In the afternoon, I lie on the sofa to sleep, although a little bad, but it is really not busy, whether it is a big hospital or a small hospital, the afternoon is indeed not as busy as the morning, if the inspection or inspection is too frequent, it will cause the disgust of the medical staff, everyone is very tired, if I still let them do things, don't be lazy, the hearts of the medical staff will be tired of me, but I slept for an hour, is entering a deep sleep, a phone call woke me up, I wanted to shut down the phone when I slept, I was afraid that in case of something tricky, and did not dare to shut down, every day nervous tension, like this, sooner or later high blood pressure。

I came to Noyan's department, and strangely there was no one.

I asked, "Isn't there a problematic patient?"

"Director Feng, we need to go to someone else's house, this boy has been tossed for more than half a year because of this incident, from a lively and cheerful person, to a person who is depressed all day long and doesn't say a word, I'm afraid that if it goes on like this, it will cause tragedy. ”

"Did you call you?" I asked.

"Yes, because it's a man, that's why I bothered you to keep me safe during the treatment. ”

"Let's go, where is the address!"

"501, three buildings on the south bank of the Yangtze River next to Auchan in the high-tech South District. ”

"Come and drive, I'm a little dizzy. ”

"Okay, no problem, Director Wind. ”

On the way, I answered a few more phone calls, all of which were big things that affected my mood.

Twenty minutes later, to the south bank of the river, after greeting the doorman, we were allowed to enter, this community is an old community, but the ground is very clean, the property here is very complicated, after coming in, there is no smell in the air, it took a long time to find three 501.

After knocking on the door, it was a young man with drooping eyelids and fluffy hair, about twenty-five years old, I don't know what stimulation he was in, and the room felt like it hadn't been cleaned up for a long time, but I observed that the shoe cabinet at home was still neatly placed, indicating that the man was not a very lazy person, because something stimulated his heart and caused this situation.

Nuoyan said to the man: "Hello, my name is Nuoyan, a second-level psychological counselor, this is my leader, wind chime, wind supervisor, how do you call you?"

"Chen Cheng. ”

Chen Cheng took the initiative to pour two glasses of water and handed them to us, his eyes were still so unenergetic, this stimulation seemed to be really not small.

I didn't speak, and Nuyan continued to ask: "Tell me about the situation, Mr. Chen, as long as you say it, you will feel better, we will help you, please trust us." ”

"It's my mom, she's the head of the family. I feel that I live with low self-esteem, some people grow up with a golden key, born without worry, I work hard every day, but I can't get anything, for this, my favorite girlfriend, because of my mother, left me, and when making a choice, I don't have a choice, if I have a certain strength, it is not so difficult, I love my girlfriend, I didn't expect this situation. Chen Cheng said that tears were streaming down his face, and I could tell that he was in true love for her girlfriend.

"Can you tell me about your girlfriend's family background, connections, personality traits. ”

"Divorced, and my ex-husband had two children, both to my ex-husband, I am also divorced, have a son, this I think are equal, I was also introduced to us through relatives, I didn't expect to talk about it like this, after understanding for a month, we lived together, because not in a city, I bought a high-speed rail ticket to see her, after a few days, we are very compatible, her personality is very good in all aspects, the only drawback is that she spends a bit of money, but these can be changed, her family background is not good, her biological parents are divorced, the situation is not good, our family's situation is better, My mother is also the kind of person with a good face, and she cares a lot about the material, during which our mother chatted with her and seemed to have made a lot of unpleasant noise, because my girlfriend is more straight, and my mother's personality is also relatively strong, my mother is against this matter, before I knew my girlfriend during the introduction of a rich one, but the age is a few years older than me, I tried to get along for a while, the parents of both sides have met, chatting is not good, the concept is different, very tired, but my mother likes her very much, I have to let me be with this, I oppose my mother, often make emotions, after coming back, my mother made a lot of noise, saying that my girlfriend's family conditions are not good, the background is complicated, You have to be with this rich person, or you can get out, write a letter of guarantee, and leave this home, this choice is difficult to make, after I told my girlfriend, she cried very sadly, and now the situation is, I am offended on both sides, I can't get off the stage, my mother argues with me every day, and I am almost nervous, I want to get out of this situation, from the information I saw on the Internet, I called you with the effect of giving it a try. ”

I took notes on the side, and Noyan continued to ask, "What's your current girlfriend's name?"

"Yu Yulin. ”

"And the one who introduced you to you before? is that girl a few years older than you?"

"Petrel. ”

"What is the age difference between the two of them?"

"My girlfriend is 24 and the guy is 30 years old. ”

"Do you know the situation of your parents, let's talk about your girlfriend first, what kind of profession does your father have?"

"Working on the construction site, I heard that it was a contractor, but I don't know if it was or not, but my mother worked in a pharmacy. Chen Cheng replied truthfully.

"The 30-year-old one, what kind of work do your parents say?"

"My father is a contractor, there are hundreds of people under him, and my mother is taking care of the children, because she is also divorced, and she also has a son, but the overall situation is much better than the situation at my girlfriend's house, which is why my mother has always insisted that I choose this rich one. ”

"Okay, it's recorded, then let me ask like this, you like your girlfriend more than two people, from which I can deduce that your girlfriend and you have a common experience, you have a common language, and each other cherishes each other, but your mother is a person from the past, thinking that money is the first, feelings are secondary, this is where your contradiction lies, compared to your girlfriend, your mother is more inclined to let you choose the second rich, but you don't like each other, because you and the other party have no common experience, and don't know much, or the other party has done something that makes you particularly disgusted, you think this is not what you want, can I understand it this wayNoyan analyzed.

"Yes, what you said is completely correct, in fact, in my first marriage, my ex-wife was also introduced, and she was married for four years, and she had no feelings, because she engaged in online loans, plus her personality was incompatible, divorced, and dragged me down a child, so I didn't want to get married because I didn't experience anything for the first time, that's not what I wanted, if I hadn't been married under the arrangement of my parents, then there is a divorce now, I have been married to my ex-wife for four years, and it's not worth the short time I met my girlfriend, and I don't know if it's my heart, maybe my subconscious thinks that my current girlfriend is more suitable for me, When I got along with my ex-wife, I didn't even have a group photo, my WeChat circle of friends and her WeChat circle of friends never had a photo in common, this is not a marriage, this is arranged, you just need to achieve the goal, what makes me strange is that my ex-wife's family conditions are also very poor, and I was also hand-picked by my mother at the beginning, and now I am making such a fuss, my girlfriend and I are now in a cold war, and I didn't talk about it directly, I don't think it's necessary to disagree with the three views. ”

"What about your mother? Can I talk to her? Your current situation is not suitable for communicating with her, and the crux of the problem lies with your mother, which means that as long as you talk to your mother, change her opinion of your current girlfriend, and are willing to accept her, maybe you can change your current state, right?"

"That's the case, but it's difficult, because my mother is stubborn, as long as it's something she recognizes, there is basically no room for maneuver, it's very difficult to change a person's mind, many people persuade my mother, including my sister, to no avail, let alone my dad, who has no right to speak at all, as long as he is scolded. ”

"Your mother's status at home is very high, it is really difficult to change her mind? I want to ask you, what is the reason why your mother became such a character, is it born and inherited or is there an acquired factor?"

"Born to account for half, my grandmother heard that the character is not very good, and she died relatively early, my mother's brothers and sisters are not good, of course, she is afraid of poverty, causing her to have such thoughts It is also normal, I can also understand her thoughts, to find a rich one, but in this society, rich does not mean happiness, two people can't talk, words are not speculative, there are no common interests and hobbies, common thoughts, sooner or later they will be separated. After all, marriage is not a joke, because it has already failed once, so this time you have to choose more carefully. ”

"In your mother's subconscious, although the times are developing rapidly, but her mind is still stuck in the sixties and seventies, everything is deeply rooted in the concept of looking at money, she doesn't care about feelings, what she cares about is money, face, what she cares about is these, and what you care about is feelings, not face, this is the contradiction between you and your mother, how to solve this contradiction, this is what you need to do, and there is one, your mother is indeed very annoyed with the child, you should take on a little more, reduce her pressure, and earn money, and take care of the child, there must be anger in your heart, this is normal。 ”

As soon as Noyan finished speaking, the door opened.

When Chen Cheng's mother saw it, her face instantly fell. It seems that I am very disgusted by our arrival, which is not a good thing.

"Who are you and why are you in my house?" Chen Cheng's mother said indignantly.

"Hello, Auntie, I'm a second-level psychological counselor, call me Nuoyan, this is my boss Wind Chime, we are here this time to solve the confusion between you, sorry to disturb me. ”

"Oh, that's it, please sit down, my name is Xiulian, call me Aunt Xiulian, I've been so angry these days, I can't stand the rumors of the neighbors around me, my son is disobedient, let him find a rich one, tell me all day long what his personality is incompatible, I only know that if you don't have money, you don't have feelings, money is the last word, money means everything, I quarrel with him every day, so that I have high blood pressure, it's not easy for us to be parents, we are so old, my son has had a failed marriage before, he should have told you, it is precisely because of the lesson of the previous failure, so this time you must find a rich one, he just doesn't listen。 Aunt Xiulian kept complaining, but Chen Cheng kept her head down.