"Brother, you have been wandering the rivers and lakes for so many years, can you share your essence of the way, and it can be regarded as a lesson for the younger brother!"

"Okay, you kid bring such a good wine, let's tell you the truth, I'm a good person, these two sips, haha. ”

"No problem, brother, you like to drink, I have what I have here, what is the Boulder Villa, Xie Baina, the Great Wall is red, and you are indispensable for you, brother. ”

"Haha, thank you, thank you, I've had a lot of ups and downs, when I was rich, I was still famous in Chengdu at that time, many parents of students came to me to make up classes, I made a little money at that time, and I married a beautiful wife. ”

It can be seen that Chen Yong has also been beautiful, but I don't know why he may be lonely, he didn't say it in detail, I didn't ask in detail, life has ups and downs, and now he is still angry, maybe this is life, more like a parabola.

Chen Yong lit a cigarette and said: "Brother, I have worked hard for so many years, I will share some with you, I hope it will help you later, first of all, there are many unspoken rules in the workplace, and all successful people understand this, they understand the nature of society and the unspoken rules of interpersonal communication, know what the other party needs, and know what the other party is thinking in their heads." SF Express is the same, it seems to be just a simple job to deliver express delivery, the water in it is no less than any workplace, bribery, power trading, these are happening every day, someone is on the top means someone is down, indicating that the wind and waves are calm, open and dark fighting at any time, like our point department, the supervisor wants to promote the manager, the manager wants to go to the district department, the warehouse manager wants to promote the supervisor, on the one hand to ensure the quality, on the other hand, to bribe the upper level, SF Express is a direct company, the boss only has a part-time job at the end of the month, the higher the climb, the more beneficial it is to himself, the supervisor sits in the office every month to get money, the bottom of the dispatcher is more tired than that, but also angry, do not give the leader a little benefitMost of the new employees come to run the C-class area, and the difficulty coefficient reaches A, which is why the community class is unstable, just like me, but you are an exception, good luck. ”

"Haha, my brother smiled, as far as I know, it seems that the supervisor is fighting with a few old employees, and it just so happens that the people in this area are gone, let me try it, if I can't eat it, I won't be sent to this area, but I'm very used to this intensity, so I didn't say anything. ”

"Yes, life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy, everyone must face cruel competition! Because they do not understand human feelings, there are many famous generals in history who have made great achievements and made meritorious contributions, and in the end they ended up being killed, they did not fall under the enemy's sword, but died unjustly at the hands of their own people.

Blood is splattered, brains are smeared on the ground, and there is nowhere in the world to sell regret medicine. Even if there were, it was too late to regret it, and their glorious life ended hastily. How could we not understand such painful advice with blood and brains. ”

This cumin beef rice bowl tastes so good, I replied, "My brother knows so much, and it is a great honor for me to learn from you." ”

"Haha, seriously, there is a study on the unspoken rules, first of all, I will tell you the first point, there is no eternal friend in the world, and there is no eternal enemy, only eternal interests, the essence of interpersonal interaction is the exchange of interests, if you don't understand the principle of interest exchange, all the benefits are your own, then even the amazing talent can only be reduced to useless blank paper. Never look down on people who look vulgar now, and in a few years, they may be the worst of them. ”

I listened quietly, and Chen Yong continued: "There is no food to eat, and those who do great things should practice the skill of hiding and devising, be wise and wise, be foolish, and if necessary, even pretend to be an imbecile and be a fool, which is a wise move." ”

Chen Yong is worthy of being a cultural person, what has he experienced to be able to spit out such a truth.

I didn't interrupt him, and continued to listen to him quietly: "If you regard disliking the poor and loving the rich as a normal social phenomenon, why should others give you your hard-earned lunch? In other words, would you give the lunch you are fortunate to have gotten to others? If not, you can't trust others to do it, and instead of pinning your groundless hopes on others, you should work hard and earn your own lunch! Most relatives and friends can only share weal and woe, but cannot share happiness. Between bosses and employees, most of them can only enjoy happiness together, but they cannot share weal and woe. ”

I interrupted: "Brother, I know this truth, this is human nature, you have experienced more than me, you have seen more, you can imagine your previous experience." ”

"Alas, it's all history, when I was young, I didn't plan when I was beautiful, and now my age has gone, and it's just a mixed insurance in SF, haha. ”

"Brother, you can't say that, Ren Zhengfei's more than forty wives have been separated, and others have also created Huawei, age is not a problem, as long as you have the heart, I believe that my brother can return to the top." ”

"Haha, it's hard to say this, now I only want family stability, everyone will encounter a mid-life crisis, but I came too fast, this job is always an excess, can't be done for a long time, you and I are always passers-by, experience life can, don't treat it as the future, anyone can do it, anyone can be replaced, this is the unspoken rule of SF, you pay a lot of bribes, naturally there is a good area, no bribery, generally can't do it for long." ”

More than ten years ago, a taxi driver could feed a family, now it is not enough to support himself, society is developing, everyone is a driver, the driver industry can not be called technology, I plan to do how long to do how long, observe other industries, find some business opportunities, it depends on their own creation. ”

"No matter where you go in the future, I will give you another suggestion, I hope it will help you in the future, people are not afraid of not being smart, they are afraid of being too smart, they will be blind when they are too smart, they will see no one, they will not know the height of the sky, and they will get carried away, at this time people who seem to be very smart are actually equivalent to half a fool! Most of the people who get goods in ancient and modern times are shrewd people, and now people are afraid that they cannot be shrewd to the extreme, this is stupid. When a beautiful woman shows off her beauty, she starts to get ugly, a smart person who shows off her intelligence starts to become stupid, and a talented person, who shows off her talent, starts to become worthless. If you want to catch a fish, you have to think like a fish, if 10% of the profit is reasonable, you can get 11%, but it is better to take 9%, because only then will there be a steady stream of follow-up business. On some special occasions, some smart people take the initiative to give up their positions to others, and they are willing to be the companions. This is not a failure, it can even be said to be a strategic victory, he gave up just a false name of the protagonist, and won a real benefit. ”

"Brother, this question agrees with your statement, many officials, such as I know, the director and deputy director of the tax bureau, the deputy director really can't be the director, the negative answer of this answer, on the one hand, is to avoid suspicion, on the other hand, it is to be a favor, the two complement each other, but also to protect themselves, what is really coming, it is generally the director who suffers first, this is officialdom, as for the workplace, I don't know if this is the case?"

"This answer, I'll tell you later, let's go, you see that the store is going to close, let's talk slowly another day, the coming day is long, we are meeting every day, not in a moment's sprint. ”

Today, Chen Yong gave me a lot of useful things, which can be regarded as good fortune, meeting such a noble person.