Chapter 58: Persuasion
"Meimei, why do you think I'm good?" asked Wang Guizhi.
Wang Guizhi really has no experience in feelings. Her marriage in her last life was arranged, and she didn't have any emotional foundation with Li Yongchang, and it was later that she fell in love with Li Yongchang, so to speak, she had no idea at all about how to chase boys and how to make boys like herself.
"Oh," Lin Yanmei's eyes were a little narrow, she stood on tiptoe, pointed at Li Yongchang outside the window and said, "You don't like a person, right?" ”
"Hey, how do you know?" Wang Guizhi didn't expect Lin Yanmei to point out Li Yongchang directly.
"What is our relationship, can you hide your affairs from me?" Lin Yanmei smiled and said the reason for her guess, "I just watched you staring at that man for a long time, and you don't know how gentle your eyes are." ”
It turned out that Lin Yanmei had already seen that Wang Guizhi had thoughts about the man downstairs, that is, Li Yongchang, so she helped her pay attention to it very early. Lin Yanmei originally thought that Wang Guizhi just fell in love with this strange man, and she wanted to encourage Wang Guizhi to talk to her, but she didn't expect Wang Guizhi to say that she liked a man.
"Didn't you say you didn't know what to do, then think about it, what can they do in their house? Lin Yanmei sincerely suggested.
Hearing Lin Yanmei say this, Wang Guizhi couldn't help but think of the events of her previous life.
In fact, when Cheng Xiufen was young, her mother-in-law was also very bad to herself. Originally, when she was the daughter of the landlord, Li Zicheng's parents were very envious of the landlord, and they talked about how good the landlord was every day, and they felt that their life was not good. This envy has deteriorated over time and turned into jealousy. Later, after the status of the peasants began to improve, the landlords became the target of public criticism, and everyone shouted and beat them, and Li Zicheng's mother was one of them.
In order not to let herself continue to be criticized, Cheng Xiufen had no choice but to choose a farmer to marry, so that there would be a lot fewer people who made irresponsible remarks. Unexpectedly, Li Zicheng volunteered to marry her in a group of silent people. And his mother never expected that her honest son would marry such a woman. The more unbalanced she became, the more she tortured Cheng Xiufen.
Cheng Xiufen used to be taken care of by Li Zicheng's father, and he often stopped his daughter-in-law from letting her do it. But then Li Yongchang's grandfather died, and no one could protect her, and Li Zicheng went out early and returned late, so Cheng Xiufen's life became more difficult.
Later, after Wang Guizhi married Li Yongchang, he followed him in the army for several years. Every time Wang Guizhi went home, she saw Cheng Xiufen getting thinner and thinner every time, her face was sallow, not at all like a person of her age, extremely old.
Wang Guizhi only understood at this time why Cheng Xiufen had been unable to look down on herself in her previous life, not only because of the high bride price, but also because when she needed help, no one came to help her. And she thought that Wang Guizhi could help her deal with that mother-in-law together, but she didn't expect her daughter-in-law to go out with her son for a long time.
So even if her mother-in-law died later, Cheng Xiufen's attitude towards Wang Guizhi did not improve in the slightest, but she didn't want to see her anymore. The reason why she tortured Wang Guizhi was because she wanted to repay the torture and pain she had received from her mother-in-law over the years and vent them one by one.
No one can help the helpless self, and how painful it must be for a person.
Cheng Xiufen didn't have Li Zicheng to help her, and Wang Guizhi was most fortunate that she met Li Yongchang.
Thinking of this, Wang Guizhi described the situation of Li Yongchang's family to Lin Yanmei again: "His family's family conditions are very good, and it should be similar to your family." However, his mother is more picky, saying that she is more satisfied with me, but she doesn't know when she will change her hexagram. ”
Lin Yanmei knew that Li Yongchang's family was demanding, she frowned and asked, "Gui Zhi, are you sure you like him, why don't you marry him?"
After listening to Lin Yanmei's question, Wang Guizhi nodded solemnly and said, "Yes, it must be him." ”
If no one else can do it, it must be Li Yongchang. He is a person recognized by Wang Guizhi.
Lin Yanmei sighed and said, "I still think you should think it through, although you are very clever and very likable to others, but if your mother-in-law treats you badly, you will still suffer." ”
Although Lin Yanmei has a happy family, she has a neighbor, that is, her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have a bad relationship, and they quarrel for three days. Later, the daughter-in-law was tortured by the mother-in-law so much that she couldn't stand it, so she went to the agricultural market to buy a pesticide and drank it with her own daughter and committed suicide. Later, the family moved away, and before leaving, the man was still crying.
Although Lin Yanmei was young at that time and didn't understand what it meant, but now that she has grown up, she still has palpitations when she remembers the sound of children crying, the sound of throwing dishes and chopsticks and the sound of beating and scolding from time to time next door when she was a child.
The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law often determines the future of a family.
"Gui Zhi, you have to think about it," Lin Yanmei finally persuaded, "You must think clearly, if your mother-in-law is not satisfied with you, she will torture you before she dies, and you have to endure it for a long time." As your best friend, I naturally want you to be happy, instead of suffering from the pain of marriage for so many years. ”
Wang Guizhi nodded.
Lin Yanmei saw Wang Guizhi's determined appearance, and knew that she couldn't change her mind. She sighed and decided to give Wang Guizhi some ideas.
Since you can't change your friend's mind, let's find a way to make her life better.
"First of all, men are visual animals, like good-looking girls, you must dress up differently," Lin Yanmei put on a little teacher's appearance and carefully taught Wang Guizhi as a student, but the teaching content is a bit unbelievable, she is teaching Wang Guizhi how to make men, "Secondly, you must first let his family accommodate you and accept you." Judging by your description, the man you like must be very filial, so you have to get their support. ”
Lin Yanmei tried to pay attention to Wang Guizhi.
-The two of them were talking, Chai Jiaojiao also came over, she saw the two of them chatting, and she didn't pay attention to the cookies under her hand at all, sighed, and flicked the little brain melon on everyone's head: "Besides, the cookies are going to burn!"
The two men then came out of the conversation, took out the baked cookies, and stuck out their tongues mischievously.
After learning English, Wang Guizhi saw that Lin Yanmei had taught herself confidently just now, and felt that she must have been in love, and asked gossipingly: "Meimei, have you ever been in love?" ”
"No," Lin Yanmei looked dazed, "Why are you asking this?"
"That's it," Wang Guizhi's face was a little lost, she thought she could hear Lin Yanmei's love history, "I see the way you just taught me, you understand boys so well, and I thought you had been in love." ”
"Oh, you misunderstood me!" Lin Yanmei waved her hand and said, "I was like a tomboy when I was a child, but the little girls in the neighborhood thought I was a boy and confessed to me." That's why I understand boys so well. ”
After speaking, Lin Yanmei wanted to dress up Wang Guizhi.
After dressing up, Wang Guizhi took the coffee beans and cookies that Lin Yanmei gave her and knocked on the door of the Li family.