I lived in Pixian Youth Innovation Park for two weeks, and I have been looking for a job again for these two weeks, but I have not found a suitable one, and my brother-in-law also dragged people to find a relationship, and helped me contact a person, his friend, who is the kind of courier gun, so I made an appointment to have a meal on Tianfu Second Street in the High-tech Zone to negotiate and negotiate.

Because of He Yi's matter, he was not in a good mood for two weeks in a row, because after all, of course, he came out of Shentong together, and he was a friend in another region, five or six years ago, despite such a thing, sometimes I was thinking, if there was no business together, would it be a different ending, and then think about it, there are so many ifs in life, and the things that are destined can only go with time.

Wang Yirou sent me a WeChat message, "Ask me if I didn't do it?"

She said that He Yi asked her to talk about cooperation, and in my name, she also said some bad things about me, so she said a few polite words and sent him back.

I am very grateful to him for taking care of him, and told him what happened to me and He Yi, she was also very sympathetic to me, and asked me if I had any intention of working there, she thought I was very good, and asked me if I could drive, to be a driver for her, to be honest, it was false not to be moved, I had a characteristic of falling down and getting up from there, and euphemistically rejected Wang Yirou, she was a little lost, and said a few official words, and finally the general meaning was to see you again.

At my brother-in-law's house in the evening, my sister and brother-in-law gave me a lesson, first of all, my brother-in-law said: "Let me do as little meaningless things as possible, in his personal opinion, things that cannot bring us any gain, understanding, growth and spiritual pleasure are meaningless, are eating and sleeping as meaningful things? Not eating well and sleeping well can affect our health, but spending most of the day on eating, sleeping is inappropriate. For example: sleeping in, lying in bed, etc. This requires you to find a standard that suits you according to your own situation.

I understand my brother-in-law's words, it may be that I have slept at home for the past two weeks, not doing things, and I have no plan for my life, I feel that I am decadent, I feel that I have indeed affected their lives, because one more person has to cook one more person's food, to be honest, although it is a relative, why do they cook for me, I have nothing to give, I have to find a good job as soon as possible and move out of here, so as not to cause trouble to them, I have enough trouble for them, and it is not easy for my brother-in-law.

The brother-in-law continued: "The things that he considers pointless are alcoholism, gambling, drug addiction, addiction to online games, addiction to live webcasts, etc. Of course, some people will say that these things cannot be completely meaningless, because they can bring me spiritual pleasure. Actually, I don't think it's a kind of mental pleasure, and it's a kind of mental anesthesia. For example: alcoholism, gambling, drug abuse, such things should not be touched. If it is light, it will hurt the body and destroy the wealth, and at the worst, the wife will be separated and the family will be destroyed. Some people have a drink for a few hours, and they drink for several hours, until they drink their bodies badly, and even lose their lives for drinking, is this way of drinking meaningful? Online games and live broadcasts can indeed bring happiness to some people. It's not wrong to play for an hour in a day. But some people don't go to school or work in order to play games, and they play games all day except sleeping. Some people are too much to watch live broadcasts, reward Internet celebrities, and even steal money from their families. We can't dedicate our lives and lives only to online games and online streamers, what can it bring us besides anesthetizing our spirits, consuming our energy, and wasting our time?

In fact, there are very few meaningless things in this world, and there is a reason for existence. But how to deal with these things needs to be taken seriously, and our lives cannot be without priorities.

I don't go to school when I go to school, and I don't work hard when I work. This kind of life is meaningless, and most of the time it is a waste of time, although this is also a state of life, but there is always something missing.

We choose to play at the age when we should learn, we choose to slack off at the age when we should struggle, and our practical actions are never in tune with the role we play in life, so we can't perform the human drama well. Everyone's life is different, but everyone wants to be happy. If you play your role well, it is easy to live this happy life, and the actual actions that are not synchronized in life are actually meaningless things. ”

"Sending express delivery is actually not without a future, you can't just send, you have to learn to use a manager's thinking, to put it bluntly, you can be the boss of your own command, you can't always work for others, so there is no chance to turn over, if you take down the express point of the office building or factory, then you send the express delivery is half the success, if not, then I still persuade you to change careers as soon as possible, anyway, don't worry, your sister is still very anxious to see you achieve nothing, she can't tell you directly, she went to the room to take the child, your starting point is not high, you have to work harder than others, well, I just said so much, I hope five years later, or even ten years later, you have something to show us, that's called awesome!!"

After listening to my brother-in-law's words, I lost sleep, I am not young anymore, I will not feel like a waste person, where should I go, there is no direction, there is no guide, what I lack, confidence or persistence, only time has the answer.

At noon the next day, my second brother, who is also my cousin, sent me a coordinate and asked me if I was also in Chengdu and came to play with him.

I looked at the address is Chenghua District Ximaqiao Qinglong Luyuan Community, after greeting my brother-in-law, I set off, riding a battery car for more than an hour, and finally arrived, Gaode map is a bit of a pit, go to the wrong intersection a few times.

On the 16th floor of the second unit, there is a person inside the door, as if I have seen it there, a little impression, but not impressive, the second brother introduced Xu Tao, once returned to his hometown for the New Year, after saying hello to each other, the second brother is now Taobao business is not easy to do, now in the Tao is making a rebate APP meaning, through the Tao password copy to the user, the user buys things he has money, this is a pyramid model, it should be said that everyone has money, from a few to more than a dozen, this is a means for merchants to engage in activity promotion, of course, it is definitely not possible to do it now, because now there is Pinduoduo this powerful。

The second brother showed me the power of the network, what is the era of big data, this is a "fission", people push people, the most of the pyramid is always the profiteer, this model first appeared in Europe, but in our country by some people used rotten, it has become a "pyramid scheme" model, the big guy is very disgusted with this model, the model is very new, but the use of the method is not right, when we eat at night, the second brother said:" Look, big brother, brother, I'm playing outside, the mobile phone automatically arrives, this is the power of the Internet, brother, I'm interested in developing in Chengdu, and I can rest assured that there will be a way out with my brother. ”