"Hello, what happened to you after you went back last time?" Qin Yan said very gently to Gu Siran, who came to Gu Siran again: "I remember that the last time you came to me was because you fell out of love. Did you come to me for something this time?"

"Doctor Qin, I'm here today because I'm still very confused. Gu Siran said.

"So, can you tell me where your confusion is, or what has happened to you in the last month?" Qin Yan asked.

"Dr. Qin, it's like this, a lot has happened to me this month. Gu Siran began to tell about the events that had happened to her during the month. Qin Yan frowned as he listened to her, as if he was thinking about something.

This month is a very complicated 30-odd day for Gu Siran. In these thirty days, she has experienced a lot. "Doctor Qin, after you enlightened me last time, I finally know who the person who loves me the most is, he has always been there for me and appeared when I needed it most. I'm really stupid, such a good boy, why haven't I found out before?" Gu Siran said to Qin Yan with emotion.

"Ms. Gu Siran, I want to ask you a question, you have to think seriously before answering me: do you like him or not, or in other words, do you love him?" Qin Yan asked very seriously.

"Doctor Qin, if there is such a boy, he doesn't care that I used to be indifferent to him, I don't care that I once hurt him, I don't care that I have paid a lot for others and turned a blind eye to him, or even that I have slept with others. So that he can always stick to me, guard me, and wait for me, such a boy to tell the truth, I don't even feel worthy of him. Gu Siran replied.

"You have to remember one thing, I must correct you a mistake, there is nothing worthy of love, everyone is equal in front of love. A billionaire may fall in love with a dust girl, and a poor dick may end up with a goddess. None of this is exact. In many cases, Chinese, not only Chinese, often think about a right problem in the face of love and marriage, which is actually a kind of conservative thinking, I actually really don't agree with this kind of thinking. Marriage and love are inherently free, and if you love someone but you are not even prepared to go through the storm with him, is this still called love? Therefore, don't confuse yourself with the words of unworthy and unworthy of him, there is no such thing in front of love, in front of love, all beings are equal. Qin Yan said very seriously, what he was thinking at the moment was: If you really pursue the right person, how many people in this world will miss their true love!

"Doctor Qin, I know that this matter is not something that bothers me, there are other things that are bothering me, and the thing that makes me feel confused is another thing. My ex came to me again, he said he was wrong, he wanted to ask for my forgiveness, he wanted to come back to me, and I was very confused because of this. Gu Siran said, but when he said it, he obviously hesitated, and he wanted to stop talking.

"I want to know something, and I want you to tell me the answer directly. Qin Yan asked, "What kind of emotion do you have for your ex? Is it love or hate? Have you not forgotten that ex?"

"yes, I still haven't been able to let go of him. Gu Siran said.

"Ms. Gu Siran, I think you still haven't been able to fully believe me, and you still have something to hide from me, so how can I enlighten you? Qin Yan said helplessly: "Then let me guess, you gave your very valuable things to your ex, and the fact that you can't let go of your ex now has something to do with it." ”

"Doctor, yes, I lost one of the most precious things in him. At this point, Gu Siran couldn't say any more and began to shed tears. Needless to say, Qin Yan also roughly guessed - for a girl, something that can not be let go of is likely to be her first time. This makes them unconsciously consider themselves inferior when faced with someone who truly loves them. At the same time, they don't want to say to their current boyfriend that they are either embarrassed or worried about losing the one they love. Often when their current incumbents get closer and closer to their secret, or when the ex comes back to show them back, they tend to fall into a period of confusion. This period of confusion often leads them to make a choice that they regret, and they can be very painful in the process, in a state of dilemma, and extremely stressful.

Qin Yan had been in contact with too many cases like this, and he knew how to deal with the other party who thought like this, Qin Yan said, "Then, why don't you tell your current boyfriend?"

"I'm worried。。。。。。 Gu Siran wanted to speak and stopped.

"Ms. Gu Siran, are you worried that if your current boyfriend finds out about this matter, he will leave you and break up with you, right? Do you feel indebted to him?" Qin Yan looked at Gu Siran, who wanted to speak and stopped, and said a word. Gu Siran didn't speak, just nodded. After making sure that his conjecture was correct, Qin Yan said, "Ms. Gu Siran, you are just overly worried now, do you think your boyfriend who is still alive will not know about your past? As far as I know, he seems to know everything." ”

Gu Siran asked with a stunned expression, "How do you know, Doctor Qin?"

Qin Yan smiled: "I remember that I saw him once, it was when you came, I saw it through the surveillance video, you look here." As he spoke, Qin Yan turned on the playback of the surveillance video, pushed the screen in front of Gu Siran, smiled and said, "Do you know why I installed a 4K high-definition camera in front of my clinic? Saying that, Qin Yan paused the surveillance video, pointed to the influence of Gu Siran's boyfriend and said, "Look, although his expression is smiling at you here, there are many complex emotions behind it. You see, his smile is a little stiff, his facial muscles are a little stiff but not particularly stiff. This stiffness is not due to the excessive emotional contrast in his heart, this expression is due to his own expression that can only be manifested under the disguise of kindness that he pretends not to understand. To put it bluntly, I guess he already knows about your past, but he was worried that you would feel bad if you told you, so he kept holding back from telling you. You, don't think too much of your boyfriend. He's a cop, isn't he?"

"How did you know he was a police officer?" asked Gu Siran puzzled.

"Look at his waist, that belt is a police standard, used for gun bags. Qin Yan said: "It's easy to see. Ms. Gu Siran, your current boyfriend is really a warm man, much better than the ex who took away your first time. Look at it this way, he has already betrayed you, why should you miss it? He can betray you once, and there will be a second time. In the end, won't you only regret it?" Qin Yan said very devotedly, gesturing while saying.

"So Dr. Qin, do you mean that my boyfriend is the most important?" Gu Siran asked.

"Ms. Gu Siran, your ex is already in the past tense, and he is in your present tense, what you need is the present tense, the past is the past after all, you can't change it, and no one can change it. Your ex broke your heart, do you think he can still heal your scars? The wounds were left by him, and you are with him, and going back to the past tense is just a repetition of the past tense. The nature of the country is easy to change, and such a person can green you once and will eventually green you a second time, so look forward and say goodbye to your past. Finally, I would like to say that your current boyfriend is ready to accept everything from you when he chooses to love you. Qin Yan said earnestly.

"Thank you, Dr. Qin. Gu Siran took a deep breath and said as relieved. She bowed to Qin Yan, and Qin Yan also bowed slightly in return.

Looking at Gu Siran, who hugged her boyfriend when she walked out the door, Qin Yan said to himself: "How could it be so important in the past, really, I can't think of anything!? Getting together is fate, coming together is parting, fate is fate, isn't it love? Qin Yan picked up his coffee, took a sip, looked at the traffic outside the window around him, and smiled。。。。。。