"What are people with depression enduring, and the shackles of wanting to die are not broken by not discussing them. Not everyone who gets depressed will commit suicide, of course, there are also people who think of some people because of that moment, put down the knife in their hands, stop stepping downstairs, but don't know that at a certain moment, they will have that kind of thought again - life is more tired than death. ”

The students below, including me, did not desert, listened carefully to Yang Lele's unique views on depression, I have to say that the principal's daughter is not casual, it is not enough to have good looks, but also to have the ability, Yang Lele is such a person, she continued to analyze.

"Depression is not about thinking too much, it's not about thinking about it, it's not about not having a strong personality, it's not about hypocrisy...... It's a disease. Like a common cold, it doesn't really get better because someone says, "It's good to open it." Some people will choose to confide, but if they don't get the understanding of the people around them, they start to hide. There are also people who are afraid that their pessimism and negativity will make the people they care about dislike them and become more lonely, so they start to wear masks. So, I can laugh out loud in front of my friends during the day, and my circle of friends is also full of fun and delicious hip-hop, and when I am alone, I begin to heal myself. Whether it's crying or having a wooden expression, it's all a person's business, hiding the tears in the darkness. Wearing a mask will be tiring, and finally when a person can take off the mask, he will be afraid, afraid that he will not be able to hold back that day, he will not be able to resist, and he will want to let himself go, so he will go, quietly, and leave nothing. I will also blame myself, why am I unhappy, this seems to be a very simple thing. Their eyes can see things that others can't, hopeless, sad, gray. That's something unique to each of them, and that's why some people get depressed because of trauma, and some people can't even say why their hearts are so silently decadent.

Of course, people are happy, but that happiness is fleeting, and sometimes they are happy, but it does not affect their desire to pray for accidents. From time to time, I will feel chest tightness, difficulty breathing, weakness, very melancholy, except for extreme things, my mind is blank, and I am not interested in anything, including what I used to like. What I just talked about is from the real inner thoughts of a depressed patient, every psychologist, counselor, including hypnotist, can only enter the real world of the depressed patient's heart, the kind of isolation from the outside world, what cannot be seen, communication is an art, language is a sharp weapon, language can influence, can promote, and can even take away the patient's gray world, get out of confusion, and regain health. Maybe everyone knows about the charm of language, I also said in the previous class, some people's girlfriends are very beautiful, not how powerful this person's ability is, which reflects the charm of language, sweet words every girl likes, plus some auxiliary means, there are very few who can resist temptation. You are all good news for future depressed patients, I hope you will digest what you have learned, and let's talk about the impact of depression and rest for ten minutes. ”

Many people receive water, go to the toilet, and smoke, but they are all outside, and Yang Lele laughs and Mimi has to come to me.

"Isn't it confusing?"

"At least it's not fully digested, as half a doctor, I can be considered to have seen your kung fu, very powerful. ”

"Thank you for the compliment, my father is a Chinese medicine practitioner, you are also a Chinese medicine practitioner, you are equal, in my heart you are not just half a doctor, you are a whole, a complete person, external factors can not change my opinion of you, you also have a lot of points, fishing skills are super good, I came to Chengdu to remember to teach me." ”

"No problem, although welcome. ”

Ten minutes passed quickly, and Yang Lele began to narrate his depression again.

"Depression is a disorder that refers to mood disorders caused by a variety of causes, with a significant and persistent depressed mood as the main manifestation. It can be divided into depressive episodes, dysthymia, depressive disorder due to medical illness, and depressive disorder due to substance use, which includes drugs and alcohol. Some people feel depressed and turn to alcohol to relieve their sorrows, but alcohol may worsen depression. Depression can significantly affect physical and mental health, social interactions, occupational abilities, and physical activity. There may be a risk of self-harm, suicide, wounding, etc. Common emotional conditions include depressed mood, slow thinking, loss of interest, negative beliefs and behaviors, pessimistic and bleak future, self-guilt and a sense of worthlessness, and low self-esteem. Common physical symptoms include fatigue or fatigue, sleep disturbances, changes in appetite or weight, and various pains. There are also some people who feel that they are depressed, but because their family members have no concept of the word and they have no financial resources, they are consumed. However, if left untreated, depression can become chronic or develop into a more refractory disease. Only 10 per cent receive professional help and treatment. If you don't feel happy or bored most of the time, you can go for a professional assessment. The scale on the network can only be used for assessment and does not have a diagnostic function. If someone around you unfortunately suffers from depression, if you can't understand, you can't hurt it as much as possible, because these people, while suffering from their own pain, are more worried that their persistent grief will scare away the people they love, most of them are kind and sensitive people......"

Yang Lele told for half an hour, the students of this school really love to learn, the whole process is engrossed, and my arrival has affected them, this cohesion is unprecedented, after class, I went to Yang Lele's office, she made me tea.

"How is it?, are you interested in psychology?" asked Yang Lele enthusiastically.

"I am very interested, psychology is not as boring and irregularity as traditional Chinese medicine, psychology is a magical subject, there are very few people who are really skilled, and it is my honor to know someone as knowledgeable as Sister Lele. ”

"Haha, I've won the prize, I'm going to talk about the treatment process of depression tomorrow, do you have a chance to come and audit?"

"No problem, I'll bring someone over tomorrow. ”

"Your boss?"

"Yes, a native of Chongqing, currently working as the head of the procurement department and public relations at Chengdu Tianfu New Area Maternal and Child Health Hospital. ”

"Okay, it's a word, we are all people in the medical field, learn from each other, my father is also an old Chinese medicine doctor, but as his daughter, I have not inherited his Chinese medicine skills, he is very disappointed in me, and usually ignores me, which makes me very annoyed. ”

"Father has father's thoughts, after all, the culture of Chinese medicine has been deeply rooted in your father's heart for thousands of years, modern clinical medicine has developed rapidly with the times, and even surpassed traditional Chinese medicine at some levels, your father may not want his craft to be lost, and want to find a suitable heir, this should be your father's idea. ”

"Yes, sometimes it's helpless to think about it, how long will you go back to Chengdu?"

"Maybe four or five days, I just quit my previous courier job, and I haven't gone anywhere yet, and the leaders of the maternal and child health hospital have been letting me go, and I'm still weighing the pros and cons. ”

"Courier?

"Well, SF Express, I was cheated, and now I'm a jobless vagrant. ”

"Then don't go back to Chengdu, how good Hangzhou is, there are mountains and rivers, and the most important thing is that there are beautiful women, you see a lot of beauties in our school, if you are here, I will arrange a position for you, I also want to learn Chinese medicine knowledge from you!"

"I'm really desperate, I'll come to you, I can't put my boss in Hangzhou, then the leader will give me small shoes when he goes back." ”

"I'd love to meet your boss tomorrow, who should be an attractive strong woman. ”

"She's amazing, I'm still learning some workplace culture from her, complementing each other, and you'll see her tomorrow. ”

"Stay and eat at night, our school cafeteria is very good, and you can experience the feeling of being a student. ”

"Thank you, Sister Lele, I have to talk to the boss and the proprietress of Zuoxin Biotechnology Company about procurement at night, so that I am not allowed to be late, otherwise I will look good." ”

"Haha, your boss is very attentive to you, then I won't keep you, thank you for listening today, we'll see you tomorrow." ”

Out of medical school, the time is already six o'clock, take a taxi back to Zuo Xin Biotechnology, Zuo Mi has already changed his clothes, and the shape is also painted, this girl is really beautiful, although it is only light makeup, it can't hide the delicacy of her facial features, the key is not only to make up, but also to match clothes, white suits, white trousers, white high heels, tall figure, double peaks highlighted, this powerful aura makes me feel nervous.

"Why do you keep staring at me, do you have bad thoughts, hum, little look. Zuo Mi said bluntly.

"Sister Zuo, you said that you are so beautiful, what kind of man does it take to get into your eyes, every time I see you dressing up, it looks like you have lost your soul, so charming. ”

"How do you learn to flamm your tongue now, it's very different from before, young man. ”

"If you don't learn a little knowledge from Sister Zuo, it's not a waste of Sister Zuo's good intentions, and it also lives up to Sister Wen Hui's expectations of me, of course I have to hurry up, learn to praise and observe words and feelings, this is also workplace culture. ”

"Heh, I've been taught, don't you change your clothes, do you just go out in this dress?"

"You're in a hurry, didn't you bring it?"

"Or a woman is careful, I'm ready for you, a set of seven brand men's clothes, try this suit to see if it fits?"

I was about to go out to change my clothes, but I was stopped by Zuo Mi.

"Why are you going?

"Oh, no!"

"What's wrong, I've never seen you all over your body, including your size. ”

"Sister Zuo, when did you see it?"

"You woke me up last night when you were sleeping and dreaming, and I don't know what's wrong, you took off all your clothes yourself, I'm afraid you're cold, or I'll put it on for you." ”

"Ah, then I'm not at a loss?"

"I was seen by a big beauty like me, what's the loss, I'm not good, well, it's so handsome, let's go, remember a little, don't talk nonsense, Li Shuxiang will accompany you, just listen." ”

"Okay, that's fine, I'll listen to you. ”

"Yes, I like obedient people, and I will praise you well at my sister when I go back. ”