Chapter 289: Talking about marriage with Zuo Mi

The next morning, I was woken up by Zuo Mi, I saw that the time was only more than seven o'clock, in my father-in-law's house, it was not good to sleep lazy, I got up and saw Wanqing, I should not have gone back last night, I was making porridge for us.

"Brother Wind Chimes is early. Wan Qingtian said.

"You woke up so early, did you sleep well last night?"

"It's okay, get used to it, go wash it, and you can eat the fragrant mint millet porridge I made in a while." ”

"Haha, okay. ”

I took a shower, the morning bath is really cool, especially cool, after I came out, Aunt Yuyan and Uncle Zuo got up, I greeted them, they went out after eating and washing briefly, I was left with me and Zuo Mi and Wanqing, after breakfast, Wanqing went out, after Zuo Mi brushed the dishes, sat in the room and made up, and came out for half an hour.

"Little husband, have you cleaned up?" Zuo Mi asked,

"You want to go out?"

"Nonsense, otherwise why am I doing makeup?"

"Where are you going?"

"Temple, a famous local temple, Heirakuji Temple. ”

"Heirakuji?"

"That's right, burn incense and worship the Buddha, find a master to calculate for us, so that we can determine the date of the wedding, which is also what my parents meant, and then we will go back to your house, how about it?"

"Okay, yes, by the way, where is my home?"

"Tang Tang sent me a message, in Guangyuan, Sichuan, I don't remember the specific street, there will be Gaode map navigation when the time comes. ”

"Let's go, I'm homesick. ”

"Got it, little husband. ”

Driving to the Pingle Temple, there is an endless stream of people who come to make wishes, young and old, as well as the administrator who maintains order, it turns out that he is also a monk, Zuo Mi seems to often come here and is already familiar with the road, unlike other people who buy incense at the door, but directly pull me to a treasure hall, which has many sculptures of gods.

"Little girl, young man, do you want to make a wish or do you want to make a wish?" said an old lady.

"Mother-in-law, we said we came to make a wish. ”

"What incense to buy, here are high incense, gold incense, red pair candles, lamps and loose incense. ”

Zuo Mi bought a lot, what is this for, do you want to make so many wishes?

"What do you see me doing?" said Zuo Mi.

"Isn't there too much incense?"

"Not much, you know what, all this money should be spent, do good deeds and accumulate merits, and the merits are immeasurable. ”

"Well, there's a merit box there. ”

"I'll donate later, kneel down with me, kowtow three times, and then say your wishes, I'll come first. ”

Zuo Mi kowtowed three times, made a gesture of asking for Buddha with both hands, closed his eyes and said: "Manjushri Bodhisattva, Puxian Bodhisattva, I want to make a marriage wish and a peace wish, may I and the wind chime always be together and never separate, grow old together, may my family and my dearest brother and sister be safe and healthy, okay, it's your turn, husband." “

I also followed Zuo Mi's movements, got up and said, "Manjushri, Puxian Bodhisattva, I want to make two wishes, first, I hope that I can be with Zuo Mi forever, and my memory can be restored soon, and second, I want to return to work and give full play to my light and heat to let patients see hope." ”

Zuo Mi was happy like a child, and took out 5,000 yuan from his bag, my mother, a real local tyrant, directly into the merit box.

"Let's go, husband, if it comes true, remember to come here and make a wish. ”

"It will happen, it will definitely happen. ”

"Why?"

"Because I'm going to be here again. ”

"Haha, you're funny, let's go to the lobby. ”

I continued to follow Zuo Mi, and there were more people in the lobby, and I saw a long queue here, and a monk kept telling the pilgrims who came and went.

"It's annoying, so many people. "Left Secret Road.

"What are we doing here?"

"Of course, we are looking for this enlightened monk to calculate our marriage, as well as the date of the banquet. ”

"Wife, sit here, I'll line up. ”

"It's good, I brought water, are you thirsty?"

"Not thirsty. ”

I waited in line for about half an hour before I arrived, Zuo Mi was playing with his mobile phone on the side, and finally arrived at me, Zuo Mi hurriedly ran over.

"Hello Master?" I said.

"Hello, donor, the poor monk's name is forgotten. ”

"Master Forgetfulness, I'll settle the marriage. ”

"Is that this girl?" the Master of Forgetfulness pointed to Zuo Mi.

"Yes, yes, the master is so powerful, you can see it at a glance. ”

Master Forgetfulness looked at me and suddenly said, "Your name is Wind Chime, and the donor next to you is the future person in charge of Xinlong Technology, a well-known local company." ”

Zuo Mi and I both had their pupils dilated, and it felt incredible, which was too accurate.

Zuo Mi said: "Master Forgetfulness, how do you know?"

"The secret of heaven cannot be revealed, you can find me, it means that you have a fate with me, with my years of experience, the marriage between you is not so smooth, there is a providence in the dark, but the ending is always good, your creation needs to rely on yourself, is there anything else to consult?"

Me and Zuomi, you look at me, I look at you.

Master Forgetfulness said, "Next." ”

Coming out of Pingle Temple, Zuo Mi's mood was quite complicated and heavy, anyway, he was unhappy.

"Wife, it's okay, there are always ups and downs, and the master also said that the ending is always good, but we have to create it ourselves, which is already good. ”

"However, Master Forgetfulness didn't tell us about the wedding day, and I forgot to ask. ”

"What a big deal this is, find a master and do the math to see if that auspicious day of the zodiac is the most suitable, isn't it over?"

"You are talking simply, this is the most important moment of my life, how can I be sloppy. ”

Zuo Mi saw that I was laughing, and immediately his face turned wrong.

"What are you laughing at?"

"No, no, I read a joke titled Choosing the Wrong Wife, Affecting Three Generations. ”

"Hmph, ignore you. ”

"Don't, let me tell you, the first generation is yourself, unable to concentrate on your career, affecting self-esteem and self-confidence, the second generation is parents, a woman who can't control her emotions, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the relationship between in-laws and in-laws will naturally not be good, what I hear in my ears every day is complaining, complaining, the third generation is my own children, I see my parents quarreling every day, there is no sense of happiness, and the children must have no sense of security when they grow up, and they are afraid of marriage. ”

"Then did you choose the right wife?" Zuo Mi said lightly.

"Well, I'm a real person, marriage needs two people to operate, sweet language is the spice of love, when we look at the scenery of the world, when we look at many people in the sea of people, after all, we don't see the person around us clearly. Most people live with masks, because there are too many troubles in the world, and there are too many things in our lives that cannot be said, so life is step by step, that is, we are careful. Fear of injury, fear of tears, so we can only isolate ourselves from the crowd, but when we really walk in the embrace of the world, we find that there are too many wonderful things in the world, and we are just waiting for such a beauty. Until I met you!"

I saw that Zuo Mi's face was slightly red.

Zuo Mi said shyly: "Husband, are you confessing to me?"

"Of course, otherwise why would I say so much, wouldn't I be moved?" I teased Zuo Mi.

"I hate it, you're really good at talking, I don't look like an amnesiac person no matter how I look at you. ”

I put away my smile and said solemnly: "We all look forward to happy love, but we should clearly know that feelings are never as simple as we imagined. In this world, feelings are actually full of all kinds of difficulties and twists and turns, although we don't like men's rhetoric, but sweet words are the spice in love, which can keep our love fresh. We all know that in this world, although we are all human beings, everyone is so different, we should clearly understand that the living environment has created different attributes for each of us, some are wooden, some are clever. But no matter what, in the relationship, it is still very important, my actions can indeed move the other party, but my sweet words can bring warmth to the other party and make our relationship more beautiful. ”

"Husband, you're so strange today. Zuo Mi touched my face and said.

"It's not strange, I just feel that when it comes to the most important moment in life, this is very important to you and me, a man's biggest failure is not how much money he has, but the separation of his wife, really, a man's greatest success is not how much money he makes, not his prominent status, nor the beautiful women around him, but marrying a good wife, family harmony, and happiness until old age. A man's biggest failure is not to live in poverty, not to live an ordinary life, but to find the wrong wife, or to be restless, eating in the bowl, looking at the pot, walking halfway, his wife is separated, when the time of the slow old age, the evening is bleak, there is no money, you can earn it back; to be an ordinary person, there is no annoyance, it is also a good thing, ups and downs are life, a man, into the trough of life, as long as the courage is still there, one day will rise again. But when the family is scattered, even if a home is built again, it will not be as beautiful as before, because the heart has been numb, and life will be improvised. I lit a cigarette and smoked.

Zuo Mi said: "Husband, what you said makes sense, a friend of mine, he is already a Ben Wu person." He often sent WeChat messages to tell me that it was so uncomfortable, although it was only three words, but I understood the pain in his heart. I divorced my wife last year, my children are in college, and a family of three was originally a happy day, but now, the world is on different sides, as if it is three families. Especially during the holidays, he felt even more sad to see others in pairs, or accompany their parents and have a reunion dinner. There is no turning back in life, even if my friend desperately wants to get back everything in the past, but only memories are recovered, not real life, of course, all this, he is to blame. My friend's wife is the manager of the personnel department of a unit, and she is very good and takes care of her family, but after getting along for a long time, my friend found that his wife had too many shortcomings, which he could not tolerate. My wife likes to watch Korean dramas, and sometimes she stays up late to catch up on dramas, if a favorite star comes, she must go to the scene to see it in person. My wife is in her thirties, and she still looks like this, and she feels like a little girl who doesn't know the world. In addition, the wife has a blind attitude towards family affairs. Originally, it is not a bad thing to leave all the trivial matters of the family to men, but because men are very busy with work, they often lose everything, which leads to many small things in the family becoming a non-annoyance. It is a disaster for people to get too close to each other, everyone has shortcomings, and when you are in love, you can see your shortcomings as advantages and you can tolerate them. But when you get married, you are together with the morning and twilight, and the big eyes are magnifying the shortcomings, just like a grain of sand falling out of your eyes, the more you rub it, the more painful it feels, and it only takes a moment to fall in love with someone, proving that true love is missing for a lifetime. How many couples who love each other, and later find out that each other is not the person they want. When a friend outputs, let's divorce, when this sentence, my wife can't believe her ears, and even she feels incredible. When a person is in marriage, he feels very tired, and he will always try to find an exit, just like a person who has held it for too long and wants to go out to breathe. ”