Yuan Kaiman didn't care and said, "Everyone has to learn some lessons to grow themselves." If you don't go through that wrong choice, how will you know what choice you should make to be the right one, and how will you understand your true heart?"

"Don't you think I'm stupid and a failure?" Su Xiaoying looked up at Yuan Kai.

Yuan Kai said disapprerovingly: "What failure is not failure, the relationship between men and women is the result of mutual choice, you chose the wrong person because you don't know what is the most suitable choice for you, and there is nothing wrong with that man, because you are not the person he should choose." ”

Su Xiaoying frowned unconsciously when she heard Yuan Kai mention the man who made her feel humiliated when she mentioned it.

Hara Kai shrugged, "There's really nothing wrong with him......"

Because of that man, Le Shi often stared at him and the desert in a weird way, sighed, talked to himself, and deliberately said it to them, saying that modern men, nine out of ten men are bad, and one is left to be weird, the world is no more, and the world is as black as a crow...... And so on and so forth.

Yuan Kai suddenly remembered Le Shi's funny expression at that time, lowered his head and couldn't help but laugh.

Su Xiaoying looked at Yuan Kai suspiciously.

Don't listen to what you say, some studies say that love is born in the brain rather than the heart, and love at first sight will produce dopamine, norepinephrine and serotonin, etc., so love should be a passionate response of the brain under reason. You and that man are fundamentally two different biological species. Have you ever seen a fly and a giraffe develop love?"

"The thought must be close to you, or what you desire, and what attracts you must be the look, the temperament, or the talent, because the mere appearance is only stunning and not love at first sight. It's not said on the Internet that men's mountain alliances and sea oaths are all casually said, if you take it seriously, you will lose. Don't be deceived by your own imagination, believe in your heart and see with your heart!"

"In his world, love is just a fairy tale, and you can't even see the most basic love for you from this man, so hurry up and die, don't lie to yourself. Just like that man, my mother said, if you want to know what a man does to you, you can't listen with your ears, but you have to see with your eyes, and you have to see with your heart. His actions have already told you that he doesn't love you at all, and that a thousand sweet words from you are not as practical as giving him a thousand dollars. ”

"Listening to you say so much, I feel that man doesn't understand love at all, doesn't need love, doesn't have any concept of love at all, he just needs a partner, and that man obviously lives on two planets with you. It's not about his background, but his worldview, values, and yours are not on the same channel at all. "A great woman who can share his life with him. Even if different species can fall in love, the premise is to get along in the same world, cherish each other, and then fall in love for a long time, right?"

"So, if you can meet someone you fall in love with at first sight one day and you don't want to miss it, then you try to enter his world and see if his world is compatible with yours. "Just like my parents, listening to my mother, my father never said 'I love you' to her, but even the blind can see that my father really loves my mother. ”

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