Is there a possible psychological problem with Liu Yanbo?

After coming out of the doctor's office, this question has been haunting Yin Hanruo's mind.

She still remembered that this was not the first time Liu Yanbo had such a situation, and the last time he reunited with Bai Bin, he had a similar situation, but it was not as serious as this time.

There are all indications that he may have been subjected to some kind of severe stimulus in the past, which left him with mental scars.

What kind of thrill will it be?

Thinking of this, Yin Hanruo realized that he had never taken the initiative to understand Liu Yanbo since he got married, he didn't know what kind of person he was, and he didn't know much about his past.

She didn't know where his hometown was or if he had any family......

As a wife, this is not qualified.

Yin Hanruo thought about it, took out his mobile phone and dialed Bai Bin's number-

"Hello, the user you are calling cannot be reached for the time being, please dial again later......"

Yin Hanruo hung up the phone and took a deep breath, she felt that she needed to meet another person who might know about Liu Yanbo's past.

In the ward, Liu Yanbo was still unconscious, Huang's mother was guarding the bedside, and when she saw Yin Hanruo walking in, she hurriedly asked, "Miss, what did the doctor say?"

"The doctor said that there is nothing wrong with his body, but because he has been overworked recently, so don't worry too much, Huang. Yin Hanruo said with relief.

"That's good, that's good. Huang's mother breathed a sigh of relief, she really liked her aunt and treated him like a son in her heart.

Yin Hanruo walked to the side of the bed and picked up Liu Yanbo's mobile phone, found a number in it and wrote it down to her own mobile phone, before saying: "Huang Mom, I'm going to go out, you watch here, and when he wakes up, if I haven't come back, you can call me." ”

"Good. Huang Ma nodded, but couldn't help but ask more: "Miss, where are you going this early in the morning?"

Where to?

Yin Hanruo looked at Liu Yanbo, leaned over to help him tie the quilt more tightly, her voice was very soft and soft, but her tone was extremely firm: "I want to help him!"

Isn't the so-called husband and wife to rely on each other and help each other?

Mental illness is different from physical illness, it belongs to the kind of invisible and intangible things, but the pain it causes to people is far from being comparable to physical pain.

What's more serious is that compared with physical pain, the horror of mental illness lies in its instability and uncontrollability.

I don't know when it will attack, maybe anytime, anywhere, maybe it will be induced by an inadvertent sentence from others...

I don't know how serious the consequences will be after the attack, where the upper limit will be...

Because of this, Yin Hanruo felt that he needed to find out as soon as possible whether Liu Yanbo had experienced any major things in the past that might have caused him psychological problems, and if so-

Among the people she knows, the one most likely to know is Bai Bin, followed by Han Shuilan, who has been to Liu Yanbo's house.

Now, Bai Bin's phone can't get through, and Yin Hanruo can only go to Han Shuilan.

Of course, the easiest way is to ask Liu Yanbo himself, but she knows that the stinky man will not say-

He's such a bastard, he doesn't want to say anything to others, and he holds everything in his heart.

......

Today's weather was the same as yesterday's, overcast and gloomy, and by 8 a.m. it didn't look like it was fully bright.

Yin Hanruo and Han Shuilan met in a tea restaurant, and after greeting each other for the first time, the two fell into a short silent embarrassment period-

Yin Hanruo couldn't open her mouth because she was a little bit, after all, as a wife, she now had to inquire about her husband's past from other women, which made her feel a little uncomfortable;

Han Shuilan thought that Liu Yanbo still couldn't explain it to Yin Hanruo after he went back, so the other party came to Xingshi today to ask for the guilt.

Both of them looked like they hadn't slept well all night, Yin Hanruo was even more physically and mentally exhausted, and ordered a lot of various breakfasts on the table, but she didn't eat a bite, just kept drinking strong coffee to refresh herself.

After drinking another cup of coffee, Yin Hanruo said, "Teacher Han, speaking of which, I am also your student, and I graduated from Haida University." ”

Count?

Barely count!

Since the other party was polite, Han Shuilan also nodded in approval, she knew that now was not the time to discuss the orderly and respectful of teachers, so she took the initiative to explain: "Mr. Yin, what the news said is not true, Liu Yanbo is also my student, and the relationship between me and him is just a normal teacher-student relationship." ”

"I know this, he has already explained to me, I came to you today, Mr. Han, not for this matter. Yin Hanruo also explained.

"What's that for?" Han Shuilan wondered.

Yin Hanruo refilled another cup of coffee, and after the waiter walked away, she showed her intention and said, "I heard Liu Yanbo say, Mr. Han, you have been to his hometown to teach before, and you have also visited his home, so I want to ask you about the situation at his home." ”

Look, isn't it unbelievable to be a wife who doesn't know her husband's family situation and past?

Han Shuilan was very surprised and said in surprise: "Didn't you know each other before you got married?"

"I had a flash marriage with him. Yin Hanruo said helplessly: "After getting married, he never took the initiative to tell me about his past, and I never asked, in fact, there are all the circumstances before he settled in Haishi, I don't know anything except that his mother has passed away, and I don't even know where his hometown is." ”

Her marriage to him, at first, was just a transaction that had nothing to do with family responsibilities;

At that time, they didn't want to spend more time with each other to understand each other's past, and they didn't need to understand-

Such a marriage is irresponsible and pathetic.

But Han Shuilan's focus was not on this, after listening to Yin Hanruo's words, her hand shook, and she said in surprise and anger: "What are you talking about, his mother has passed away?"

"Didn't he tell you?" This time, it was Yin Hanruo's turn to be surprised.

"No, this stinky boy actually lied to me!" Han Shuilan was so angry that she had specifically asked him about his mother yesterday.

But in addition to being angry, Han Shuilan is also blaming herself for not being careful, yesterday when Liu Yanbo talked about his parents, her mood obviously became a little wrong, but she only remembered it now, and couldn't help but start to worry a little again, and then asked: "Where is he now?" Can you let me meet him?"

"He's in the hospital right now, and the doctor said he probably has some kind of mental illness, which is why I'm coming to you today. Yin Hanruo asked, "Teacher Han, when you went to his home for a home visit, did the people around him tell you that he had received any serious stimulation when he was a child?"

Han Shuilan thought for a while, shook her head and said: "No, I have visited their village many times, and his family conditions were not good when he was young, but their family of three lived happily, at least in my opinion, his relatives and neighbors also told me this at the time." ”

"I don't know if he was stimulated in any way after I left. Han Shuilan said truthfully: "I only did a semester of volunteer teaching in their hometown, and when I left, he was only thirteen years old, and we didn't have contact for more than ten years, until a week ago, we met again in the school cafeteria." ”

Hearing this, Yin Hanruo fell into contemplation-

In her opinion, Han Shuilan occupies a certain position in Liu Yanbo's heart, not to mention Bai Bin, these two people can be said to be the people he cares about the most.

There are all kinds of indications that he has not been in contact with them for more than ten years, why is this?

There should be only one possibility-

That is, a very big change happened to him, so that he had to be ruthless and cut off contact with these two people who he was obviously very concerned about.

Liu Yanbo, what have you experienced in the past ten years that we don't know?