In this life, people are usually the accumulation of countless choices, because it is pervasive and exists all the time.

Whether it is a major right or wrong, or love and hatred, or trivial things such as eating and dressing, it is actually a different choice in life.

And as long as a person can still make a choice, whether it is good or bad, right or wrong, he is a warrior who overcomes himself, because living is the greatest success.

So the choice is hard, but it's also easy.

Shangguan Qingmeng threw out two choices, Yin Hanruo was indeed making a serious choice, but she didn't spend too much time, only about a minute, she was very sure: "Qingmeng, I seem to have accounted for both of the reasons you said." ”

Trick on Rippy?

In Shangguan Qingmeng's view, Yin Hanruo's answer is actually the most standard and true answer.

It's like the paper in the exam room, not all the multiple-choice questions are multiple-choice questions, and in some questions, in fact, all the single-choice questions are wrong.

Life is the same, because the seven emotions and six desires are never a single existence.

But what if the answer is true?

Shangguan Qingmeng can approve of it, but she can't let Yin Hanruo herself accept this answer, because life is also a single existence that only happens once, and sometimes, the authorities must be confused and make a mistake to the end.

She pondered for a moment, and then asked, "Then tell me honestly, do you still love Lu Tianhao?"

This problem can no longer be described as ruthless, but domineering and sharp, she simply cut through all the defenses set by Yin Hanruo and went straight to his heart.

This time, Yin Hanruo's choice was very difficult, all her struggles and pain were written on her face, until a certain moment, as if the pain was numb, she was confused: "I don't know." ”

Shangguan Qingmeng seemed to have known this answer, and immediately asked again: "Then do you love Liu Yanbo?"

"Not loved. Yin Hanruo blurted out without even thinking about it, but she immediately added: "But I don't hate him either, I just want to be angry with him in my heart." ”

Don't love or hate, that's a stranger.

So how should Yin Hanruo's mentality towards Liu Yanbo be defined?

Shangguan Qingmeng has already seen Yin Hanruo's mind clearly, what she has to do now is to let Yin Hanruo herself see her mind clearly.

"Little Nizi, let me solve your worries and puzzles for you. Shangguan Qingmeng tried his best to say in a relaxed tone: "You said that you don't know whether you still love Lu Tianhao, in fact, it has already shown that you no longer love him, the reason why you are confused is not that you are unwilling to admit this, but just because he has satisfied your fantasy of beauty, fantasy is not nostalgia, but expectation." You look forward to all the grievances and unwillingness you have suffered in the past to become the sweetness of life, and you also look forward to the estrangement and cracks left by time are a landscape that embellishes life, rather than swallowing the abyss of the past. But you must know that bitter is bitter, sweet is sweet, and the mixture of sweet and sour is not wonderful, because they have all lost themselves. ”

"Nizi, you can have expectations and fantasies as a person, because life is indeed more than just a reluctance, but don't let them become the whole of your life, let alone the meaning of your life, okay?"

Shangguan Qingmeng is not a wise person, her chaotic statement is not because she understands, she just conveys what she sees.

All love has always been like this, you think it just seems to be disorganized and without warning, but in fact it is so chaotic and without warning, only those who are in it will understand, and can cut off all the intertwined sources.

Yin Hanruo turned over, buried his head deep in the quilt, and was reluctant to speak.

Sometimes, it's harder to make people admit that they understand than to make her choose.

Shangguan Qingmeng was like a gentle bosom sister at the moment, she stroked Yin Hanruo's hair, and said gently: "Actually, you know very well in your heart, whether you love it or not, you and Lu Tianhao can't go back to the past, and it is impossible to do it again, not to mention whether the Lu family will stop it again, just say that Lu Tianhao himself, whether he came back this time to you with true feelings or falsehoods, as early as four years ago, he actually gave you the answer." So even if you love again, it will only extend that answer, and it will be very short, like a return before a complete death. ”

"This is the opposite of expectation and fantasy, reality. ”

What is the reality?

Reality is life, that is, yesterday, today and tomorrow, in front of it, even time will deteriorate, what can a lost love resist?

Only by recognizing the reality can there be poems and distances in life.

Yin Hanruo suddenly raised her head, supporting her chin with her hands, her expression no longer had the previous struggle, let alone numbness, and pouted: "Qingmeng, then what do you say Liu Yanbo is to me?"

Shangguan Qingmeng scratched Yin Hanruo's nose and quipped: "Can you be reserved, your cheap husband is not here now, what are you pretending to be cute?"

"You hate it. Yin Hanruo's face seemed to be red. "I said it all, I don't love him. ”

"Gotta get it, I know you don't love him, you don't have to stress it all the time. Shangguan Qingmeng smiled, she knew that Yin Han was not insincere, but this was indeed worth being happy about. "It is precisely because you don't love him that he will be your reality. ”

"What do you mean?" Yin Hanruo asked stupidly.

Shangguan Qingmeng looked disgusted and said in disbelief: "Do you really not understand, or are you pretending to be confused?"

"I really don't understand. Yin Hanruo shook his head with certainty.

"You really owe this emotional intelligence!" Shangguan Qingmeng showed a defeated expression, and then gently poked Yin Hanruo's forehead with a finger. "You feel aggrieved and unwilling to the past today, but you know that people can't go back to the past, so you can't give Lu Tianhao who came from the past a slap, so you have to sprinkle all your anger on Liu Yanbo, because you know that except for him Liu Yanbo, no one has the responsibility to bear your slap and pay for your past, this is your reality. ”

"Also, there was a sense of distance in the past, but now there is not, there is no space without a sense of distance, there is no room for hope and fantasy without space, and you will find that no one is perfect. And he happens to disappoint you today, you will feel that what he gives you will never be as good as what you have lost and what you have never had now, so you think that he Liu Yanbo should fight, and you really hit him without hesitation, which is also your reality. ”

Yin Hanruo still didn't understand, and asked, "Then what does this have to do with whether I love him or not?"

"If you love him, are you willing to beat him?" Shangguan Qingmeng asked rhetorically, "Isn't this realistic enough?"

"Oh~"

Yin Han nodded as if he understood.

"You stupid girl, it's a waste of saliva to tell you this esoteric knowledge. Shangguan Qingmeng reached out and took out the mobile phone from Yin Hanruo's body and threw it on the bed. "Be direct, if you want a divorce, go to find a marriage certificate, and if you don't divorce, call to get your man back. ”

Shangguan Qingmeng's words were very strong and confident, because she knew that this time, Yin Hanruo's choice would definitely be in line with what she wanted.

Sure enough—

I saw Yin Hanruo pick up the mobile phone slowly, but he didn't dial the phone for a long time.

"I really can't take it anymore. Shangguan Qingmeng got up decisively and decided to add more fire. "Do you like to fight or not, I'll go back. ”

"Qingmeng~" Yin Hanruo dragged a long voice, looking particularly aggrieved.

"My eldest miss, my big boss Yin, what do you want to do?" Shangguan Qingmeng was going crazy.

"I ......" Yin Hanruo was so stumbling that he couldn't say what he wanted to say for a long time.

Shangguan Qingmeng understood in seconds, and couldn't help laughing: "Are you afraid that if you call over, he still refuses to come back?"

"Hmm~" Yin Hanruo's voice was as small as a mosquito.

"Then you go and get him back in person!" Shangguan Qingmeng said loudly: "It is natural for a wife to find a husband. Besides, your man is so cowardly, you can't clean him up?"

Puff~

Yin Hanruo smiled, smiling brightly.

Sometimes, it only takes a few words to open a person's heart, and it doesn't take a long time to get out of the past, just meet the right person at the right time, and everything will pass with a smile.

Because I just happened to meet you, that's the beauty of reality.