Zuo Mi patted me and said: "Your current efforts determine your future, if you don't work hard, no one can really give you the life you want." In fact, the life you want most is the self-confidence that comes from strength, and the joy of your decision. Parents can't give you all this, and your lover can't give you ...... Only hard work and diligence can make you live the life you want. If you don't work hard, no one will be able to give you the life you want, and dreams will not run away, and it will always be you who escape. Your efforts today are the foreshadowing of luck, and the efforts of the present are the flowers of tomorrow, let us work hard with hope and wait for the emergence of beauty. No one will make us better and better, time is just a foil, and what supports us to become better and better is our own continuous improvement of talent, cultivation, conduct, and continuous reflection and correction. ”

"Listening to my wife's words is better than studying for ten years, it makes so much sense, college students are different. ”

"Who told you not to study hard back then, but husband, don't be angry, as a wife, I will naturally help you, I'm afraid that you will dislike me and don't want me in the future. ”

"I think about it too much, we are in love of life and death, I can feel your dedication to me, we are husband and wife or rely on ourselves, I don't want Aunt Yuyan to think that I am next to you, then she will look down on me, as for you saying that I dislike you, this is impossible, my wife, beautiful as a fairy, captivating the country and the city, is simply a mythical existence in my heart, unless my head is really watted." ”

My words made Zuo Mi laugh, and suddenly there was a pair of high heels in front of me, and I looked up to see that it was Zuo Mi with short hair.

"Seeing that you are so happy, I can't bear to disturb you, I'm sorry, I've kept you waiting, let's go. The short-haired Zuo Mi stretched out her hand to pull me up, Zuo Mi was no longer surprised, in her heart she thought it was a dream, it was illusory and did not exist.

Or I'm driving, the short-haired Zuo Mi drove for more than 20 minutes with "Gaode", this community is quite large, and it is really different, and the big words "Dongcheng Era" come into view.

"Get off, in the entrepreneurial stage, I'm not as good as my sister, Country Garden villa area, high-rise residential area understand. ”

"You're welcome, you have such achievements at such a young age, you are a model for our young people, in this era of fierce competition, there are not many people who can buy a house. Zuo Mi complimented.

Short-haired Zuo Mi pursed his lips and smiled, the top floor of the nine buildings, to be honest, I am still a little afraid of heights at such a height, I don't dare to look down at all, there are 37 floors high, Zuo Mi is used to it, busy cleaning, tidying up housework, I am not idle, there is everything in the refrigerator, cooking and cooking.

After the short-haired Zuo Mi came out of the bath, I was already stir-frying, and she had a smile on her face, she didn't know how to cook, although my dishes tasted average, at least clean and healthy, and I also took the initiative to brush the dishes after the meal, and Zuo Mi went to take a bath.

The short-haired Zuo Mi approached me and hugged my head, and said with a charming expression: "Is there anything different between me and your wife?"

"It's different in all aspects, except for your appearance, each has its own merits, one is affectionate, one is a closed moon and a shy flower, they are all the types that people love, I have low emotional intelligence, and I am not very good to evaluate. "I'm playing on the sidelines.

"You kid is very good at talking, you, you have low EQ, I think you have a very high EQ, otherwise how can you marry such a beautiful wife, I look a little envious. ”

Just Zuo Mi came out, I hurriedly found a hair dryer and dried her hair, after the three of us sat together, women always have endless topics to talk about, watching the TV series was so excited that it was not decent, the relationship was very good, and left me aside. I was bored too, so I went back to my room by myself.

A book caught my attention, "Introduction to Psychoanalysis" Freud's book, this kind of book about dreams I like very much, I used to be sleepy all day, but now I am full of energy, the more I read it, the more interesting it becomes, I don't even know that Zuomi has come in.

"What are you looking at, it's half past ten and you haven't slept yet?"

"This book about dreams is very good, don't you watch TV series?"

"Don't look at it, she went to sleep, don't look at it, don't look at it, rest well and work hard tomorrow, and you have to find Nuoyan." ”

"Good. ”

Zuo Mi approached me and said, "Husband, I lied to you!"

"Why do you say that?"

"Actually, Noyan didn't tell me how to go back, so we had to figure it out on our own. ”

I was stunned, fortunately Zuomi came, otherwise I might have collapsed.

"It doesn't matter, it's all fate, or that sentence has you by my side, nothing else is a problem, let's try to find the direction to go back, no matter what the final outcome is, at least we have worked hard, and there are no regrets. ”

Zuo Mi snuggled up in my arms, what the tomorrow would be like, I don't know, and after chatting with Zuo Mi about some things that had been happy before, I fell asleep in a daze, and if it is indeed a common property of instinct to ask for the restoration of the early stages of things, then we need not be surprised when we find that many of the processes that take place in our mental life are independent of the influence of the principle of pleasure. It is a universal characteristic of all instinctive components that the goal for them is to return to a particular stage of the development process. These are all things that are not yet controlled by the principle of pleasure. But that doesn't mean that each of them necessarily contradicts the principle of pleasure. We still have to address the question of the interrelationship between the repetitive process of instinct and the dominating effect of the principle of pleasure.

I often lament myself, and many people like me, who were lazy and inactive when they were young, and regret in vain when they were old. I don't think most of them want to do that themselves.

It's easy to be mediocre, but the reality is even more cruel. You can't choose your background, but you can choose to change yourself. I often hear mediocre people say, "Why don't I have a good father?" and I often hear successful people say, "I just want to work harder and be more diligent." "If you look closely at the people around you, you will find that the more accomplished people are, the more fulfilling their lives are, and the busier their lives are. They have their own life goals, plans, and goals to lock in every opportunity and give full play to their abilities.

On the other hand, mediocre people, go to and from work, stay in bed to eat, don't even bother to take care of themselves, don't bother to clean up the room, they often complain about the unfairness of fate, can't help but stand the slightest setback, they have no goals, no plans, and live one day at a time. They also often dream of the future, hoping to become scientists, wealthy businessmen, or the best in a certain field, but they wake up the next day with a languishing appearance, never putting their dreams into action, just dreaming stupidly, occasionally whispering.

Successful people always insist on their dreams day after day, year after year, Ma Yun has insisted for 20 years for Ali, Niu Gensheng has persisted for 10 years for Mengniu, and Yu Minhong has insisted for more than 20 years for New Oriental...... These successful people put most of their energy on that single goal, defying difficulties and obstacles, and having the courage to overcome many difficulties, even at the expense of all their wealth and connections. Their success is no accident, and their dedication and hard work make it inevitable.

On the other hand, mediocre people, today a dream, tomorrow a goal, not even that goal can stick to a month, "three minutes of heat" is synonymous with them. They often can't withstand setbacks and routs, and often choose to give up when they see the signs of failure, turn around and look for the next goal, and in the end they don't achieve anything, and complain about bad luck.

If you look at the successful people around you, you will find that you are not doing well because you have never really worked hard. The choices you make today and all the attitudes you hold to life determine your future.

The next day I was pulled up by Zuo Mi, the short hair Zuo Mi left early, I looked at the time, the mother was seven twenty, after a hasty wash, I blew my hair and styled, and went out with Zuo Mi. Fortunately, I left the car for us, and it was just eight o'clock when I arrived at the company, and I always felt bad when I was late.

Zuo Mi returned to her office and happened to meet Jin Wenhui, who asked me to wait for her in the office, saying that she was looking for me for something.

I carefully looked at Jin Wenhui's office, simple style, relatively low-key, except for office supplies and a photo on the table, none of them are superfluous, I found a problem when I came to this world, obviously the office is on the air conditioner, but I don't feel cool, no matter how big the sun is, I can't feel the heat, I don't know if Zuo Mi has this feeling, it's a bit like a parallel world.

"It's been a long wait, and there was a short meeting. Jin Wenhui explained.

"No, I didn't have to wait long. ”

"I heard that you studied medicine, what is your main major?"

"Traditional Chinese medicine. ”

"This is very good, but the average person can't learn it. Zuo Mi told me, she values you very much, Xue'er has already gone to the hospital, you can also pack up and prepare to go over, let me see your strength, our maternal and child health hospital is mainly gynecology, and other departments are still in preparation, by the way, I have a question?" Jin Wenhui looked at me with affection.

"You...... Say?"

"Don't be so nervous, how is the Jin Wenhui Hospital in your world prepared, can you share it with me?"

I thought about it: "Sister Wenhui, I think you have your own planning and layout in your heart, I don't work in Jin Wenhui's hospital, I work in Yan Musk Hospital, I have amnesia for various reasons, I don't remember the previous things, I think your wisdom should not be under others, go your own way, why care about other people's thoughts!"

Jin Wenhui smiled: "Yes, you are very smart, I believe in my vision, and the Chinese medicine rehabilitation department will be handed over to you." ”

"I have a little request?"

"Well, you say. ”

"I want to go with my wife, it doesn't matter if I'm not in the same department, but I have to work in one place, I feel at ease, maybe neither of us can go back, my wife is my only concern, you see?"

"No problem, didn't you say before that your wife works in the hospital? It shouldn't be strange to let her do the same job, I'll go and tell Zuo Mi, is there still a problem?"

"Thank you. ”

I went back to the office with short hair, she glanced at me, silent, I was bored looking at the book, my job is her little follower, the first time to experience this kind of work, easy and freehand, this is also the dream job of most job seekers.

"Go make me a cup of rose tea, where is the tea at the front desk?" said the short-haired Zuo Mi lightly.

"Howler. ”

I quickly came to the front desk and found that there were only two beautiful women, and I was curious: "What about the other two young ladies?"

"Resigned, handsome little guy, by the way, is it her sister or sister who looks the same as Manager Zuo, everyone has been discussing this topic these days?"

I smiled and said, "Secret, get me rose tea, Manager Zuo has been waiting for a long time, you know your temper." ”

"Hehe, it seems that you know the manager very well, we are very afraid of her, it is said that our position will be changed every three or five times, I am really worried that I will be fired that day. Another beautiful woman said.

"Let me tell you this, we are all part-time workers, there is no master here, there is a place to keep a master, just a job, a good mentality, improve your ability is the best, you are so beautiful in the workplace is very advantageous, I went in first, talk another day. ”