The three of them went back to Baishui Prefecture after eating, and when they sent Huang Yiming downstairs to his house, Huang Yiming invited the two of them to go in and sit down, but Huang Yixi refused.

I wanted to say something, but when I saw Huang Yiming's sad drunkenness, I swallowed it again.

Let's wait until everyone is sober.

Early the next morning, Huang Yixi and Shang Luoyu went to their father's grave first.

To say that time is really fast, Huang Yixi came alone last year, and there are two people this year.

The cemetery didn't need to be cleaned much, but Huang Yixi still cleaned up the grass on the grave, added a few handfuls of soil, dipped a clean and unused towel in mineral water, and wiped the tombstone and tomb before placing the offerings.

Shang Luoyu tore off the old red paper of Lin Shufang's name next to him, and pasted the new red paper, in previous years, Huang Yixi didn't dare to set off firecrackers when he was alone, so he didn't buy them, this year Shang Luoyu bought a long firecracker, and put it lively.

Paper money flies like butterflies, but there is no path to communicate yin and yang.

Before leaving, the two of them knelt down again to say goodbye, and when they went down the mountain, Shang Luoyu pointed to a luxurious tomb over there, "Over there is Xie Yongchen's tomb, which Lin Shufang bought." ”

Not long after Xie Yongchen passed away, Ji Danhong left with the money, and he didn't know where to go.

Li Shaomushroom was busy with the company's listing all day long, but the progress was not fast.

Only Lin Shufang is very comfortable, I heard that not long ago I found an unmarried boyfriend who had just graduated, and drove a sports car all day long to travel around with the little man, and the man was considerate and even helped her collect the rent.

When he went to Chongrenli, Huang Yixi looked at the greenhouse built at the head of the village, a little strange, it was only a few days, which old man left again, look at this posture, it seems that there is still no outside.

According to the custom of Baishui Prefecture, the deceased who died outside cannot enter the house, but can only build a tent outside.

The car was stuck in a traffic jam on the village road, less than 200 meters away from home.

Huang Yixi was a little annoyed, and when he saw Huang Xiangdong coming, he opened the car window and called him over.

Huang Xiangdong stayed here because of Huang Zhixin's orders, and when he saw Huang Yixi and Shang Luoyu, he signaled to open the car door and let him in.

"Who passed away again?" Huang Yixi turned his head to look at Huang Xiangdong who was sitting in the back seat.

"It's Grandma Qing. ”

Huang Xiangdong asked a little strangely, "Didn't you know when you left that day? Grandma Qing passed away." ”

"That's not right, isn't Grandma Qing buried a long time ago?"

The customs in Chongrenli are different from other places in Baishui Prefecture, such as Anmin County, where the deceased are counted according to their generation, and they generally have to keep the spirit for seven days, while others have to count the days, throw the Holy Grail, and may stop for fifteen days.

Huang Yixi didn't experience that kind of time, but when he thought about it, he also knew that in the hot summer, if he stopped for fifteen days, he was afraid that it would be terrible torture for his relatives.

And Chongrenli is more humane, five generations of fathers and five generations of mothers and above, at most three days of death, Aunt Qing passed away until now, it should have been five or six days.

And Huang Yixi remembered that Aunt Qing stopped at that time, but in their house, she did not move outside to build a shed.

What's going on?

"I was going to go up the mountain, but when I put it in the coffin, Grandma Qing's maiden family came, saying that she heard about Uncle Xiao Tian and thought that their aunt had died strangely, so she stopped and didn't let the coffin lid be closed. ”

Life is short for decades. All the glory and sorrow of life and death can be summed up in three rings.

The first cry at birth, the joy when you get married, and the joy when you die.

Therefore, people attach great importance to this wedding, funeral, birth, old age, sickness and death.

The woman's maiden nephew, commonly known as the "Three Axes". The origin of its name is that after a woman dies, the three nails on the coffin must be wedged up by her nephew with an axe.

Now there are no three nails in the coffin lid, but the mother's family still has a role, and the coffin lid is not allowed to be closed without the consent of the mother's family.

This is the girl's version of the coffin.

Aunt Qing passed away suddenly, her children didn't know if they were stupid or didn't remember, and they didn't notify her mother's family as soon as possible, and the people who came to help were a little strange, asking her children and grandchildren, saying that they didn't have anything to do with their parents' family.

As a result, when she was about to enter the coffin on the morning of the third day, a large group of her mother's family suddenly appeared and said that they wanted to check it.

The customs have been like this since ancient times, and Aunt Qing's family has no choice but to get out of the way.

"Is there really something weird?"

Huang Yixi was taken aback, there was already a poisonous woman Chen Shiqin, and if there was one more homicide, the young man in Chongren would not want to marry a wife.

"Yes or no, the cause of Aunt Qing's death was malnutrition. ”

Huang Xiangdong was a little twisted, and secretly glanced at Shang Luoyu, this uncle is not from this village, what should I do if I misunderstand.

"What's going on then?" Huang Yixi didn't feel anything, and kept asking.

This thing is normal and not normal, Aunt Qing is not a sudden death, ten days before she died in the morning, Aunt Qing found that people were uncomfortable, she couldn't eat, she couldn't even swallow water for a few days, and no one at home paid attention to her, so she went to find Huang Xiaotian.

Huang Xiaotian took a look, and Aunt Qing had something in her throat, so he told her family and asked them to take her to the hospital for surgery.

Aunt Qing's husband died early, she has three sons, five grandchildren, and her three sons don't like to study, and the wife she married is also indescribable, and it is not good for Aunt Qing.

The son took it for a check-up, and the hospital gave a biopsy, saying that it was malignant, but it could be delayed for a while after the operation, and I heard that a large amount of money had to be paid for the operation, and it could not be completely cured, and the three daughters-in-law refused to take the money out and took it home directly.

When he came back, no one cared, so he starved to death.

Huang Yixi took a breath of cold air, "Isn't this the answer to that sentence, how much does the son starve to death the senior official (father-in-law), and how much does the daughter-in-law starve to death to everyone (mother-in-law)?"

"Who says it's not. ”

Huang Xiangdong also couldn't get used to the family, "You said that this family is really not a thing, it is said that they have not given a drop of water for seven days, and they have not ignored Aunt Qing's pleas, just such a big family, and they can see their grandmother starving to death." ”

The more Huang Xiangdong said, the more disgusted he became, "That family is really not a thing, Grandma Qing didn't cry when she died, and publicly said that they were just unfilial, if it weren't for Grandma Qing's mother's family coming later, they would have burned Aunt Qing with peace of mind." ”

"And now?"

"Now dozens of Grandma Qing's mother's family members stay here, not allowed to be buried, and smash all their pots. ”

"Didn't you report the case?" Shang Luoyu felt a little strange.

"I reported it, but Grandma Qing's son took out the medical record report from the hospital, which also said that it was an advanced spread of malignancy, and it would not take too long to operate, so the police couldn't do anything. ”

Aunt Qing's three sons built three houses, and each of them still had foreign debts, which was incurable, and it was not out of the ordinary in the countryside.

If it weren't for the fact that she was as thin as an owl when she died, her mother's family would not have felt strange, generally speaking, only people who have been sick for a long time will be so thin, and through some means, Aunt Qing's granddaughter only knew the inside story after telling the truth.

There are fewer cases of giving up treatment without money in the city, but it is not uncommon in the countryside, and her mother's family is mainly indignant when they know that Aunt Qing does not want to die, and begging their children and grandchildren to send her to the hospital and no one pays attention to her.

It is better to die or to live, it has been a difficult problem since ancient times.

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