Chapter 120, Burning Youth (7)
On the sixth day of the holiday, the parents did not make trouble at school, and they came to the school and the public security bureau every day to learn more about the case, but unfortunately they were still full of expectations and came back full of disappointment.
What calmed them down was that they had put down all their work and focused on their children, and in Class 9, the parents were gathered again, the principal was still sitting on the podium and not smiling, and the parents were in a state of distraction.
In the past few days, they have scolded and scolded, hated and hated, and they have done it, but they can't get their children back, and the news they got from the Public Security Bureau is that their children will come back in seven or eight days, so they are so calm now, and today is the sixth day.
Counting the seven days of the National Day, plus the time the children are in school, they have not seen their children for nearly a month, and the loss in their hearts can be imagined.
Sometimes they can't wait to go into the public security bureau and break that Teacher Cang into pieces, but sometimes they suddenly don't hate this Teacher Cang anymore, it is conceivable that if it weren't for the National Day holiday, they would not have any worries if they put their children in school for a month or two.
Because they were relieved, and now as soon as they learned that they had skipped class, they couldn't help but worry, but they didn't reflect much.
"Pity the hearts of parents all over the world, children are your hearts, I know you are anxious, but I am also anxious, in fact, at the beginning, Mr. Cang told me about his plan, but what I didn't expect was that he didn't come back at the scheduled time. The headmaster spoke suddenly.
This sentence did not cause an uproar among parents, some of whom had already guessed something these days, but when they actually learned about it, they still talked about it.
"The principal also has a daughter, how would you feel if your daughter was taken by the teacher to skip class during the college entrance examination?" said Su's mother.
Hearing this, the principal looked at Sun Liping who was standing aside, the father and daughter looked at each other, the principal's eyes were full of self-blame and guilt, and Sun Liping thought of her rebellious era, when she hated her father very much in her heart, almost a problem girl, she had done this kind of thing more than once.
In fact, she skipped class not for fun, but to get her father's attention, hoping that his father would care about her, which was her original purpose.
Thinking that Canglong took the students to skip class, and it was still a pilot class for the third grade of high school, this would naturally cause anxiety among parents, and she seemed to understand what Canglong's intentions were, and it seemed that she had been wrong about Canglong these days, but although she understood Canglong's intentions, she didn't understand what his purpose was.
"If it were me before, I would have been worried, but it is useless to worry, you all hate Teacher Cang, he took away all your children in this result, delayed their classes, and it is likely to affect your future studies, but have you ever thought about yourself?" the principal suddenly spoke.
This lesson is for parents, which is also part of Canglong's burning youth plan, and only the words of the principal can be listened to by these parents.
"We?" the parents looked at each other, "what's wrong with us? Are we wrong to put our children in school just for the sake of studying, so that they can get ahead in the future and suffer less? ”
A group of parents were noisy and did not agree with the principal's point of view.
The principal raised his hand to signal them to be quiet, and then said, "Are you really not wrong? I remember that when Teacher Cang once held a parent-teacher conference for you, he told you that parents are the best teachers for their children, and when you give birth to them, you have the responsibility to educate them, you are their closest people, and you are also the person who can inspire them the most, but have you fulfilled this responsibility?"
After he finished speaking, he looked at the parents, and after hearing this, the parents all looked at each other, and after a while, the parents said: "We are busy, isn't there no way, otherwise how can we put our children in school to study? Principal, you are shirking your responsibility." ”
"Yes, you're shirking your responsibilities!" some parents stubbornly said.
"Shirk responsibility?" the principal shook his head with a wry smile, "If you think so, then I don't want to convince you, I just want to ask you a question, keep saying that it is for the sake of the children, but have you ever respected their choice?
".....Parents, you look at me, I look at you, I don't understand what the principal means, and I think these words should not come from the principal's mouth."
"You put the change in the fate of the family, and the things that you have not been able to do, on your children, but you don't know that this kind of sustenance is the greatest suffering for them, and it is also called pressure to be motivated. The headmaster's expression was solemn.
"Principal Sun, we don't agree with what you say, we hope that our child will have a good future, what's wrong? We hope that he can be admitted to a good university, and we hope that he can get a good job in the future, so that he will not be ridiculed coldly, why is this wrong? Why do you put all the responsibility on us?" Ye Qiu's mother stood up and said.
"That is, what the principal said is indeed a bit excessive, the person who caused today's situation is that Teacher Cang, and the principal you blindly indulge. The resentment in the hearts of the parents has also come out.
"Bang" The principal picked up the ruler and knocked on the table, suddenly stood up, the solemnity on his face frightened everyone, and his bright eyes swept coldly over all the parents, and finally guessed: "Do you think the school is your nursery? ”
The parents were all squeezed by the headmaster's angry words.
"Think about it for yourself, which of you parents doesn't treat the school as a nursery for adults?" the principal asked, looking at them.
Parents don't talk one by one, sometimes they are too busy with work, and they are indeed a little annoyed with their children, wishing they were not at home for a day, but they are worried that they will go out to study badly, so the school is the best place to go, and it seems to be the most appropriate to describe it as an adult nursery.
"Let me tell you what's good?" said the headmaster, sitting down again, calming his anger for a moment, The importance of family education, is not only to establish a correct values for children, you should give them the warmth they need, today's children, some from junior high school to boarding, at home, not in school for a long time, high school to college, at home time is even shorter, when one day they enter the society, away from you will only get farther and farther away, many parents say that the current children are not filial, but I think the reason for their disobedience is caused by you parents, because when they grow up, you alienate them, should get the warmth of the family, but you leave them in the school, as a nurseryWill they be able to be filial to you in the future?"
After speaking, the principal looked at the parents, and some parents whispered: "Our children will not be like this." ”
"Your children won't be like this?" the principal suddenly laughed, "Hehe, people often hold this kind of luck and expectation, and when it really comes to you, they regret it, China is a country that has paid attention to family affection and filial piety since ancient times, but in today's society, there are still few incidents of children killing their mothers? Isn't this enough to give you a wake-up call? Before the children grow up, they can ride on the heads of their parents and slap their parents, which is not enough for us to reflect on as parents?"
"Now you give them cold substances, and in the future, they may return to you piles of cold substances, and they will not be with you, because they did not feel the warmth of the family when they grew up, so how can they give back the warmth to you?"
Almost all the parents lowered their heads, and for a while they thought of the lesson that Teacher Cang gave them at the original parent-teacher conference, although they listened to it at the time, but then forgot about it, because Teacher Cang was too young, and the words he said were not enough to convince them, but the principal's words were enough to convince them.
Especially some things that happen in today's society, it makes them feel the horror of their children's future, parents are ridden on the head by their children, parents do not buy something for their children, they are slapped by their children, and even some parents are stabbed to death by their children with knives because of a few words of persuasion to their children.
This rarely happened before, but why is it happening now? because parents give their children so little love and too much material to them.
Even if some children are not so vicious, but in the future when they grow up, most of them are reluctant to live with their parents, and the children grow up thinking that giving their parents money is giving them the best return, because this is the expectation of their parents.
In fact, when parents are old, what they want is for their children to be by their side more and experience the warmth of the family.
However, this hope often turns into extravagant hope, and it is despair until death, because when the child grows up.
"How many successful people in today's society have lamented a sentence, the son wants to raise but the parent is not there, at the moment when their parents leave, they realize what should have been experienced in their youth, only to think of their parents when they were good to them when they were young, but it is too late, but that is only limited to the good to them when they were young, in their youth memory, there is almost no parental warmth, and how do they recall?" The principal's last sentence was softened.
looked at Sun Liping who was standing on the side with guilt, but Sun Liping lowered her head and cried alone.
She never thought that her stubborn father would say such a thing......