After Zuo Mi and Wang Yirou said this, Li Huaying forgave Li Hao, after all, they are all relatives, Xiaoyue is also doing well, Li Hao also seriously repented, Li Hao is very grateful for everyone's help, said that he wanted to invite everyone to dinner, but was rejected by Nuoyan, Wang Yirou Qilin helped bring Xiaoyue back, after all, they haven't seen each other for so many years, and I don't know if Xiaoyue still knows Li Huaying, the four of them set foot on the road to Zhongjiang, and it is unknown what kind of difficulties are waiting for them ahead......

Zuo Mi sat in Wang Yirou's position and couldn't figure it out, what method did Nuoyan use to make Li Hao take the initiative to say it, this is also incredible.

Nuo Yan looked at Zuo Mi's somewhat puzzled look, so he took the initiative to say: "On some occasions, many people we have never met, and when we meet for the first time, we have said that there is no response if we can't say hello, and we can't achieve the purpose of socializing. At this time, you must know how to make a good start and open the appropriate topic in order to open the situation of strangers. The most commonly used way is the climbing style, which can climb relatives and friends, climb fellow villagers and so on. Living in society, everyone will have their own relationship network, as long as they pay attention to each other, they can find that the two sides have this or that intersection, and if you find the intersection, you can quickly eliminate the strangeness. ”

Zuo Mi looked at Nuoyan, how could she know what I was thinking, so she withdrew her eyes and didn't dare to look at her.

Nuoyan smiled: "Don't you wonder why I know what you're thinking? Don't worry about this question, when I was in school, I was a professional in the psychology of human body language, so most people don't have too many secrets in front of me, unless it's hidden deeply, a look, an inconspicuous action, I can probably know the person's current state of mind." ”

"Doctor Noyan, you are really amazing, you have such a deep knowledge of psychology at such a young age, can I ask you a question?

"You're welcome. ”

"I recently feel that my husband's temper is not very good, not to me, but to others, yesterday I beat a person, if I didn't hold him, I guess that person would be miserable. Zuo Mi said tremblingly.

"Wind chimes beating people? He wasn't like this before, why did he beat people, did he know that person?"

"I know, Chen Guo, I went out of this hospital before, and later joined forces to give my husband's memories to ...... My husband was very angry, so he beat Chen Guo, and the people around him looked at it and didn't dare to come forward to pull, why did it become like this, I really don't understand?" Zuo Mi muttered.

"Everyone will have different moods at different times and in different environments, happy, happy, angry, disappointed, depressed, etc., and it is precisely because people can have this mentality that they have created different lives. Positive people live happily, negative people live painfully, and the performance of bad emotions can also determine the success or failure of life, as for why the wind chimes hit people, I took the time to talk to him, and said what he thought in his heart, I will tell you again, and one more thing I also need to tell you is that in the long journey of life, it is very important to have a good temper. A good-tempered person can be comfortable in complex interpersonal relationships, can get along harmoniously with the people around him, good-tempered is like a bridge to communicate with each other's hearts, after crossing this bridge, life will be more wonderful, beautiful, more sunshine, why the wind chimes suddenly hit people, at least one point, you don't really know him enough, in addition to busy work, care more about the wind chimes, try to open his heart, as long as the wind chimes are willing to tell you anything, at least you have successfully captured a man's heart. "Noyan gave Zuo Mi a long list of analyses.

"Thank you, Dr. Noyan, I'll do it, you're so nice. Zuo Mi said sweetly.

Nuo Yan smiled and said: "Okay, I'm tired too, I've been exhausted by dealing with this patient in the past two days, let your husband give me a massage, okay with it?" If it's inconvenient, I'll go outside to relax and relax." ”

"Look at what you said, of course there is no opinion, I'll let him come over later, just so you can talk to him. ”

......

"Xiao He, give me a thump on the back, suddenly my neck hurts badly, but it's a pity that my brother is not there, his massage skills are super good. Jin Wenhui said lightly.

"Jin Dong, although I am not as good as your brother's massage, I have learned a little before, and I will definitely try my best to make you comfortable. ”

Jin Wenhui pursed her lips and smiled: "Your mouth is so sweet, your emotional intelligence is very high, there must be a lot of girls chasing you at school, right?"

"That's not true, my family conditions are not very good, I used to talk about a girl, and then I broke up because of family reasons, so that now I am single. ”

"Look at how hard you work, it's really like I did back then, I saw some of my brother's figures from you, you are the kind of people who have a very strong sense of control, and it is only a matter of time before you succeed. ”

"Thank you Jin Dong, the strength is okay, your neck is not much of a problem. ”

"To borrow your auspicious words, the emotional intelligence I just mentioned is not necessarily emotional, emotional intelligence is a person's ability to deal with feelings, emotional intelligence is high and low, and its power is infinite. A person with high emotional intelligence is able to control his emotions better, be able to stay calm and think rationally when encountering things, and will not do irrational things on the spur of the moment. People with low emotional intelligence are likely to be unable to vent their inner negative emotions in time, and let themselves always immerse themselves in them, these emotions are likely to threaten their physical and mental health, when encountering setbacks, people with low emotional intelligence are likely to be unable to control their emotions, which has a bad impact on themselves and others, so this practice is very undesirable. When we encounter something bad, don't complain about fate, we should try to change our attitude and face life positively. Take these bad things as our ladder to success, prompting us to continue to grow, whether we live happily and happily, it all depends on what kind of attitude we face and how to regulate our emotions, so if you want to get a happy life, cultivating emotional intelligence is an indispensable preparation, what I said above, I feel that you have all of them, so I think you are a boy with high emotional intelligence and IQ. ”

"Jin Dong, can I call you Sister Wen Hui? Calling you Jin Dong all the time seems a little too formal, I like to feel a little more cordial. ”

"Of course you can, just call Sister Wen Hui. ”

"Sister Wen Hui, can you coach me on how to catch up with the girl?" He Jiazu asked.

"This question is so profound, I remember some time ago, I saw a sentence in Douyin: In the face of love, boys show timidity, and girls show boldness. I strongly agree with this sentence, if you are not handsome, you never know how active a woman is. Some people say that generally girls don't care too much about boys' appearance, and only boys pay attention to the appearance of the opposite sex. In fact, many people misunderstand that men are the ones who don't pay attention to appearance, in real life, I often find that as long as girls are not too ugly, boys will treat her as a beauty, I have to say, men's aesthetics are very broad. Every girl has a Prince Charming in her heart, and her Prince Charming is so perfect, tall, handsome, and chic. Women's aesthetics are completely different from men's, and the average woman thinks that if she is beautiful, it must be really beautiful, and there is no place to compromise at all. When a woman sees a handsome guy, she usually breathes rapidly, and I heard that some women will lack oxygen, resulting in a brief coma, but I just heard about it, and I haven't seen it with my own eyes. ”

He Jiazu teased: "Sister Wen Hui, then what is your reaction when you see the handsome guy, will it be hypoxic, will it lead to a short coma?"

"Heh, learn from me, I rarely see handsome guys that make my heart move, but some women have seen handsome guys, their eyes become foggy, their breathing becomes short, their faces become red, and they speak with their own trills. ”

"However, there are also a lot of beautiful girls in our department, and they usually don't have so many emojis when they see handsome guys. ”

"Maybe it's not handsome enough, I remember when I was in high school, I was a big handsome guy at the same table, what did he look like? Very handsome, the skin is also white, the face is translucent, at that time, I sat in the back row of the class with him, because I was taller, whenever the class was over, a few women in the front row would come around, chat with my tablemates, and some would buy him all kinds of gifts, showing him all the time. In fact, these girls, to be honest, are not very good, even I can't look down on them, and my table mates can't look down on them at all, but these girls won't feel embarrassed at all. Day in and day out, they only chatter at the same table with me, but they never say a word to me. I thought to myself: You guys are too naked, I've never seen a handsome guy? After working, I was assigned to the obstetrics and gynecology department in the first year, and my colleague was a handsome guy, how handsome was it? I was hospitalized in my colleague's department, my colleague was her doctor in charge, and I heard my colleague say that the woman was from a certain art academy and had not yet graduated. I take the initiative to give me a hug, I remember that day, my colleague told me that he asked one of his roommates in the dormitory to move out, and later he told me that since he had a relationship with that woman, he was in love with other girls, and he didn't feel anything. Envy, jealousy and hate, who makes the family a handsome guy. ”

"Then you, a colleague, should pursue you? Sister Wen Hui, a woman with a good appearance like you, walking on the street has a 100% return rate. ”

"Haha, really good at talking, our peers will not look for peers, this is the law, later, my colleague went to get a swimming card, that is, he went to the swimming pool every week to swim, such a handsome guy, wearing a swimsuit, do you say that the young women around him can stand it? After that, he often does not return at night. Over the years, I have often asked myself a question, why do girls take the initiative when they see handsome guys? Is it that women are more attentive? Obviously not, at best, women are as attentive as men. However, I think that in fact, women know how to live better, and when they see what they want, they will boldly strive for it. And men, there will be a lot of concerns, men will think, can I be worthy of this big beauty? Can she take a fancy to me? What should I do if I reject me? If we come together, will it be watery poplar? Men think too much, I think men still have to learn from women, see what they like, be bold, don't think too much, the big deal is to be rejected, what can I do? In fact, no matter men and women, for beautiful things, for people with good looks, their hearts are yearning, which is understandable. But appearance is not everything, appearance is not the first productive force of men, so men still have to focus on their careers, only those who have a successful career are the most handsome, what do you think?"

He Jiazu touched his head embarrassedly, as if what Sister Wen Hui said made sense, don't keep thinking about how to chase girls one day, if you have a stable job and a stable career, only then will some girls look up to you.