it is possible to give patients the motivation to overcome and change it. This is one of the important contents of psychotherapy. ”