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Nine o'clock in the evening in my office.

"Hello, I'm your psychological counselor, please allow me to introduce myself, the promise of promise, the color of the face, tell all the depression, self-blame, and sadness in your heart, maybe I have a way to help you, instead of being depressed, it's better to give it a go, gamble, so that there is a chance to turn defeat into victory, the world will not leave anyone, it will not exercise, the sun will still rise tomorrow morning, do you know what I mean?" Nuoyan said seriously, this Zhang Cairen has a scruffy beard, is very sloppy, and his eyes are empty, which means that he has lost hope in this world, and if he doesn't treat it again, Zhang Cairen will commit suicide tonight.

"Can you really help me?" said Zhang Cairen for a long time.

"You don't have any other choice. ”

"I really want to die, to live in this city, it's more terrifying. ”

"How good it is to live, at least you still have a chance to turn defeat into victory, evil will never be able to defeat justice. ”

Zhang Cairen looked up at Nuoyan and said: "My daughter robbed her, my money, everything I have is gone, I ran away with that man, I am too failed, I don't understand a woman's heart, returning home is like returning to a primitive society, empty, in fact, I don't blame her, blame myself for not being capable, even this time I have nightmares, I don't want to continue to be tortured, there is always a shadow in my heart, it is better to die." ”

"Can you describe my other half's face and your daughter's face in the simplest way. ”

"My wife is slim, there were many people when she chased her, but she chose me without hesitation at that time, I was very dedicated to her, and I didn't live up to her, but my ability is limited, I can't bring her more wealth, the society is really a big dye vat, and people have changed, my wife treats me coldly, grumpy, not at all gentle and considerate at the time, the cold war for about a year, I don't agree to divorce, after several twists and turns, back and forth, I don't have the money to hire a lawyer for the divorce, I failed, I can't find evidence of her cheating, but I didn't fall into my no, alas, because I didn't have the financial ability to raise my daughter, my daughter was also awarded to herNow that it's like this, I really don't know what to do. ”

The only characteristic of a psychotherapist is to listen to the patient's inner voice, and just asked Zhang Cairen to describe it in short words, but he said a lot of things, and Nuoyan did not interrupt.

Noyan said: " You are not fighting alone, I understand your current state of mind, but you think about it from another angle, you are so decadent, you have no fighting spirit, this is not making your ex-wife see a joke, you should cheer up, you are only thirty years old, and there is a chance to turn defeat into victory, you are not the first patient I have encountered, nor is it the last, you are dead in vain, what's the point, leave with sadness and pain, in exchange for the tears of your loved ones, even if the hope is very slim, it is better to gamble, then at least there is a chance。 ”

Zhang Cairen took out a Liqun brand cigarette from his trouser pocket for a long time, took a puff and said: "It's easy to say, it's so easy to succeed, I don't know anything, I don't have the technology and the clerkship, I can only do some simple work, the kind without technical content, how can I turn defeat into victory?"

"There are many ways to take shortcuts, although you have a scruffy beard, but if you look closely, you are quite handsome, and it is also a kind of ability to speak, read more books, and get up from there if you fail, we often meet some charismatic single men and women, they have a successful career, a wide range of contacts, money, status, and honor, but when it comes to feelings, I feel that I can't start. Therefore, I feel that it is necessary to analyze the personalities of men and women from the perspective of both sexes. If you happen to be confused in this regard, then you might as well listen to me carefully analyze it for you. ”

Zhang Cairen's pupils widened, and he was obviously interested in Nuoyan's words.

"Do you want to take your wife back, or find a more beautiful certificate for your wife to see? Of course, you can't break the law, rely on your own ability. ”

"Isn't this nonsense, who doesn't want to, but a lot of times you can just think about it. ”

"Women are naturally beauty-loving creatures, and they show their beauty, wisdom, and taste to men in their own way in order to gain the favor of the opposite sex. To figure out exactly what kind of woman you are meeting, in addition to relying on the inherent characteristics of the body such as skin color, figure, and face, makeup is also one of the references that cannot be ignored. Many women like to follow the trend of fashion and often use the current trend when applying makeup. These women are fanatical about new things and have a zest for life, but lack an independent personality. You will find it exciting to be with them, but if you want to get married, it is best to think about it again, because nine times out of ten, they lack financial concepts and have no plans for the future. Women with heavy makeup have a strong desire to express themselves, and they have a unique charm and control when it comes to attracting the attention of the opposite sex. They are glamorous and enthusiastic on the surface, but they are actually lonely on the inside, because they are often attacked by conservatives. They are undoubtedly strong, independent, and contradictory. But if one day, they are willing to give up their gaudy makeup and replace it with plain makeup, it will be a good companion and assistant for men. Women who like to wear light makeup are simpler, most of them are more traditional, they are not very showy, and they sometimes show weakness in the face of difficulties. They prefer the real to the avant-garde, glamorous things. So most of them are good stay-at-home companions. Only a small percentage of people are prone to hysteria, depression, autism, etc., because they are too sensitive.

Women who don't take the initiative to put on makeup at any time can be roughly divided into three types. The first type is vulgar and practical women, who are exhausted in order to live and do not care about their appearance at all, only whether they can eat enough. The second type is simple women, they also love beauty, and often envy those beautiful people of the same sex, but due to the limitations of their growth environment, they have not tried makeup, and they dare not try it, for fear of self-defeating. The third type is the pursuit of natural beauty women, they understand beauty, appreciate beauty, have a high artistic taste, and have deep insights into many things, what type do you think your ex-wife belongs to?"

"From the third you said slowly to the second, alas, I can't do anything to give her material satisfaction. ”

"Actually, this is not your fault, I may say something ugly, don't care, when she talked to you about friends and rejected others, it was not that she didn't love material, but because you had something that attracted her and covered up her liking material aspects, but you didn't find it, the seed is deep in your heart, it is not difficult to expose, you are not wrong, the ability can come slowly, but she is not willing to wait, she took away her daughter, and it can't be said that she snatched your daughter, why not think about it from another angle, take away your daughter to raise, reduce the burden on you, so that you have enough time to develop your career, when you become famous, maybe she will come backOf course, there is also a possibility, if she changes your daughter's surname, it means that her feelings for you are not as good as you imagined, so you don't have to blame yourself, she chose her lifestyle, and you have to cheer up. ”

"I know how to do it, I'm not nothing, I didn't tell the truth just now, I still have some money, it's not much, but it's enough for me to live. ”

"That's not right, it's not a lack of hands and feet, everyone will be confused, think about what they want to do, keep persevering, God will not disappoint a person who works hard to persevere. ”

Zhang Cairen smoked this cigarette quickly, and changed it to another one and continued to smoke.

Noyan continues: "Generally speaking, a woman's lips are accentuated and her sexy, hot, and outgoing personality is showcased, and they are very socially competent, often working in PR, sales, etc. Women who use pink lipstick are more gentle, simple, loving, and have weak psychological tolerance, and are a little reserved when interacting with people, but their hearts are fiery. There are also women who like to use purple lipstick, they generally have a strong desire for expression and superiority, like to pursue an extraordinary life, and often fascinate men. Echoing the natural love of beauty, women also love to listen to praise, but praising women is also exquisite. If you used the same words for all women, I can guarantee that 80% of women would hate you. When dealing with women, you need to be able to capture the characteristics of women at any time, discover their strengths, and play to them. For example, if she is a young woman, you can praise her for being beautiful and energetic, if she is good-looking, you will praise her for her beauty, if she is a middle-aged woman, you will praise her for her maturity and charm, if she likes to dress up, you will praise her for being glamorous, and if she does not like makeup, you will praise her for her natural beauty......

In short, the beauty of women is praised, even if you are not good at words, don't be stingy with that just right word of praise, you think in your heart that you are a failure from women, then seriously understand women, read more books, what I just told you is only a part, there is still a lot of knowledge about women, when you conquer women, that is when you succeed. ”

"Thank you, I probably wouldn't be alive without you tonight, I can't just be so depressed, tomorrow I will do as you say, buy relevant books, find a job, I'm still young, and I still have the capital to turn around. ”

"That's right, details determine success or failure, you insist, I hope you are not just talking, since you have come to this world, don't waste this opportunity, love to fight to win. ”

It was almost half past ten after Zhang Cairen came out, and Nuoyan ran to the emergency department.

"Doctor Su, are you still busy?" said Noyan.

"Oh, I'm sorry, I'm too busy, what about changing the medical records, how is it, did that Zhang Cairen listen to persuasion?"

"It's been taken care of, let's go through the discharge procedures for him tomorrow." ”

"Amazing, I have long heard Director Feng praise you for being young and promising, not only beautiful, but also talented, when I saw you today, it was extraordinary. ”

"Thank you, then I'll go back, and people with mental illness, such as anxiety, depression, irritability, call me, it's my job. ”

"Don't bother, you also have to rest, if we can deal with some small problems ourselves, we will deal with them, and if we can't deal with them, I'll look for you!"

"Alright, bye-bye. ”

Su Lin sighed, it's good to be young.