I'm pretty sure the delivery guy I just saw was like another me, and he should have noticed it, so he deliberately avoided me.

"Nothing to look at. I said to Noyan.

"You can still recognize the wrong person here, there are so few people here, you are lying to me?"

Sure enough, she can't hide anything from Nuoyan, this ghost girl is very clever.

I touched my head and smiled: "I can't hide anything from you, the delivery man I saw just now is very familiar, very similar to the other me, I want to catch up with it for further confirmation, but it's gone." ”

Nuoyan frowned and said: "Wind Chime, although we have only known each other for a short time, but what you did was wrong, since you came here with me to prove that you believe in me, next time you do this, you don't have to look for me." ”

"Remember the teachings, remember the teachings. ”

It just so happened that Nuo Lan was carrying vegetables and fruits, there were too many, so I hurried up to help.

"Buy so much, are you done eating?" I underestimated.

"Isn't this your coming, I treat you as a guest of honor, we sisters haven't had a meal for a long time, we have this treatment when you come, how about it, our sisters are hospitable, right?" Nuo Lan smiled.

"Hospitality, hospitality, I'll run to you often if it's okay. ”

"Heh, I'm afraid you won't come, I'll go into the kitchen, my sister will entertain you well, don't neglect our guests. ”

Nuoyan said: "Sister, you are really long-winded. ”

After Nuo Lan entered, I said to Nuo Yan, "Do you have anyone here here every day to consult?"

"Very few, most of them don't come to the store, and we usually come to the store to provide door-to-door service and earn a small income, except for rent and living, there is not much left. ”

"Young people start a business first bitter and then sweet, it's okay, I'll go and tell Sister Wen Hui about it, carry out a psychology department in the hospital, let you and your sister come to work in our hospital, this place is indeed a bit biased, all outside the third ring road, and when the economy here develops, you are all old, take advantage of your youth to study well in the hospital, and then choose a better location when you come out, and the business will not be bad." ”

"Let's talk about this later, don't worry about it now, this year's rent has been paid, I'm just like you, I'm a dream chaser. ”

What Noyan means is that I understand that I want to rely on my own ability first, and it is normal for young people to have this kind of thinking.

"You're right, I appreciate you about that, or else, I come to study this great psychology with you every week during my break, I'm very interested in this subject, and it doesn't hurt to learn a little more. ”

"Of course it's good that you have this heart, I'm fine, you have to discuss it with your wife, or bring your wife over, it feels very kind." ”

"No problem, what Nuolan cooked, I'll take a look, the fragrance hit, and I suddenly felt hungry. ”

Nuo Yan got up to get water, I went to the kitchen, Nuo Lan's hands are very skillful, every ingredient is neatly placed, the girl is careful, the kitchen is also very clean, neatly placed, I can't find any flaws.

"I'll help you. I said to Nolan.

"You, have a good rest, can't you talk to my sister anymore?" said Noyan.

"I've been chatting for a long time, I'm afraid you'll think about it, and I'll come over to see you when I smell your fragrance, and I don't seem to welcome me?"

"Welcome, welcome, why not welcome, these dishes are served out for me, let my sister set up the table, and there is a soup, and the meal will be ready immediately. ”

Originally, it was said that the dishes would be cooked at night, and the pot would be boiled at noon, Nuoyan didn't know where to take it to brave the world, a bottle of cold beer went down to the stomach, that feeling was very refreshing, after the meal, I said that I took the initiative to wash the dishes, and was stopped by Nuo Lan. During this period, Zuo Mi called me and asked me to ask how to go back, so that I could come back early in the evening, and I also said that I would eat here in the evening, but Zuo Mi said that and I couldn't help listening.

After the meal, Nuoyan said to teach me a trick first, how to see through lies, I suddenly became interested, thinking about lying in front of her before, a bit of a big knife in front of Guan Gong, I can't do it.

Nuo Lan was also listening to Nuo Yan beside him.

"From the moment our brain receives information to direct all parts of the body to send information, it goes through a high-speed and meticulous thinking process, and the neocortical brain, which has mastered the language center, will analyze the best dialogue strategy according to different situations, so there are so-called "duplicity" and "insincerity" and so on. If someone claims that he has never lied in his life, no one will believe it. We cannot deny or deny the fact that we live in a world full of lies, that all human beings are born innocent and that everyone is a liar when they die. Let's take an example, a "three-good student" every year In order to get a chance to go on a picnic with his classmates, he will tell his parents that he has completed all the homework exercises on the weekend, when in fact he is only halfway done; a college student who has just graduated, although he has only entered an ordinary company with a meager salary, in order not to worry his family, will boast that he has joined a large company with a good reputation, and how much he is paid a month, but in fact his salary is only half of what he said. According to psychology, lying is one of the important characteristics of human beings that distinguish them from other animals, and is an indispensable part of human social life, and research results show that most people will panic twice a day on average, and one-third of the part of people's conversations has some form of lie, but only one-fifth of them are detected by people, and 80% The above people have lied in order to get a job or keep a position, and the frequency of lying to their partners is even higher, which shows that lying abounds in our lives, society is made up of lies, and people lie to each other. This statement is a bit extreme, but it is undeniable that lying is indeed an integral part of human daily life. As long as we pay attention quietly, we will find that in our lives, we will hear all kinds of big and small lies anytime and anywhere, some of which are just good deceptions, and some are malicious lies that will cause harm to us, so we must learn how to face the lies, so as to effectively protect ourselves, although we cannot stop others from lying, but we can learn to never be fooled. ”

I laughed: "No wonder you just found out, it turns out that you will do this trick, and you won't be fooled next time." ”

"Not necessarily, I'll tell you, I can read minds. Noyan smiled.

"Teach me, that's a good trick. ”

"Hmph, if you learn it, maybe you'll be coaxing the little girl again, no, no, this trick is not for men. ”

"Do you want to slam the door like that?"

Noyan ignored me and continued: "It's a little difficult to share with you, that verbal language is the only way to communicate with people, but many people ignore that spoken language is not "100%" accurate. In many cases, verbal needs do not convey what people really think in their hearts, the so-called "disagreement", and of course the "duplicity" that often occurs in interpersonal interactions. We already know that all the actions of the human body are controlled by the brain. Whether it's bending over, tickling, triple jumping, or backflipping, these movements are controlled by the brain. For a long time, in most people's impressions, each of us has only one brain, in fact, in our brain, there are three distinct parts, or each person actually has three brains, each brain has different characteristics and functions, they together constitute a complete human brain, give instructions to each part of the human body, these three parts constitute a complete human brain, give instructions to each part of the human body, these three parts are the brainstem, the limbic system and the neocortex of the brain.

Among them, the limbic system plays an important role in human non-verbal behavior, and it is responsible for human emotional and sensory functions. Like humans, mammals also have an "limbic system", the oldest part of the brain that has allowed humans to survive for millions of years. The limbic system's primary function is to respond to our senses of hearing, sight, sensation, and touch. These reactions are immediate, instantaneous, and thoughtless;

In contrast, the neocortex is the newest member of the human brain's "treasure trove", which is responsible for higher thinking activities such as memory, calculation, analysis, analysis, and intuition, which are unique to this species. Because of its complex thinking ability, this part of the brain is different from the "limbic system", it is not always honest, on the contrary, it will often lie, and it is the least trustworthy of the three parts of the brain. When a nasty person walks by, the honest "limbic system" may force people to squint, which is subconscious, while the intelligent "neocortex" is very good at lying about real feelings. The "neocortex" that controls the brain's language-motor centers may make us smile and say, "It's been a long time, I'm so glad to see you again." Although this may sound completely false, since the "neocortex" is good at lying, don't expect to get reliable and accurate information from it.

For the language system itself, if the symbol system wants to convey people's inner thoughts, it must first be encoded and converted into linguistic symbols. When information is passed on to others, others have to decode it when they comprehend the meaning, that is, they re-transform the language symbols into ideas. However, due to the discrepancy between personal expression and other people's understanding, it is often easy for the receiver to have a phenomenon that is different from the original intention in the transmission of information. Language is not innate, but a skill that can only be learned. For an objectively existing skill, there must be someone who has mastered it well and someone who has mastered it poorly. Just as in life, we often describe some people as articulate and others as clumsy, and this difference comes from their mastery of oral language skills. Of course, this is not a criterion for judging whether a person is smart or stupid, but it is often misleading. People deliberately distort what they really think in their hearts, which leads to lies. In many cases, when people lie, they hide their intentions for a certain purpose. Whatever the reason, these words can have a significant impact on communication and communication, waste time for communication, and weaken the role of language in conveying information. ”

Noyan said a little thirsty, this is all some theoretical knowledge, not easy to understand, I handed Noyan a glass of water and said: "Can you give a few examples, this kind of professional terminology is not easy to understand?"

Nuoyan pursed his lips and said: "Of course, this is the knowledge in the textbook, very abstract, in order to be admitted to this second-level psychological counselor, I read the book for two whole years, and I will memorize a paragraph every day, and it will accumulate over time to have such an effect." ”