Ouyang Kunpeng opened the note full of doubts, only to see that it read:

Tian Tian is a good girl who is simple and very emotional, if you just treat her as a toy for your amusement and entertainment, then please raise your hand and let her go!

Tian Tian is not a girl who is greedy for vanity and pursues luxury, but at the same time she is also a person who loves and hates very much, if one day she finds out that the feelings she has devoted herself to wholeheartedly are actually a ridiculous scam, she will definitely be grief-stricken, and she will grit her teeth with hatred, and even wish to slash you with a knife.

So, if you really love her, then you treat her well, and if not, then you should get away from her.

By the way, you must be curious about who I am.

Let me tell you, I am Tian Tian's fellow countryman, and I am from the same town as her. Entrusted by Tian Tian's cousin, I have been silently protecting and taking care of her.

"Brother Kunpeng!"

Suddenly hearing Tian Tian's call, Ouyang Kunpeng hurriedly crumpled the note into a ball and put it in his trouser pocket.

"I'll do it!"

He hurriedly took the things in Tian Tian's hand and helped her to walk to his car.

Seeing Tian Tian return to the rental room, the aunt was very happy, "Big sister, it's right for you to move over!"

But Tian Tian seemed to feel that Ouyang Kunpeng was a little uneasy, and he didn't know why.

Actually, just now at the gate of the factory, I saw him as if he was looking down at something, but Tian Tian is not the kind of big mouth who likes to ask this and that, so he didn't go to investigate.

Tian Tian thought that if he was willing to tell himself, he would naturally take the initiative to say it, and if he was unwilling to say it, there was no need to force others to make it difficult.

Because, Tian Tian is a person who doesn't like to do things.

Not long after sitting down, Ouyang Kunpeng went to the balcony to answer a phone call, and then said to Tian Tian: "I'm going back!"

"Hmm. Eh, Brother Kunpeng, wait a minute, I'll give you back that single player of yours!" Tian Tian said, rummaging through the bag.

"Don't worry, you can use it first!"

"No, I must give it back to you now. Besides, there's a TV here, so I don't need it. Come, give. ”

After Ouyang Kunpeng took it, he turned around and left.

Perhaps, it's because I'm sitting, looking at his back, it seems to be taller and taller than usual.

Auntie was cooking in the kitchen, and Tian Tian sat on the sofa and continued to watch TV.

"I am Tian Tian's fellow countryman", this sentence has always echoed in Ouyang Kunpeng's mind.

Fellow?

"So, who was the one who took you out of the hospital that day? and your cousin?"

"No, it's my fellow countryman!"

Ouyang Kunpeng suddenly remembered the conversation with Tian Tian that day, so his heart felt like he had knocked over the five-flavor bottle.

In the evening, after dinner, Tian Tian watched TV for a while and went to bed. Because, it is too cold in the empty living room, it is better to hide under the covers and listen to the radio.

"Big sister, big sister, are you sleeping?" After a while, the voice of the aunt sounded outside the door.

"Oh, Auntie, come in! I haven't slept yet!"

So, the door was gently pushed open, and the aunt walked in with a smile on her face.

"It's still early, I can't sleep, let's talk, shall we?"

"Okay, Auntie, you sit. ”

Tian Tian said and moved to the center of the bed, and turned off the radio that was playing the song.

"Auntie, are you a local?"

"No, I'm from Anhui. ”

"You're a big kid, aren't you?"

"Well, I have five children, two boys and three girls, the eldest is in his thirties, and the youngest is in his twenties. ”

"Are they in their hometown or are they out?"

"It's all out, and now who will plow the land in their hometown? Growing crops is so tired that they die all year round, and they can't get a few dollars. ”

"It's strange, at your age, you should have children and grandchildren around your knees, don't you have to bring your grandchildren?"

"I'm here to help with the kids, but now the kids are in elementary school. Since they were in boarding school, they only came back on Saturdays and Sundays, so they didn't need me to pick them up. Besides, some time ago, the child's grandfather passed away, and recently, his grandmother lived at home. In this way, the rented house is not enough to live in, and besides, there are two elderly people living in the house at the same time, which is very awkward, and I am worried that there will be friction after a long time, so I thought that I could still wash and scrub, buy vegetables and cook, so I went to the housekeeping company to find something to do. No, Mr. Ouyang took a fancy to me that day, so I came here. ”

"How much does he pay you a month?"

"Three hundred yuan for food and lodging. ”

"That's good!"

"Yes, I don't want a thousand eight, just earn some pocket money. Besides, being under the same roof as my mother-in-law, I am still worried that there will be conflicts over time, and it will not look good if I quarrel. So, I'm happy to come out. ”

"Why didn't I hear you talk about your husband? Where is he?"

"He's sick and dead, he's bleeding from the brain. He walked very fast, and that day, he was drying rice on the sunyard, and suddenly he fell to the ground unconscious, bleeding from his mouth and nose, and then when he was sent to the village clinic, the doctor said no. ”

"How old was your husband then?"

"Forty-two years old. ”

"Ah, you're still so young!"

My youngest daughter was only twelve years old. ”

"And how did you raise your child?"

"Oh, what a sin!"

As she spoke, the aunt shook her head like a rattle, and her eyes were full of tears.

"Then, Auntie, let's not talk about those sad pasts, let's think about the good days. Your husband must love you very much, right?"

"He's not good to me at all. My husband is a dutiful son, and he is a typical foolish and filial son, plus machismo. In short, he only has his parents, brothers and sisters in his heart, and he has never had a wife and children, and he has never been.

"Oh, you don't know, it's so embarrassing to live with him! He will always treat me as an outsider, even, an enemy, and only his parents and brothers as his own.

So, everything I said was wrong and vexatious, everything I did was bad and wrong, and everything his family said was the truth, and everything I did was right. What is right is right, what is wrong is also right, anyway, his family is God, a god who never says the wrong thing or does the wrong thing. As long as his family has any point of view, no matter how outrageously wrong, my husband will not dare to say half a 'no', and he will do it. Even if his family cut me with a thousand knives, I don't think he would dare to wrinkle his eyebrows, and even pointed at his wife who had changed beyond recognition and scolded, 'You deserve it!' So, girl, if you are looking for a partner in the future, you must find someone who loves you. ”

"But how do you know if he loves himself or not?"

"First of all, obedience is the embodiment of a man's love for himself. Girl, do you think, if a man always doesn't discuss everything with himself, always goes against himself, even if it's because of something as big as a sesame seed, he has to confront you with a needle, always make himself angry, let himself wash his face with tears every day, can't see a trace of hope, can't feel a trace of warmth, then, does such a man love himself? Obviously, he doesn't love. ”

After hearing this, Tian Tian nodded convincingly.

"A person who truly loves himself will take care of you as much as possible, accommodate you, and tolerate you, including your mistakes, including your shortcomings. But some men just blindly ask their wives to tolerate all his flaws and bad faults, but they can't tolerate a trace of his wife's shortcomings.

"Let me tell you something, aren't girls afraid of insects? It seems to me that it is normal for a girl to be afraid of snakes and insects. However, I vividly remember that it was one night not long after I got married, when suddenly a bug flew up to my neck with its wings, and when it touched my neck, I was so frightened that I screamed and jumped. However, at that moment, instead of coming over to comfort me with empathy, my husband gave me a fierce roll of the eyes, and scolded me in a rage, 'It's just a bug, do you need to make a fuss?' Listening to his words, looking at his bearded and glaring expression, my heart was still chilling in shock.

Although this is just a small thing, it is enough to see a person's cultivation and morality from a small point of view. Practice has proved that such a man will never look at the problem from the position of his wife, and there will be no love and pity. Therefore, if you marry this kind of person, you will have a hard time. You will feel very lonely, very lonely, and especially, you will always feel neglected and disrespected.

"If your man sees himself as an enemy who is invincible, will he be happy? Of course not.

However, for the sake of the family, for the sake of the children, for the so-called reputation, even if you know that he is not good, you will still have a bad relationship with him. This is the responsibility and obligation of mothers. So, you endure and endure every day, but the patience of each of us is always limited. It might erupt one day.

"I have a neighbor in my mother's family, she is always beaten by her husband, you can often hear her screaming, and you can often see her bruised and purple on her body, and even, sometimes, she is seriously injured and lying in the hospital unable to move. Finally, once at night when her husband beat her husband again, she swung a hammer and beat his sleeping husband to death.

"It's so pitiful! I endured it for decades, and finally, thinking of resisting, ended up sending myself to a prison cell. The same woman, if she follows a different man, will be treated one day and the other.

Therefore, the happiness of a woman's life is really determined by the man she chooses to grow old with.

"Therefore, when we choose a marriage partner, we must keep our eyes open and choose from thousands of choices. Because that is the happiness of our life, that is our own future and hope.