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Xiao Lingzi actually couldn't eat at all, and his throat seemed to be blocked by something, and he was so uncomfortable.
Now that Pang Fei is gone, she finally doesn't have to be afraid to pull rice into her mouth, "Lele, you've been to see Lele, right?"
She asked quietly, timidly.
An Yao sighed and said truthfully, "Yes, let's go see Lele, he's fine, everything is fine over there." He has grown a lot stronger, and he has grown a lot taller, and he looks more and more like a man. ”
"Xiao Lingzi, you can see that Lele has seen it, why are you still so obsessed? I can understand that the relationship between the two of you is good, but after all, you are two different individuals, you have different lifestyles, and you have different paths to take. It is impossible for Lele to take care of you and protect you for a lifetime, and it is impossible for you to follow Lele for the rest of your life. You have to learn to be independent and strong, and learn to face a lot of things on your own. ”
Xiao Lingzi didn't speak, just lowered his head silently, and tears fell down "let's click".
An Yao gently patted her shoulder and continued to say with relief, "I know that it will be difficult for you to forget the previous ones and start again, but no matter how difficult it is, we must try and work hard, because if you don't try and don't work hard, you will never be able to take this step." ”
"You and Lele are destined to embark on different life paths, this is an inevitable fact, so you have to accept it, and accept it if you don't accept it. Instead of letting yourself live in pain, why not open a little bit and make your life a little easier?"
"Moreover, if you can let go of those, you and Lele can still get along well. But if you can't do it, then Lele will alienate you in order to keep the distance between you, do you understand?"
Xiao Lingzi still didn't speak, just silently shed tears.
An Yao's mouth was dry, and her mouth was almost dry, but Xiao Lingzi didn't react at all, which made An Yao really helpless.
Persuasion, what I am most afraid of is encountering this kind of person who does not respond no matter what you say, and Xiao Lingzi is like this now.
An Yao knew that this matter could not be impatient, Xiao Lingzi's problem was not caused by a day or two, but from a young age.
Suddenly, an idea flashed in An Yao's mind, and an idea suddenly popped up.
That is, Pang Fei said that Xiao Lingzi was picked up by Lele, and at that time, Xiao Lingzi's personality was a little withdrawn, he didn't contact with others, and only thought about Lele.
Before, they didn't notice the location of these problems, but now that they think about it, Xiao Lingzi's withdrawn personality is likely to have been left behind when she was very young.
If she can help Xiao Lingzi find her biological parents, with the warmth of her biological parents' love, maybe Xiao Lingzi's situation will improve a little faster.
Thinking of this, this idea in An Yao's heart became more and more intense.
After that, she didn't persecute Xiao Lingzi anymore, and she didn't say anything, just persuaded Xiao Lingzi to drink some more soup.
After that, she and Pang Fei sent Xiao Lingzi back to school together, and told the teacher to pay more attention to Xiao Lingzi's situation.
After coming out of school, An Yao told Pang Fei the previous idea, "There is always a gap between Xiao Lingzi and us, and no matter how much we persuade her, she won't listen to a lot of words." But if her biological parents could be found, I believe the effect would have been different. Pang Fei, let's take some time to help Xiao Lingzi find her biological parents. ”
An Yao's idea made Pang Fei's eyes light up.
Why didn't he think of helping Xiao Lingzi find his biological parents.
Indeed, no matter how good Pang Fei and An Yao are to Xiao Lingzi, they are not Xiao Lingzi's biological parents after all, and the two generations who are not related by blood have some emotion in between.
What's more, since Xiao Lingzi came to this big family, except for Lele, she is not particularly close to others, and it is unrealistic for Pang Fei and An Yao to use their elders to comfort her.
An Yao's proposal is very good, to help Xiao Lingzi find her biological parents, with the love and care of her biological parents, I believe that Xiao Lingzi's feeling of insecurity will slowly disappear.
"Okay, I'll arrange this. Pang Fei said.
Xiao Lingzi has been missing for many years, and it is not easy to find her biological parents, and this matter is probably a very long process.
Before Xiao Lingzi's biological parents were found, Pang Fei and An Yao still cared about Xiao Lingzi, especially her situation in school.
In the past, Xiao Lingzi and Lele only came back once every other month, but now Lele went to the academy, and Xiao Lingzi was the only one left in the school, she had no friends there, and she was often bullied by other girls, An Yao proposed that Xiao Lingzi come back once a week.
At home, it is better than at school, anyway, at home, An Yao and Pang Fei can strive for the best for Xiao Lingzi.
The day after tomorrow is the weekend, which is the day when Xiao Lingzi should come back.
An Yao bought a lot of things in advance, waiting for Xiao Lingzi to come back and cook her some delicious food.
Nan Nan is also busy, the little girl's school is really not in vain, and now she will help Pang Fei and An Yao pick vegetables.
Every time he looks at the happy appearance of this family, Pang Fei feels very happy and very down-to-earth.
Especially, when Nan Nan made him laugh with An Yao "haha" with a quirky look, that relaxed and pleasant feeling really made Pang Fei very intoxicated.
At such times, Pang Fei seems to have abandoned all his troubles, he is a husband, a poop, and has no other identity.
Soon, it was the weekend.
Pang Fei personally went to pick up Xiao Lingzi from school, but Xiao Lingzi was still very afraid of her and didn't talk much along the way.
Back on Niutou Mountain, she also sat alone on the sofa, not playing or talking.
Nan Nan took the initiative to find it, and she was still like that, always feeling timid, as if she was out of place with this family.
Obviously, she has actually lived here for many years, and she is also a member of this family.
An Yao tried to make her let go of the mustard and fear in her heart, and slowly feel the warmth of this home, "Xiao Lingzi, do you want to try picking vegetables with us?"
Xiao Lingzi put the head medicine like a rattle, expressing his refusal.
An Yao walked over, took her hand, and said with a smile, "Let's try it, anyway, you have nothing to do while sitting here, so it's better to try it with us." ”
As he spoke, he pulled Xiao Lingzi to their side.
Nan Nan took her favorite little stool and handed it to Xiao Lingzi, "Sister, you do this, you see how cute this husky is, this is my favorite little stool, I will give her to you now." ”
"You see, she has given you her favorite little stool, so don't hesitate to sit down. ”
Under An Yao's several persuasions, Xiao Lingzi finally sat down reluctantly.
However, when she picked vegetables, she was already very restrained, and she couldn't pick a single one for a long time.
An Yao was not in a hurry, and let her take it off slowly.
On the contrary, it was Nannan, seeing that Xiao Lingzi was slow, she actually acted as a little teacher and taught Xiao Lingzi how to pick vegetables.
"Sister, you see, it's like this, you can pick all the yellow leaves, and then remove the roots and these places, and just leave these fat and tender green leaves. ”
"Awesome!" An Yao couldn't help but praise.
Xiao Lingzi glanced at Nannan, lowered his head, and continued to pick vegetables silently.
Although she didn't say anything, this time, she was obviously much more relaxed than before, and she was slowly integrating into this army of vegetable pickers.
Gradually, Xiao Lingzi also picked a lot.
Seeing that this trick worked, An Yao deliberately handed over the figure of washing vegetables to Nan Nan and Xiao Lingzi.
There is a little spirit ghost with a little spirit child, but it is much stronger than An Yao and Pang Fei who say too many words.
Sure enough, there is no barrier between children and children, and between adults and children, there seems to be a gap that cannot be crossed.
An Yao secretly threw her arms against Pang Fei and motioned him to look over there, "You see, Xiao Lingzi, driven by Nannan, is no longer simply sitting still. She's slowly blending into our lives, which is a good sign. ”
Pang Fei smiled and said, "It's still you who can do it." ”
An Yao said, "This is not my credit, this is all a girl's, the two of us combined, we are not as good as a little girl." But then again, Nan Nan is a little girl in the end, and she doesn't have so much thought, maybe Xiao Lingzi will feel that it will be easier to get along with her. ”
"The two of us always worry too much, either we just talk to her about some big truths, or whether she can listen to it or not, in fact, we all neglect to consider the problem from the perspective of Xiao Lingzi. She may not be as complicated as we think, nor do we think so much, but she is simply used to relying on Lele and can't do without Lele. In the end, this is also an oversight on our part, and if we had discovered this problem earlier and paid attention to it, it wouldn't be like this now. ”
Therefore, we must not only blame Xiao Lingzi for being ignorant, but also reflect on our own negligence. Xiao Lingzi's matter is a lesson from the past, whether it is for Nan Nan or Lele, including the little guy in my belly who has not yet been born, we must give a little more care, and we can't be so arrogant anymore. ”
Pang Fei nodded heavily, "Okay, whatever you say is what you say, I will listen to you in the future." ”
"Puff......" An Yao was amused by his funny appearance.
On the other side, Nan Nan suddenly kicked up excitedly, "Yes, yes, that's it, sister, you're too powerful." ”