"Fang Sheng, I went to see it with your mother, and decided to set the place for the college entrance banquet at the Sapphire Hotel...... Fang Sheng's father, who had just entered the door, said to Fang Sheng, who was lying on the sofa reading in the living room, "Don't lie down and read, you don't stand up, you don't sit, it's not ...... like this."

Fang Sheng nodded, then sat up reluctantly, and then continued to read his book.

"Son, let's go to the mall with my mother in the evening and buy new clothes to wear at the school banquet. Fang Sheng's mother sat beside Fang Sheng and said in a consultative tone, "This time, your father invited a lot of people, relatives, colleagues, friends, as well as your Principal Lin and your teacher, and booked eight tables, you have to behave well at that time." ”

Fang Sheng didn't want to speak, and even sighed, he didn't understand why his parents regarded a college promotion banquet as so important, so they couldn't wait to make it all over the city, everyone knew it, and even invited sixty or seventy people at once, what seven aunts and eight aunts, nine uncles and ten uncles, plus friends and colleagues of the parents.

Fang Sheng originally thought that it would be simple, just one or two tables of relatives he knew, familiar, and often walked, plus Principal Lin and his own teachers, but his parents made it as grand as a wedding banquet.

So Fang Sheng felt very annoyed, and even began to resist this grand banquet in his heart.

But what Fang Sheng didn't know was that his parents were actually holding this college promotion banquet because of Fang Sheng's depression before, and they raised their eyebrows through Fang Sheng's college promotion banquet.

Once, Fang Sheng was a genius boy, relatives, friends, and neighbors were well known, and everyone would praise Fang Sheng in a fancy way, and Fang Sheng's parents were also complacent and proud. But with Fang Sheng's sudden fall in junior high school, it was Fang Sheng's parents who were hit the hardest, Fang Sheng suddenly ceased to be their pride, and even became their shame for a while.

"I remember that your family Fang Sheng used to study very well, why did you hear my son say that it is constantly declining, and it is almost the countdown?"

"My son was admitted to Xibei No. 1 Middle School this year, where did your family Fang Sheng go? What? Xibei No. 4 Middle School? I heard you right. ”

"I remember that your child used to study very well, why did he go to Xibei No. 4 Middle School? I heard that Xibei No. 4 Middle School is a garbage middle school, a bastard middle school, and there are no good students in it. ”

In the past few years, Fang Sheng's parents had heard countless such doubts and doubts, and these doubts and doubts even sounded full of mockery to them.

Fang Sheng's parents were full of anxiety about this, but Fang Sheng never communicated with them and refused to tell them the reason, which finally led to more and more tension in the family relationship.

Perhaps, the biggest mistake made by Chinese parents in the process of educating their children is to use their children as a tool for "comparison" and "showing off".

When I was a child, I compared my children's grades, "My son took the first place in the exam this time and won the certificate of three good students";

During the college entrance examination, compared with the children's universities, "My daughter's university is very good, and she will go abroad in the future";

When he graduated, he compared his children's work, "My son entered a state-owned enterprise, with an annual salary of hundreds of thousands, which is an iron rice bowl";

When getting married, compare the objects of the children, "My daughter has found a particularly capable object, my son-in-law is handsome, has a lot of money, has a car and a house, and has assets of tens of millions";

Finally, when children have children, they may use their grandchildren and granddaughters as tools for comparison and showing off.

Perhaps this kind of behavior is quite unhealthy for children's development.

Fang Sheng grew up in this kind of "comparison" and "showing off", before the fall, he was always a "child of someone else's family", after the fall, he was still a child of someone else's family, but it has become a negative teaching material.

But Fang Sheng's life did not sink completely, but ushered in a huge turning point in his life at the most special point in his life, the college entrance examination, and at the same time, his parents also stood up again with Fang Sheng, and at that moment, they raised their eyebrows again.

At this college banquet, Fang Sheng's parents, especially Fang Sheng's father, wanted to sweep away the haze in their hearts before, as if they were telling those relatives and friends: "See? My son is good again! Who said my son can't do it? The college entrance examination can still score more than 660 points, and he can still go to Zhejiang University." ”

Fang Sheng's father's waist that he bent down because of Fang Sheng a few years ago can finally straighten up again.

Perhaps, this is also an expression of Fang Sheng's parents' love for Fang Sheng.

And Fang Sheng, after experiencing a big upheaval and backwardness, has a bit of a sense of seeing through the red dust, whether it is hearing other people's praise and praise, or facing other people's ridicule and ridicule, he doesn't care much anymore, although he can't completely spoil and forget, but he can already turn a deaf ear.

Perhaps, the experience of falling to the bottom was not a good thing for Fang Sheng.

It's not terrible to fall to the bottom, it's terrible to be slumped and stay at the bottom forever.

For Fang Sheng, this is "where you experience, you must have a long".

The time soon came on the day of Fang Sheng's school banquet, Fang Sheng put on a very formal and expensive formal suit, which he couldn't stand his mother's soft grinding and hard bubbles and promised to buy it, and then he didn't need to say whether he liked it or not, his mother bought the dress.

I came to the Sapphire Hotel early, and a banner was already raised on the door of the Sapphire Hotel:

Warmly welcome Fang Sheng to be admitted to Zhejiang University with a score of 662 in the college entrance examination!

Fang Sheng sighed in his heart when he saw it, needless to say, this must be his parents' idea.

As soon as he entered the hall, a table was set up at the door of the hotel, which was used to receive gift money, and the person who received the gift money was Fang Sheng's second uncle.

Fang Sheng still has a good impression of this second uncle, because in the years when Fang Sheng was depraved, he was one of the few relatives who did not have much change in Fang Sheng's attitude, and he was also a relative who had maintained a good relationship with Fang Sheng's father over the years.

Fang Sheng's father smiled and said to Fang Sheng's second uncle: "Okay, second brother, this matter of receiving gift money will be handed over to you, Fang Sheng and I are in charge of welcoming guests, and the child will go to the hall to show up." ”

Fang Sheng's second uncle enthusiastically agreed: "Okay, big brother, no problem." ”

Although today was his own college banquet, Fang Sheng's interest was not very high, his face was indifferent, and he was only forced to squeeze out a smile when he saw the guests.

"Hey, bring this to table 18. ”

"Well, okay. ”

The short three words came into Fang Sheng's ears from not far away, and Fang Sheng's whole person was shocked, this voice was so familiar to him.