The door of the octagonal cage was opened, Qin Wanshan walked in, and Wang Bohua, who was wearing protective clothing, also walked in, and the students around who were watching the excitement became excited one by one, and they all looked at the two people in the octagonal cage with expectant eyes.

Wang Bohua looked at Qin Wanshan and hesitated for a moment and said, "Don't you wear this?"

Wang Bohua pointed to the protective clothing he was wearing.

Qin Wanshan smiled: "The protective clothing is to protect you, I don't need to protect you." ”

Wang Bohua stretched his neck and crooked his mouth and said with a smile: "Okay." ”

Qin Wanshan shook his hand and neck and said with a smile: "It's okay, you let go, let me see your ability, don't be afraid of hurting me." You don't have to worry, I've been practicing in the army for so many years, I'm very measured, we often practice, all kinds of simulated acting, combat training, especially scouts like us, individual combat ability is very strong, often train one-on-one and one-to-many fights, and the start is very measured. You don't have to be afraid. ”

Qin Wanshan's long list of words was actually not to let Wang Bohua dispel the worries in his heart, but to make Wang Bohua awe of himself, and let Wang Bohua, who was a little above at this time, recognize the reality - the Director Qin in front of him was a veteran who had been a scout for more than ten years.

And after listening to Qin Wanshan's words, Wang Bohua's eyes did hesitate.

Qin Wanshan posed and said with a smile: "Come." ”

But Wang Bohua didn't act rashly, just looked at Qin Wanshan.

Qin Wanshan shook his head, and then punched at Wang Bohua's armpit, Wang Bohua hurriedly blocked with his hand, at this time Qin Wanshan struck east and west, and with a slight sweep of his legs, he knocked Wang Bohua to the ground.

The surrounding students burst into enthusiastic cheers and amazement at Director Qin's performance, and in the eyes of these students, Qin Wanshan, the director of the Political and Educational Office, knocked Wang Bohua down on the plastic field of the octagonal cage with just one move.

"Get up, go on. Qin Wanshan said with a smile.

Wang Bohua watched Qin Wanshan get up from the ground.

Qin Wanshan smiled and said, "You are too weak, I will let you have one hand." ”

As he spoke, Qin Wanshan put his left hand behind his back as he spoke, and then only stretched out his right hand.

The two fought again, even if Qin Wanshan gave up a hand, Wang Bohua was far from being the opponent of Qin Wanshan, who had superb fighting skills and rich experience in actual combat. Qin Wanshan was afraid that Wang Bohua would be pressed to the ground with one hand, and the surrounding students shouted again.

Qin Wanshan pressed Wang Bohua with his knees, grabbed the wrists of Wang Bohua's two hands with one hand, Qin Wanshan's hands were very strong, and Wang Bohua's two hands were held by him with one hand and couldn't struggle.

Qin Wanshan smiled in Wang Bohua's ear and said: "To be honest, you are not bad, with me, a veteran of the reconnaissance company for more than ten years, I think you have the potential to be a special forces." ”

Qin Wanshan let go of Wang Bohua's hand and continued: "Let's stop here today, if you don't accept it, practice more by yourself, exercise more, the school is now equipped with sandbags for you, go to beat sandbags more, when you think you can beat me, go to the political and educational office to find me." As long as you can beat me, I'll make you the boss of Xibei No. 4. ”

As he spoke, Qin Wanshan pushed open the door of the octagonal cage and walked out, Wang Bohua got up from the ground and looked at Qin Wanshan's back and fell into deep thought.

And does Wang Bohua really have the potential to be a special soldier? Actually, he is not, or this kind of potential is not high. It's just that Qin Wanshan gave Wang Bohua another goal and a direction, a bad boy like Wang Bohua has no discipline, advocates force, is tall and big, and doesn't like to study, because he doesn't have a clear goal in life, so he went astray and went astray to the road of a bad boy. And Qin Wanshan's sentence "You have the potential to be a special soldier" is just giving Wang Bohua an affirmation, a psychological hint and a life goal.

Students like Wang Bohua need the affirmation of others too much, and it is precisely because they need the affirmation of others that they are not good at studying, so they want to be the boss and enjoy the affirmation of others who support them. In short, it's a kind of vanity.

They want to get the attention and respect of others, they want to be appreciated and worshipped, and what they are most afraid of hearing is the denial of others about themselves, and the most afraid of hearing is "you can't do it" and "you have no ability".

And the more they lack something, the more they want to show it. Gangster students of this age, the more arrogant they are on the surface, the more fragile and sensitive they are in their hearts, and they are also extremely immature.

This group of delinquent teenagers likes to use "force" to make others submit and let others recognize themselves. They are also eager to find mutual recognition and value realization in small groups such as "gangs".

Therefore, when Lin Ping and Qin Wanshan had a regular conversation on Sunday night, they proposed a strategy for disciplining this group of delinquent teenagers: use "force" to deter them and affirm them with "language". The most taboo thing to deal with this group of delinquent teenagers is to blindly deny them, the more they deny them, the more rebellious they become, and the more they want to prove that what they are doing is right.

The same is true for parents who educate their children in the same way.

The age of junior high school and high school is the critical period for children's self-consciousness awakening, and it is precisely because of the awakening of self-consciousness that some children will have more and more serious rebellious behaviors in adolescence. Because at this time their self-consciousness awakened, they began to try to find themselves, explore themselves, they are eager to be independent, eager for their own different, unique, in fact, they are craving for the affirmation and attention of others, children at this age are the easiest to dream, will look forward to being famous in the world, the marquis and the prime minister, and are not willing to be ordinary people and ordinary people like their parents, so they will look at their parents with harsh and even contemptuous and provocative eyes.

Therefore, the guidance of parents is extremely crucial, and the management method should not be abuse and restraint, but active communication, helping children analyze the present and future, and establish a direction and life goals. Discipline children can be punished, and moderate corporal punishment can also be used, but the most taboo is verbal abuse, ridicule, and complete denial.

The stick hurts the body, the words are sad, and the stick beats you will basically forget the pain after it has passed, but a sentence is likely to make the child remember it in his heart for a lifetime.

And Lin Ping and Qin Wanshan's politics are the same for Xibei No. 4 Middle School, they need to completely deter the gangster students in the school, but what they need more is to set up a life goal for this group of gangster students to fight for. Deny the delinquent juvenile behavior, and then look for their shining points and affirm them.

Why is it mixed? It's because there's no direction.

And now, Xibei No. 4 Middle School is to quickly cut through the chaos, govern the school with "force", first use "force" to deter them, and then slowly guide them and affirm them.