"Kiki, don't blame you, you want to get the wind chime too much, so you ignore his inner feelings, just from the point of view of mate selection, the wind chime is indeed a very suitable partner, but the burden on the wind chime is too heavy, he is the heir of the copper needle, will be jealous of many people, maybe because of this identity there is a killing disaster, he can't face you, he can't make this determination, this is also protecting your safety, Kiki, can you understand?"

"Sister Zuo, I know I'm wrong, use Brother Fengchi's tolerance and kindness to achieve my own goals, I can't do anything, I'm sorry Zhang Xue. ”

"No one is sorry for anyone, Cher, she does love wind chimes very much, but having an unreliable father ruined the happiness of two people, happiness does not depend on people's living conditions, but on people's mentality. Sometimes it doesn't, it comes unexpectedly, and it leaves quietly. You feel that everything is ready and there are times when you don't, and when you think you have nothing, it is always by your side. I can't catch it, and when I give up, it floats again. Fluttering and uncertain. Own money, cars, villas...... Is it happiness? That's just the achievement of desire, when people have desires that can not be satisfied, he suffers; when all people's desires are satisfied, he is bored, life is like a pendulum swinging around in pain and boredom, Qiqi, I liked him when I saw the wind chime for the first time in Chongqing, I know that the so-called love at first sight is not reliable, but I can't deceive my heart, sometimes deliberately to avoid, but because of the distance, I miss him more and more, so I have the opportunity to come to Chengdu, in fact, I do this is also not authentic, but I still want to fight for it, missed, life is meaningless。 ”

"Sister Zuo, I'm afraid I'm like you, is there any way to avoid pain and boredom?"

"To avoid pain, it is not to work hard to satisfy desires, but to recognize the facts and adjust it appropriately, and the only way to avoid boredom is to live an aesthetic life. The mood is extremely calm, elegant, and aesthetically pleasing every day, and if possible, to create some beauty, this will be the highest state of life cultivation. Although happiness is negative and incorporeal, the pain of life is real, existential, and positive, because pleasure is and will always be negative, and it is a mistake to think that pleasure can make people happy, and it is the wrong idea that jealous people have this wrong idea, and that is the punishment for their jealousy. In contrast, pain and suffering are both concrete and real. We can feel them directly, without fantasies and expectations. If the lessons we learn bear fruit, then we will stop chasing happiness and pleasure, and we will pay more attention to how to block the path of pain and suffering as much as possible. And the safest way to avoid being very unhappy is not to ask for happiness, let the wind chimes make their own choices, so that me, you, Xue'er or people who pursue wind chimes, such as Wang Yirou. ”

"No need, Sister Zuo, I take the initiative to quit, I'm not suitable for Brother Wind Chime, you can replace me, what I have to do now is to face reality, reduce my desires, and proceed from reality. Kiki sighed.

After Zuo Mi came out, I didn't go to the room, I was waiting for Zuo Mi, wanting to hear what Kiki had to talk about with her.

"Sister Zuo, what is Kiki's state?" I asked.

"I enlightened her, she couldn't accept it at first, and then she wanted to open it, wind chimes, how do I feel like a third party doing this, am I wrong?"

"Of course not, to be honest, Kiki confessed to me that kind of look that day, I really can't refuse her, I'm afraid she won't be able to accept it, in case ......"

"I know, I want to discuss with my sister, I want to go out and live alone with you, so it's not appropriate to be under one roof every day. ”

"It's okay, to be honest, I'm a man living with a couple of women, I'm not used to it, it's right to go out. ”

"Okay, I'll do that. Wind chimes, how can you avoid pain?"

"Why do you ask that? Sister Zuo, this question is so profound!"

"Answer me quickly. ”

"Well, I think we should adjust the expectations of happiness, possessions, status, honor, etc., to a moderated and appropriate scale, because it is the desire and struggle for happiness and glory that brings great misfortune, therefore, it is wise and reasonable to lower our desires, because a rather unhappy life is easy, in contrast, a fairly happy life is not only difficult, but even completely impossible, and the direction of life's efforts should be to avoid pain as much as possible, and when pain is avoided, happiness will naturally come. A person is always ready to do and can do the following two things in his or her life journey, to prevent problems before they happen and to be open-minded. The former avoids loss and injury, the latter avoids conflict and quarrels, and to sum up, to avoid pain is to prevent it from happening. Now can you tell me why you are asking such a profound question?"

"Kiki asked me like this, this girl, just like you said, she regards you as a pillar of her heart, and now that your pillar of heart is gone, I don't know how she will face it. ”

"Don't mention her, I've been annoyed by these things for the past two days, and Wang Yirou, rest, I still have to work tomorrow!" I covered my head and said to Zuo Mi.

...... Dexing Nephrology Hospital

"Palace, are you still used to living alone?" Zhou Ying was reluctant to leave at night, and stayed in the dormitory of the hospital all the time.

"Yingying, it's okay, but it's been two days since I've been here, and it seems that your sister Huang didn't arrange anything for me?

"Haha, are you in a hurry?"

"Not really, I just think it's weird. ”

"Sister Huang is a cautious person, and time can dilute a lot of things, because you don't have a certificate for the time being, and practicing medicine now will only attract the attention of others, illegal medical practice is a crime, in case someone reports it, you will not be safe. Wait!"

"Okay, thank you, Yingying, it's almost ten o'clock so late, aren't you going home?"

"I'm going back soon, and I'm going to see you before I go back. ”

"Thank you so much, it's good here, but there are a lot of inconveniences, and when I get paid, I'll go out to rent a house." ”

"Shall you go where I am?"

"Oh, no, how can I face your parents!"

"It's also oh, you may not be used to living with them, it's okay, I'll figure it out, the conditions here are not good, I wronged you. “

"It's only temporary, it's okay, then you go back quickly, so as not to worry about your uncle and aunt. ”

"Okay, I'll come back to see you tomorrow and take advantage of this time to get some rest. ”

After Zhou Ying left, Gong looked at this woman, she had been very concerned about herself since she first came, and she didn't know what it meant, did she like me? Why don't you use this woman to find the heir of the copper needle.

......

"Manager Li, how about I give you a ride?" Chen Yong said playfully.

"Director Chen, when did you become so idle, when did you have time not to run business, and you don't usually spend money?"

"Isn't this worrying about Manager Li's safety? As a colleague, it is right to care about colleagues!"

"Then thank you Director Chen for your kindness, I won't shirk it, please, Director Chen. ”

Driving on Jiannan Avenue, the viaduct was somehow blocked.

"It's a traffic jam!" Chen Yong said.

"Ah, that will make a difference, I made an appointment with the principal at half past nine. It's still a traffic jam. Li Hao complained.

"How do I know, it's going to rain, my mother is going to get married, it's going to be stuck in traffic, we can't fly over!"

"Hmph, it's all your fault, I originally planned to do the subway, but now it's okay, sit down, if this single is yellow, you can find a way to complete this month's tasks and bonuses by yourself." ”

"Wait, I'm not worried about you? You said that the old pervert is trying to plot against you, and I must protect my own wife, otherwise how can I be your husband." ”

"Heh, it's nice to say now, why didn't you say what you sent me today last night, I think you did it on purpose. ”

"Don't think about it, am I that kind of person, does that old pervert really have so much power?"

In the workplace, employees can't help but guess the boss's mind, and the boss will try to find out what the employee thinks, so a dual relationship between the boss and the employee is formed. As an ordinary employee, you don't have to like your boss or hate your boss, but you have to read him so that you can turn your boss into a resource for your success. It can be said that whether you can understand your boss or not is the best test of a person's understanding. But in the workplace, you need to think from a different perspective. Sometimes, the boss's intentions are sometimes not directly expressed, you need to think carefully, sometimes the boss says so, but the psychology expects you not to do this, sometimes because of your own status, the boss is inconvenient to be perverted easily, but there are hints, then you have to be well-behaved, don't force the boss; if the boss praises you in private, it is likely that he does not really appreciate you, but reminds you that if you can't reflect on yourself, I am afraid you will be unlucky. ”

"So, the old pervert didn't have a direct showdown with you?"

"No, it's a showdown, I guess it's not just me, but everyone else who came to run the business was given by her...... It's like fishing, to see who takes the bait, so even if someone gives their own body, this business will not be given to her, and it will be used by old perverts for a long time, using some means to coerce and use. ”

"Fuck, it doesn't seem to be an ordinary person, this trick is high, then you mean, in addition to the principal who has the right to decide, there is only the old pervert, and looking for the principal is the most suitable person. ”

"Yes, put the recorder on the table, complain, it's impossible for the principal not to understand what I mean, he will consider the pros and cons, for the sake of the school's reputation, maybe this year's physical examination will be far away from our hospital, I have no other way. ”

"Wife, you tried your best, made full use of the weakness of the old pervert, whether this single success is successful or not, I learned a trick from you, move, go. ”

"Drive slowly, don't worry. ”

"Isn't there not enough time?"

"Then be safe, too. ”

"Okay, listen to you. ”