I ate too much fruit last night, and I woke up in the middle of the night by a bubble of urine, Zuo Mi hugged me and slept soundly, I got up and turned on the light in the living room, what did this girl do, how did she fall asleep in the living room, I turned on the light and woke her up.

"What are you doing with the lights on, don't you see me sleeping?" complained to the short-haired Zuo Mi, ruffling his loose hair.

Unexpectedly, Zuo Mi also woke up, Zuo Mi opened the door and looked at me and said, "What's wrong?"

"Oh, I ate too much fruit last night, so I went to the toilet first. ”

The short-haired Zuo Mi got up and poured himself a glass of water, just when I came out of the toilet, the short-haired Zuo Mi crossed Erlang's legs and was unhappy, I asked Zuo Mi to go back to the room first, I sat next to the short-haired Zuo Mi, and said with a hippie smile: "I'm sorry, manager, I didn't know you were sleeping here, I have night blindness, and my eyesight is not very good, so ......"

"So you woke me up, I'm a weird person, if I wake up from sleep, I won't be able to sleep, and I'll have to go to work in a few hours, you can do it, either put me to sleep, or you won't sleep tonight." ”

It's a bit hard for me, my mom told me to sleep with her, how is that possible?

"Then I'll turn off the lights. ”

"What are you doing with the lights off?" the short-haired Zuo Mi wondered.

I've turned off the lights, and it doesn't look too dark except for a small lamp.

"That's fine, you can't sleep when the light is on, the light is off, and you'll fall asleep in a while, I'll count the sheep for you." ”

"Count? Say it again?"

"Shall I tell you a story, then?"

"What's the story?"

"Listen to it first, the son of the emotional counselor who slept late is named Fat Dun, and one day when he came home from school, he said to the late sleep in distress that he didn't like the remarks of someone around him, and he couldn't help but argue, which he felt very troubled. So, Late Sleep told him: "Don't try to change others to adapt to you, when you don't agree with him at all, there is no need to show your own opinions, because there is no value in discussion, Late Sleep has always believed that children should learn the art of neglect in their growth, so that the world and the people around them can keep it turning, and we ourselves, we just need to know where we are." In fact, this view is the same as that conveyed by the classic quote of the French Enlightenment thinker Voltaire, "I disagree with your point of view, but I will defend your right to speak to the death". In this world, everyone has the right to speak, and when other people's ideas are different from ours, we cannot ask the other person to adapt to us, but let their ideas flow freely. Of course, some people may say that if what others say is too ugly and hurts my self-esteem, should I keep my mouth shut and let them talk nonsense? Before answering this question, I might as well look at the experience of going to bed late.

Sleeping late often publishes articles on Weibo and WeChat public accounts, her sister usually doesn't read her articles much, and occasionally reads a little on a whim, but it is thrilling to watch, it turns out that some readers scolded it very hard.

"If you don't write it, someone will scold, it's ugly. My sister hurriedly ran over to persuade her to go to bed late, and her heart was up and down. In her opinion, writing things can not be afraid of the reader's scolding, and can not deliberately change the position in order to reduce the scolding, the reader's opinion is important, but sometimes she can't listen to it all, after all, she also has her own position, and she can't meet someone who says she is not good, she immediately reflects on her own level.

Obviously, in the case of such different opinions and positions, she chose to turn a blind eye and keep silent, she never quarreled with readers who had different ideas from her, even if the other party sometimes spoke badly, she would not rush to fight with others with a white face, and she had to win back one percent in her mouth.

Being able to do this is not only a high level of cultivation, but also closely related to the mentality of the individual who sleeps late. If she goes to bed late and is very sensitive, then she will definitely be so bad by these ugly tones that she will either hide in the corner alone and secretly wipe her tears and sulk, or she will be possessed by the angry devil and quarrel fiercely with the initiator. And no matter which choice you make, the final ending will not make people feel very comfortable, and you can't escape the big injury.

In real life, many women because their hearts are too sensitive, always force other people's ideas to be consistent with their own, hoping that everything in the outside world will run according to their inner thoughts, which is undoubtedly unrealistic, a thousand readers still have a thousand Hamlets, how can we expect others to "speak in unison" with ourselves? Many times, we feel that what we say and think is correct, but others do not think so, or we think that we are very good, It's cute, but people don't appreciate us and don't like us. In the face of this situation, we can't always compete and argue with others one by one, so many people, if they really quarrel, then they must not be tired and annoyed to death? Therefore, when dealing with others, the wisest way is to be a little dull, recognize their own position, and let other people's ideas flow freely. In this way, we can avoid the storms in our hearts and make our lives happier.

I spoke very seriously and was brought in, the short-haired Zuo Mi didn't know when she fell asleep, so unfocused, I covered her with a quilt, turned off the lamp, and after returning to the room, I just lay down, Zuo Mi hadn't slept yet.

"Husband, you tell stories so well, when will you tell me about them, have you never seen you put me to sleep?" Zuo Mi muttered.

"Okay, if you're sleepy that day, I'll tell you, it's already half past three in the morning, go to sleep, if you're late, the impact will not be good." ”

At seven o'clock the next morning, I was so sleepy that I didn't get up until the third time, and I didn't get up until the third time, and I was empty-eyed.

"She's gone?" I said to Zuo Mi.

"Yes, it's been twenty minutes since you walked, you see you just got up, go and wash up, eat breakfast after you're done, pray that there will be no traffic jam this morning, if there is a traffic jam, it will be troublesome." "Zuo Mi was already frying eggs and pouring me a glass of milk, this comfortable life feels beautiful, but there is a kind of arrangement that seems to have been arranged.

When I arrived at the company, it was exactly eight o'clock, and I originally planned to let us go to the hospital today, but Jin Wenhui was on a business trip, and I won't know until she comes back.

Zuo Mi said a few words to me, and then went back to his office, Lin Jing glanced at me, a smile appeared on the corner of his mouth, how do I feel wrong, what does this mean? Recently, I have been speculating about others, and if I continue like this, I will definitely be considered a psychopath, I nodded and returned to the office of Zuo Mi, who had short hair.

"It's amazing, you, you can put me to sleep, you told the story so badly last night, I fell asleep listening to it, my sister is happy, go and help me make a cup of tea, and reward you with a cup, remember, I still like rose tea." ”

"Okay. ”

Seeing Lin Jing again, the strange thing is that there is another person today, no longer the young lady of the beautiful woman last time, I don't even remember the name.

"Or make tea for the manager?" Lin Jing said charmingly.

"You're wrong, the manager rewarded me with a cup, I don't drink roses, I want to add some chrysanthemums to mint tea. ”

"I'm going to enjoy you, wait, I'll soak you. ”

Lin Jing asked the new girl to make tea, pulled me aside and whispered, "You drunk me last night, and I vomited so much in the middle of the night, you have to compensate me?"

"I'm sorry, I'm sorry, how can you pay for it? First of all, I don't have any money. "I'm a bit of a cheater, I lost my yarn, and I just wanted to take advantage of me last night.

"I didn't say you'd lose money, so stay with me after work, and maybe I'll tell you the secret as soon as I'm happy. Lin Jing took my hand and said, and kept rubbing against me, clearly tempting me.

"No, I'm so bad, you say so every time, that time is not to fool me, tell me a little first, let me have a thought, otherwise I will lose too much, I still owe you three conditions." ”

"Hmph, ignore you, don't forget it, you never want to know the secret, and bargain with me. Lin Jing turned her head and left, but was pulled by me.

"I have to be sister, don't be angry, I'll go shopping with you at night, don't be angry, everything is easy to say. "I'm used to being hippie smiling, and it's a good trick.

Lin Jing put her arms around my waist and said, "This is good, as long as I am happy, I can say anything." He kissed me on the lips before he reluctantly let go of me, this woman really has few men who can withstand the temptation.

"Your tea, this is the manager's tea, take it for the manager, I'm afraid it's cold." Lin Jing smiled.

I didn't dare look up at her, her eyes seemed to penetrate me, and I slowly returned to the office.

The short-haired Zuo Mi was unhappy: "Why is it so long?"

"There was a lot of tea at the front desk, so I waited a little longer. ”

"yes, what's on your lips? pay attention to work, although you are husband and wife, but this is work, pay attention next time." ”

Oops, she saw it, and I pretended not to know "What's wrong with my lips?" and I touched it.

"Haha, you lie and practice again, and you go to touch it, kissing your wife is kissing, I said why did you delay for so long, it turned out that I couldn't bear it this year, but I can also understand, men, strong blood and energy. ”

"I really don't know what's going on? I'm curious. ”

"Really, I'll look at the surveillance in the hall later, and I'm going to make your death clear. ”

"Manager, forget it, you are busy with work, how can I be embarrassed to trouble you for a little thing, please drink tea, it will affect the taste when it is cold later." ”

"Hmph, I don't admit it yet, we women are cautious, we haven't seen anything, you are still a little tender when you fight with me. The short-haired Zuo Mi laughed.

There was nothing to do in the morning, I read a book, Zuo Mi sorted out the documents with a short hair, there was a short meeting in the afternoon, and then he took me to the hospital, and when I had lunch at noon, I avoided Zuo Mi, for fear that she would know about me and Lin Jing.

"What's the matter, absent-minded?" Zuo Mi brought the meal to me.

"I'll go get the groceries, you sit. ”

"I'll go, see if you have something on your mind, you sit well. ”

Zuo Mi made two dishes and a soup, and put them in front of me with satisfaction.

"Eat more, husband, you've been paying a lot lately, make up for it, the food in this canteen is good." "Left Secret Road.

"Wife, this Lin Jing is tempting me, don't be jealous, I want to see what her ultimate goal is, if I want to accompany her shopping, I'm trying." ”

"It's okay, husband, this is not the real world, I believe you, let's eat first, don't think nonsense. ”