The next day, Zuo Mi sent a girl over, this girl is really good-looking, with good looks and height, there should be no shortage of suitors, how can she like uncle.

"Lele, I'll go out first, so I won't bother you. ”

Lele nodded and poured a glass of water for the girl.

"Girl, will you tell me your name?"

"Yushu. ”

"As the name suggests, how old is this year?"

"23 years old. ”

is a year younger than the wind chime, and I feel that this jade stalk is not very much.

"Your silence is afraid that I will see the real world in your heart, first of all, you are safe with me, let down your guard, maybe I can give you the answer you want, right?" Lele said calmly.

"What you said is true?"

Yushu has doubts, which is a good thing, proving that she is willing to believe me.

"Can you tell me the name of the person you like and what you like about him, share it with me, and my sister will find a way for you?"

"His name is Qin Duchu, although I know that he has a family, but I still want to defend my happiness, I grew up with my grandmother, my mother ran away when I was very young, he is one of the few people in this city who understands me, although I always knew that he was lying to me, but I was still willing. Yu Shu said.

"How old is he?"

"At 36 years old, I see in him not only maturity, but also pampering, caring, and that's why I like him. ”

"Can you show me to meet him?" Lele said tentatively.

"You want to see him?"

"This is also to help you, I want to know Qin Duchu's true thoughts, maybe you let me meet him, and the answer will come out. ”

"Okay, I'm not worried about you being the only one who can see you, not everyone else. ”

"I'm alone, no one else. ”

"Then I'll call him. ”

Half an hour later......

Qin Duchu came in with a smile on his face, and Lele asked Zuo Mi to take Yushu out, and he had to talk to Qin Duchu alone.

"Hello, Mr. Qin, I'm a psychological counselor, just call me Lele. ”

"Hello, Lele!"

"What do you think, for Yushu?"

"You see, I'm also such an old person, I must be psychologically happy to be liked by a little girl in my twenties, with my family and career, I have the ability to support Yushu, I will definitely fight for it. ”

This answer is within Lele's range, I really don't know why he is so confident in himself.

"What about your wife? ”

"I don't agree with her, she always manages me very strictly, so that I can't breathe, when I got married, my parents met on a blind date, and I don't have an emotional foundation, so many years have not even had a child, and I don't know if it's her problem or my problem, I will divorce her, with Yushu so good, such a considerate girl I don't catch, unless my brain is broken, this is my answer. ”

"Your answer is beyond my expectations, a thirty-something marries a twenty-something, aren't you afraid of other people's jokes?"

"Lele, what you said is not right, love is a very delicate thing, fate is sometimes so strange, it will come, in short, no matter what you say, Yushu I will not give up, farewell!"

Five minutes later, Zuo Mi came in and asked, "How is it, what did he say?"

"He said that he would not give up, unless his brain was broken, and he had the ability to support Yushu with his family and career, by the way, what about the girl?"

"I was taken away by that man, do you think there is really this kind of love!"

"It's hard to say, I explored a few key words from Yu Rinse, his mother, lack of love, and family environment. What I got from Qin Duchu's mouth is that I don't agree with my wife's three views, I am very strict, and I have no emotional foundation. This is the crux of the matter, and it is only by solving these problems that this matter can be brought to a happy end. ”

"What needs to be done?" said Zuo Mi.

"Do you have a lot of time? I can't watch a family fall apart, Yushu should find her own love. ”

"If you have enough time, you can arrange it, and there is no one more suitable for this interview than me. ”

"Okay, let's go our separate ways, you go to Qin Duchu, I'll go to his wife, deal with them first, there's a drama in this matter. ”

"Okay, let's go right away, the address is 88 Windy City Road. ”

Jinniu District is quite far from here, one south and one west, and it is faster to take the Ring Expressway.

"Sister Zuo, I guess Qin Duchu shouldn't have gone back, you go to his company to take a look, it seems that the information provided is not far, only less than a kilometer away. ”

"No problem. ”

88 Fengcheng Road......

in the living room.

"Doctor Lele, my family has been like a demon in recent months, I come home very late every day, I am drunk, I have paid so much for this family, visiting relatives and friends, honoring the elderly, human affection, firewood, rice, oil and salt, I am cooking, more than ten years of feelings can not compete with a little girl, I am not reconciled. Li Juan cried.

"Ms. Li, I can understand your feelings, can we solve the problem in another way, you see, I communicated with Mr. Qin today, and the answer I got is, the management is too strict, the three views do not match, there is no emotional basis, people are emotional animals, sometimes money is far from catching up with desire, this is human nature, you try to seal everything about him, like a bird imprisoned in a cage, will do everything possible to break through the cage and escape. ”

"Doctor Lele, it is true that sometimes I am stricter, but I am also for this family, I know that my husband complains that I have not given him a child for so many years, I can't get pregnant, this is also a regret in my heart, I think I work harder, do more things, to save my husband's heart, but this sudden little girl snatched my husband's heart, and my efforts in the past ten years have all been wasted. ”

"Don't worry, let's focus on what your husband said, the management is too strict, the three views are not compatible, There is no emotional basis to solve the problem, first of all, you are too strict, it means that you are an impatient person, which is not only bad for your own physical and mental health, but your long-term complaining will make your husband's impression of your whole person greatly reduced, you try not to complain every day, treat it with a peaceful attitude, since you are married to him, try to accept his advantages and disadvantages, such as complaining a little less every day, caring a little more, giving him space, some things will naturally fall into place over time. ”

"You're right, I'm too tight, and after you say this, I've figured it out, and I'll do what you say. Li Juan's eyes drooped, and she lost the spirit of the past.

"Yes, you listened to my words, let's talk about the three views, my suggestion is especially your husband's work, you don't ask more, I read the information, your husband is also under a lot of pressure, outlook on life, values, world view we as women, can only encourage, don't compare him with others and criticize, that is quite affecting the relationship between husband and wife, every day your husband comes home, you can make a cup of tea or coffee, give him a massage to relax, do a wife's responsibility, isn't it?"

"Dr. Lele, I have never done what you said before, I think I don't know my husband well enough, I don't care enough about him, I snub him, and I always like to complain, I will try to do these things and stick to them. ”

"Last point, there is no emotional basis, your husband said that you met on a blind date, can you tell me the specific experience?"

"We were very young that year, he was 22 years old, I was 23 years old, under the introduction of the matchmaker in my hometown, we met, only talked about it for about five months, and entered the palace of marriage, at that time he was still a poor boy, nothing, after so many years of hard work, he had his own decoration company, and also became a small boss, my husband is honest and loyal, simple, loved by many people, the first five years of marriage were very loyal to me, as for what he said has no emotional basis, I don't know what's going on, maybe it's an excuse. ”

"I think you lack communication, communication is an art, marriage needs to be managed, and feelings are slowly cultivated, what does your husband usually like to eat, and what brand of clothes do you like to wear?"

"This ...... It seems that he is not a picky eater, as for the clothes should be suits, as for what brand I really haven't paid attention to. ”

"It's not unreasonable for your husband to say this, have you ever given a gift on his birthday or your wedding anniversary?"

"No, he gave me necklaces and dresses before my birthday. ”

"Look, this is your problem, you don't know him, you don't know what he likes, what you lack is lubricant, the lubricant that sticks you together, my colleague is still communicating with Mr. Qin, don't worry, ability is definitely not a problem, you can tell me now what is worth your better story!"

298 Windy City Road......

"Mr. Qin, I'm sorry I'm coming to you again, because it's my job, I hope you can understand. "Left Secret Road.

"Don't bother, sister, I know you're all for my good, you say, I'll listen!"

"Let me ask you this, I can understand your feelings, I heard Lele say that you and your wife's three views, no emotional foundation, and strict management, you regard these as a kind of constraints, which is the root cause of the problems in your husband and wife's relationship, if these problems are solved, are you still willing to give your married couple a new start?"

"Of course, after more than ten years of relationship, people have feelings, men, they can take it and let it go, but I don't believe she can change. ”

"Is there anything that you and your wife are particularly worth remembering, something more beautiful, can you tell me?"

"Four years ago, when I was thirty-two years old, it was the anniversary of our marriage for ten years, I specially prepared a large gold jade necklace, went home early to prepare a cake, Li Juan was particularly beautiful that day, I put on a necklace for her with my own hands, we took a group photo, blew out candles, I slapped the cake on her face, she took the cake everywhere and ran with me, I was happy at that time, I never had this kind of happiness, that was the peak of our husband and wife relationship, now it is not as good as a year, I am on a slippery slope in my career, I hope to go home to have a considerate daughter-in-law to ask for warmth, in exchange for all abuse, complaints, make me very depressed, sometimes I feel that this is not my wife,How is it so realistic.,I didn't see this when I was poor and white at that time.,For a little money, three days a big quarrel.,Two days a small quarrel.,Alas,Sometimes I think this marriage is not wrong.,Until three years ago, I met Yushu, a lovely and considerate girl.。 ”