Chapter 611: Cangzhu Han 11
At that time, if it weren't for Fan Zhiyi's indifferent daughters, and he and her family made a public appearance with Xiao San, although Cangzhuhan was cold, he would not have thought of divorce.
Ye Chunyu's temperament is similar to her, unless her daughter is willing to return to her, otherwise she will still have to be exploited by that pair of wonderful mothers and sons.
"It took me half a lifetime to understand that marriage and love can not be solved by relying on the experience of predecessors, I don't experience a broken head and blood, or even lose my life, I don't know at all, there is no way forward, I don't believe you think about it, for thousands of years, how many legal provisions have been abolished and died, but the divorce law has always existed, no matter which dynasty, there is little change. β
Divorce is actually very simple, if you can't leave, if you don't leave, there will be nothing left, if you leave, how to divide the property, who will raise the children, just these two things.
It's a pity that at that time, often one party has to leave the other, but most of the time, the one who doesn't divorce is the weak.
A party who is in a weak position in the marriage has a very small probability of winning the divorce lawsuit, and it is very difficult.
In the end, it is often the loser who cries how much he has paid, and the winner who takes his possessions and spare tires to a new life.
Cang Zhuhan's words were not unreasonable, and Huang Yixi also agreed with her, but she didn't know that Ye Chunyu's affairs soon took a turn for the better.
"Sister Zhuhan, I'm curious about one thing, why don't you get married again after the divorce?"
Even if she didn't hear Wu Qingyi say how beautiful Cangzhuhan was when she was young, with her current appearance, Huang Yixi could imagine Cangzhuhan's demeanor.
There are women who were beautiful when they were young, but were quickly eroded into mottled pages of history by the years.
Some women were ordinary when they were young, but they slowly became elegant and graceful under the preferential treatment of the years, like an emerald that has faded from the coat of stone.
There are only a very few women who, no matter what kind of environment they are in, can live as a green bamboo.
And Cang Zhuhan is worthy of her name, even if she is over half a hundred years old, she can still attract the attention of men.
"Remarried? It's not that I haven't thought about it, but it's hard to ...... It's hard to ......."
"I don't believe that no man likes Sister Zhuhan. β
"It's someone who likes it, but you have to know that when you remarry, the vast majority of reasons are not because of love, and the vast majority of people, whether they are men or women, don't think about love first. β
In his years of single life, Cangzhuhan has not met men who show love, but China is a materialized society, and men who are as good as Cangzhuhan will set their sights on unmarried young and beautiful women, rather than choosing Cangzhuhan who has a marriage history on his resume.
And not an excellent man, Cang Zhuhan does not have the patience to wait and cultivate, she is very busy in life, making money to buy a house, raising children, and studying law, which has taken up most of her time.
Moreover, once she was bitten by a snake, she was afraid of the well rope for ten years, Cangzhuhan was afraid, and what she cultivated again would be the second Fan Zhiyi.
Huang Yixi smiled dryly, "Yes, but Sister Zhuhan, you are also very successful now, you don't need to rely on any man, just like a certain woman said, sister doesn't have to marry into a wealthy family, sister herself is a wealthy family." β
Cang Zhuhan laughed, "How long have you not watched the current affairs news, and you haven't seen the fate of that female boss?"
When was it, Cangzhuhan was as naΓ―ve as Huang Yixi now.
She thought that if she worked hard, she could stand on the scumbag and laugh.
But reality quickly slapped her.
She wasn't a genius, and she didn't have any extraordinary abilities.
What's more, this society is not a game to pass the customs, and it is not a single person who can succeed.
To succeed in something, you have to go through a lot of procedures.
Of all the levels, there are only two things that the male ruler wants.
Either the money, or the sex.
The female is a little more complicated, in addition to money, there is also jealousy.
No one can fight against this unspoken rule.
For a woman to succeed, she must either be blackened or assimilated.
Either live like Miss Dong, covered in steel helmets, or you can only rely on this man or that man to say two beautiful words.
"I'm not like you, there is a Shang Luoyu in front of you, you can do it if you want to, and don't do it if you don't want to. β
Cang Zhuhan looked at Huang Yixi enviously.
The reason why Huang Yixi's quota has not been replaced until now, she thinks that her excellence has attracted attention.
Yes, she is excellent, but not irreplaceable.
It's just that Shang Luoyu is on top.
"According to Sister Zhuhan, I'm so useless?"
Huang Yixi knew that Cangzhuhan was telling the truth, but he was still a little unconvinced.
"No, no, no, this is a civilized society, even if it is unbearable in private, but there is still a layer of cloth separating it, and under the protection of this cloth, I can support myself and my daughter, and you, as long as you are not greedy, can live the life you used to have. β
Previous life?
"Yes, being a small lawyer, most of the time I have food and clothing, occasionally a small fortune from the sky, I hide when I meet Zhang Mei, and I meet Li Mei again when I change a law firm......."
Cang Zhuhan didn't say anything very ugly, but smart people understood the meaning of her words.
In a civilized society, as long as you recognize your position and are willing to work, it is not difficult to survive.
As for the higher pursuit, in addition to ability, there must be other abilities.
"You know what, I'm quite jealous of you, yes, it's not envy, it's jealousy, you can settle down when Shang Luoyu leaves, study hard, and don't rely on another man, and Shang Luoyu, in that environment, can also persevere and come back to you. β
When Huang Yixi and Shang Luoyu separated, it was Huang Yixi's best age, at that time, she was not without excellent boys, a woman was hurt by a man, and unintelligent women often chose to commit to another man, and Huang Yixi chose to study when it was time to study, and he could forgive Shang Luoyu when he came back.
And now, under Shang Luoyu's wings, Huang Yixi has room to fly up.
So she now has him by her side, but I don't know if they can be as lucky as ever and escape the teasing of God.
Even if affection turns to coldness, Huang Yixi at that time should also have the ability to protect herself, not at her level.
Cang Zhuhan also struggled after the divorce, but unfortunately she had a child at that time, and she was old, and she refused to bend down to serve the powerful.......
"Don't talk about that, let's talk about you, are you in a better mood now?"
Huang Yixi looked at Shangcang Zhu coldly.
Could it be that she knows the results of her tests?
It is said that when you feel unlucky, you feel better when you hear that others are worse than you.
No wonder Cang Zhuhan talked about Fang Nianping's tragedy and talked about her own affairs.
Isn't it enlightening yourself?
It seems to be a little useful, and I seem to be in a better mood, not so sad.
"Sister Zhuhan, do you know about my illness?" Huang Yixi asked tentatively.
After she knew the results of the examination, she didn't think about it to her mother, she didn't even think about it to Shang Luoyu, and she didn't tell anyone what she thought when she didn't make a decision on the matter.