1179: Tantrums
"IāI want you to help me find my biological parents. The boy bit his lip, as if it had taken a lot of courage to say this.
An Yao's busy hands froze in the air, and she couldn't help but "chuckle" in her heart.
This boy looks to be eleven or twelve years old, and he has reached the age when he is already sensible, so it may be that he has always been thinking about his biological parents.
Think about it, what child doesn't want to have mom and dad, and what kid doesn't want to know who their mom and dad are?
An Yao smiled and nodded, "Okay, then do you remember those things before you came here?"
The boy nodded, "I remember some, but not all." ā
"It's okay, you tell me everything you know, and I'll try to help you. ā
The boy was overjoyed and nodded hurriedly.
An Yaozai carefully remembered every point the boy said, and marked it carefully.
"Don't worry, I'll do my best to help you find your parents. ā
"Thank you, Sister An Yao. The boy bowed deeply to An Yao.
After doing all this, the time was almost up, and Pang Fei and An Yao had to hurry up to pick up the girl.
Along the way, An Yao's mood was sometimes very happy, and sometimes sighed, which made Pang Fei wonder, "What's wrong with you, you will be happy and sigh for a while, are you happy or unhappy?"
An Yao said truthfully, "Happy, of course I'm very happy, can I not be happy to be able to do such a good thing?" Alas, sighing, it is because I think of what happened to some children, I can't help but feel very uncomfortable in my heart. ā
"The same children, you see our family, the food is the best, the drink is the best, and the use is also the best, their clothes and a pair of shoes may be the living expenses of those children for a year. ā
"I didn't think there was anything before, but after meeting these children, I suddenly realized that our children are so happy and luxurious at the same time. In the future, I can't always sell them brand-name things, and I have to let them know that this money is not scraped down from the sky, it is all earned by our hard work, and we have to let them know that life is not easy. ā
"Well, good!" Pang Fei echoed with a smile.
An Yao sighed again and said, "Oh, this experience is different, this feeling is different." If I had known, I should have let you bring me sooner. You see how many pieces of time have passed this day, and unconsciously, I didn't even notice it, and the day of this search has passed. ā
Pang Fei smiled, "You just don't know how to be blessed in the midst of happiness, so you have to find something for yourself." You see how many wealthy wives, people either go to play cards or sing and dance, just you, you have to do something special, come to experience what ordinary life. Hey, you're a wonder, too. ā
An Yao "cut" her voice, "Don't compare me with those people, I'm different from them." It's their business that they enjoy life, I don't want to, I just want to experience a different life, I just want to be more grounded. ā
"Otherwise, if you always live on it so lightly, after a long time, you will get rid of the smell of fireworks. ā
"If you break away, you will break away, as long as you live happily, won't you?" Pang Fei said noncommittally.
An Yao said, "That's different, this person, it's better to live a little more down-to-earth, if it's too light, I always feel ...... Weird. I can't say what's weird, but I just think it's weird. ā
It may be that when people reach a certain level, they are more interested in spiritual heights, rather than just being satisfied with material heights. I'm now, maybe that's probably what it is, haha. I don't know why, but I want to laugh after saying it. ā
"If you want to talk about height, I'm really far behind those teachers, forget it, I still don't use height to beautify myself, just take it as a prayer for our family. ā
An Yao said a lot to herself, and she could be happy alone.
Pang Fei listened quietly like that, always with a happy smile on his face.
The car turned around and finally stopped in front of the kindergarten.
In the past, Pang Fei asked An Yao to wait in the car, but today An Yao insisted on coming down and picking up Nan Nan from school in person.
After getting along with those children, An Yao missed Nan Nan more and more, missed the little girl's smiling face, and missed the little girl's "hee-hee-ha" laughter.
"Mommy, why did you come to pick me up in person today?" asked Nan Nan as she climbed into the car with a small schoolbag on her back.
An Yao said, "Mommy misses you, so I'm here to pick you up, can't I?"
"But you didn't get out of the car before, why did you get off the bus today, aren't you afraid that the children will accidentally touch your stomach?"
This question really made An Yao unable to answer.
An Yao smiled awkwardly and changed the subject, "Nan, what do you see Mommy brought you......?"
An Yao took out a pair of handmade cloth shoes from her bag, red with embroidery on them.
This was given to Nan Nan by the dean, and An Yao thought it was very beautiful.
But Nan Nan glanced at it and pinned the shoes away with disgust, "What's this, it's too ugly, it's not good-looking at all, I don't want it." ā
"Nannan, how beautiful these shoes are, the flowers on them were embroidered by a grandmother herself, you see, how beautiful they are. ā
"I don't like it, I just like the shoes on my feet. ā
Nan Nan is still very repulsive.
An Yao persuaded patiently several times, and even proposed the idea of letting Nan Nan try it first, but Nan Nan refused.
The little girl was not only very repulsed, but also disgusted, afraid that An Yao would really put on those ugly shoes for herself, so she threw the shoes out of the car window.
"Nan!" An Yao couldn't help but lose her temper.
This girl is too big and too small!
Nan Nan pouted and said, "Mommy dislikes me, why do you have to wear those ugly shoes for me? Those shoes are not worth anything at all, hmph, does Mommy want to save the money for the little brother or the little sister to spend?"
"Hmph, I don't want little brothers and sisters anymore, I hate little brothers and sisters. She said, rubbing her eyes and crying.
An Yao was angry at this time, and her emotions were inevitably a little up, "Why are the shoes ugly, they are handmade, and they are very comfortable to wear." ā
Nan Nan twisted her body and said, "Anyway, I just don't want it, no matter how good the shoes are, they are not worth a lot of money, and the ones on my feet are bought with a lot of money." You just want to put me in cheap shoes and keep all the money for my little brothers and sisters. ā
Nan Nan has been struggling with the value of shoes, thinking that expensive shoes are good shoes, and cheap shoes are bad shoes, which makes An Yao feel very frightened.
Children's values are like this now, there is no distinction between good and bad, only know how to judge by value.
This is a very bad phenomenon, if you grow up with this kind of value, then Nan Nan is likely to become the second Zhao Na in the future.
An Yao will never allow her children to be so superficial and have no depth, she only knows how to measure everything with money.
But is it her fault that she is in the current situation?
No!
It's her and Pang Fei's fault, it's the two of them who didn't establish the right values for the child, it's they who caused the mistake in the child's values, and what right do they have to blame the child?
An Yao was patient, first took the difficulty into her arms, and then slowly explained to her, "Nan, Mommy didn't mean to be reluctant to spend money on you, Mommy really thought those shoes were very beautiful, so she specially let you wear them." ā
"The shoes are handmade, they will be very comfortable to wear, and the little flowers on them are unique, and there is absolutely no child in your class who wears them the same as you. ā
"Look at that color, it's going to look beautiful with that little pink dress of yours. This style is popular now, if you don't believe it, Mommy will let you see it. ā
An Yao said, turned on her mobile phone, and specially found a video of a little girl wearing ancient costumes to show Nannan.
Nan Nan stopped her tears, her big watery eyes blinked, and the more she looked at it, the more she liked it.
"Wow, this little girl dances so beautifully in this dress!"
"Yes, look at the shoes on her feet, they are the kind of small cloth shoes embroidered, how beautiful they are with this dress. Mommy believes that if she is on the boat, she will definitely look better than her. ā
Nan Nan pouted and said apologetically, "It turns out that Mommy is for my good, but I still lose my temper with Mommy, I'm so ignorant." Mommy, I was wrong. ā
"So what should you do now?"
Nan Nan returned the mobile phone to An Yao, pushed the car door down, took the initiative to pick up the shoes she threw out of the window, and took off the shoes on her feet and put on the new shoes.
"Like, it's really pretty. Mommy, look at this little flower, propped up by my toes, as if it really bloomed. ā
Nan Nan bent over, looking at the two small flowers on her little feet, and the more she looked at it, the more she liked it.
Seeing that Nan Nan finally no longer rejected these shoes, An Yao was finally relieved in her heart.
And from beginning to end, Pang Fei didn't say a word, because he believed that An Yao was definitely much better than him in educating children.
These two people are most afraid of one singing red face and the other singing white face, the best way is for one of the parties not to meddle in their affairs, so that the child will not cause dependence.
Seeing that the mother and daughter were finally reconciled, Pang Fei started the car.
On the way, An Yao also told Nan Nan about going to the Sunshine Orphanage today, and told Nan Nan about the fact that those older brothers and sisters and younger brothers and sisters were living in poverty.
Nan Nan said she was surprised, "Ah, they don't have any meat to eat, that's too pitiful." ā
"Yes, not only do they have no meat to eat, but they also don't have their parents by their side, which is the most pitiful. So if we can help them, we have to help them a little. ā
However, the premise is that we have the ability to help them, and not to help others when we are not able to do it ourselves. You know what?"