Chapter 016: Distorted Concepts
In a singing competition held in the factory, Angel, who has a good voice, won the first place in the girls' group, so she was admired by many people, including Tan Mo, who was also the first place in the boys' group from the technical school.
So, Angel and Tan Mo, these two like-minded people, naturally walked together and became boyfriend and girlfriend. Soon, they were renting a house and living together.
It is said that men and women in love are the sweetest and happiest, and just look at Qin Fang to know how beautiful love is.
Look, even when she was working in the workshop, she always smiled or grinned silently, which often made Tian Tian, who was sitting next to her, feel particularly inexplicable.
When she was about to get off work in fifteen minutes, there was definitely no shadow of Qin Fang in the workshop, because she couldn't wait to go into the toilet to put on makeup.
Her face full of happiness is all telling everyone that "I'm already in love".
Migrant workers in other places are not willing to be lonely, and some will find a partner to carry them forward, and technicians from Japan are also lonely after being far away from their homeland and relatives, so it is normal for them to look for a young lady.
Even, sometimes, it is common for one person to take two or three young ladies back to the apartment at the same time. I heard that when the money ran out, he did not hesitate to give the camera to those young ladies.
The old Japanese man's camera was of particularly good quality, and even at night, the photos taken were particularly clear. It won't be like a point-and-shoot camera, and the results will be a mess at night.
Tian Tian is a quiet and introverted person, she is disgusted with those messy and intricate relationships between men and women.
She felt that those men were ill-intentioned, like scheming and cunning hunters.
For the sake of the prey in his heart, the hunter always digs a deep trap with great pains, and then, in order to be more realistic, he will take great pains to build a shelf with branches on it, and then plant fresh grass and flowers on it, and lay the skin of the little rabbit on it, and from a distance, it looks like a rabbit sleeping there.
The passing sika deer saw that there was not only such lush and fresh grass, but also rabbits, so they happily ran over to enjoy it, but when they stepped on it, they "plopped" and fell down, and could not climb up again.
However, Tian Tian is like a lotus flower that comes out of the mud and is not stained, she has her own unique values and outlook on life, so in the face of various invitations from men's "courtesy", she can always be indifferent and refuse without exception.
Because Tian Tian will never forget her grandmother's teaching of "eating people with short mouths and taking people with short hands".
So, in front of men, Tian Tian always looked indifferent and arrogant. Therefore, someone gave her a nickname called "Cool Rose".
In fact, the indifferent appearance is Tian Tian's way of "self-protection".
You say, this man is not cheap, the more you ignore him, the more interested he will be in you, and he will be stalking you to death. Some people would even be extremely proud to say a word to Tian Tian in front of everyone, even though Tian Tian didn't bother to look at him.
On Valentine's Day, someone also gave Tian Tian roses, but Tian Tian was always mercilessly thrown in the trash can outside the dormitory door.
Because, Tian Tian understands that he doesn't need this kind of "playful" love game, and at the same time, he doesn't want to be a victim who just satisfies a man's sexual desire. Besides, I don't want to take advantage of each other like others, knowing that it is impossible for each other, and I don't like each other at all, but I prefer to get along with boyfriend and girlfriend to cheat and cheat.
Tian Tian knows what she needs, she doesn't want to act on the spot, she is a serious and principled person, she has no favorite opposite sex, she will never sow the seeds of love at will, once she is emotionally invested, that person must be a candidate for a "husband", not just a lover.
If not, why start?
Is it just for expensive clothes? Just to save on the cost of renting? But, as it turns out, in the end, it is undoubtedly the woman who suffers the most.
When they lie on the cold operating table again and again and accept the pain of curettage, women must regret getting pregnant out of wedlock. However, there are some women who always suffer from the problem of "forgetting the pain after the scar is good".
Tian Tian's opposite shop is a Cantonese girl, short and fat.
She once told Tian Tian that people nowadays have daughters who would rather marry someone to be a second wife than marry a young talent whose family is so poor.
Because there are vivid examples in their village.
There is a family that is very poor, and the wife has a serious uremia, but when his eldest daughter married someone else as a second wife, not only cured his wife's illness, but also built a very luxurious three-story small western-style building, and the family also purchased color TVs, refrigerators and motorcycles.
As a result, the people in the village were particularly envious of their family.
There is a Sichuan girl who said that she has a fellow villager who turned out to be just a working girl on the assembly line of an electronics factory, but after becoming the second wife of a Hong Kong boss, she lives in a big villa, eats and wears famous brands, holds a big brother, and does not have to go to work, and has a pocket money of 2,000 yuan a month.
However, when I was working, no matter how much I worked overtime in that factory, I would get a maximum salary of 500 yuan. If you count your fingers, why not?
However, Tian Tian doesn't think so, she doesn't agree with how good it is to be a second wife, it's just that she is consumed by the desire for profit and sees the vanity and luxury in front of her. In fact, when the second wife does not necessarily have the sincere love of the other party, and there is no guarantee.
Those men who are looking for a second wife are just a tool for exchanging money for the excitement of extramarital affairs and entertainment. What are the responsibilities and obligations?
Just like a toy in a child's hand, there will always be a day when he gets bored, and when the time comes, he can find one or several third or fourth milks.
Without the constraints and constraints of marriage, there is no way to hold him accountable, and in the end, only the woman is the woman who knocks out the big teeth and swallows it in the stomach.
Some people compare the relationship between men and women to the relationship between a lock and a key, saying that men are locks and women are keys. It seems understandable that a lock has multiple keys, and a key can only correspond to one lock.
Some men can have several women at the same time, just as a lock can be accompanied by a bunch of keys at the same time. Men have several or dozens of women, and that is the capital of ostentation and pride, which will be admired by all men.
However, if a woman has a man other than her husband, then she will be poked in the backbone by everyone, and will be despised as "bad morals", and she will unanimously think that "red apricots are out of the wall" and "do not abide by women's morals".
Therefore, there is no such thing as one key with multiple locks.
In Tian Tian's heart, she especially despises the kind of woman who is afraid of the heavy, who gets something for nothing, who loves vanity, who has no backbone and chastity, and who is willing to degenerate.
She thinks that everyone must have principles and moral bottom lines, and there must be a degree of what can and why not to do.
Therefore, Tian Tian especially admires those strong women who are determined and self-improving. She just wants to be like that.
One day, Tian Tian, who loves to read, saw a story of a strong woman in a magazine, the protagonist is called Zheng Zongying, a native of Chongyi County, and it is a real case of a working girl turned into a female boss.
Since then, Zheng Zongying's great image has taken deep root in Tian Tian's heart.
She thought that if she had a chance, she would have to fight hard and make herself look like a dog!