Yang Xinyue used to hear her mother often say: When a woman marries, she is from another family.

She used to be disgusted by this sentence.

Later, she heard a lot of words, such as "When a woman marries, she will be a guest when she returns to her parents' home", and "after her parents go, the daughter who marries will have no mother's family......

And so on.

Yang Xinyue is not very empathetic.

But she gradually understood.

Like her aunt.

If you get married, you can go back to your parents' home at most once a year, and return to a province.

It's just that I came back the same day and left on the same day.

Her grandmother is still there, and she still has her mother's house back.

Her grandmother is gone, and she probably won't come back if she has nothing to do.

Yang Xinyue's generation is okay, and she is intimate with her aunt, but what she prepares at home is just called a "guest room".

Her aunt left the same day, and she didn't even live in the guest room.

In the future, when Yang Xinyue's niece is born, how much intimacy can she have with her "aunt"?

It's just a familiar or not-so-familiar relative.

When a woman marries, maybe her mother's family is really not home.

Yang Xinyue's sister came back before, and if she saw that someone else had lived in her room, and there were other things piled up in the room, she would always get angry.

But Yang Xinyue doesn't care much about these.

Their family is now in good condition, with two floors and seven or eight rooms, and they can live casually.

If it's a former home, where is the room and who's it?

are not enough to live.

If you get married, don't worry about your mother's affairs, and your brother-in-law can arrange it as she wants.

Nor does it live at home.

So where is a woman's home?

When she meets a good in-law, a woman has a home. But what if the in-laws and husbands are not good?

Therefore, women are born with no sense of belonging, no sense of security, and it may not be that they are delicate.

The second day of junior high school is the day of welcoming sons-in-law, and both new sons-in-law and old sons-in-law follow their married daughters back to their parents' homes.

Yang Xinyue's family came back to her aunt's family this year, and her sister didn't come back until the end of the New Year, at most she came home for a Lantern Festival.

But her grandmother's house, several cousins and cousins, two aunts, and cousins and cousins of her aunt's family all brought their sons-in-law to her uncle's house to pay their respects.

Yang Xinyue also had a lively time in the past.

In the past, Yang Xinyue's grandparents had six children and more than a dozen grandchildren, and the family was lively and noisy, but now they have a family with each other, and there is a younger generation, and there are more people in the family.

Her three uncles had to hold a dinner together every year.

And on this day, when a new son-in-law came to the door in the village, he also brought it out and walked around.

I got to know each other again.

Yang Xinyue was inevitably caught and asked when she would solve her personal affairs.

Yang Xinyue couldn't hide, so she said that her mother's food hadn't finished yet, and she was reluctant to go to someone else's house.

Everyone caught her and made fun of her.

said that she had eaten her mother's food for so many years, so let's go to someone else's house quickly.

She had to giggle.

Since the third year of junior high school, Yang Xinyue's family has had relatives and friends come to pay their respects one after another.

Yang Xinyue almost woke up for breakfast every day, and was about to prepare the noon hospitality meal.

Every day in the kitchen, there are endless meals to cook and dishes to wash......

Other people's young people are happy and happy, wandering around, why can't she get out of the kitchen?

She also wants to run where to pay New Year's greetings.

But as soon as she leaves, all the work at home will be left to her mother.

She felt sorry for her mother again.

At the end of the year, she is busy, and she can only rest for two days during the New Year, and she can't bear to watch her work hard.

So it's not good to run around, and I pushed a lot of appointments.

Peace of mind in the kitchen at home.

It's just that on the sixth day of the Lunar New Year, I ran out and participated in a middle school reunion.

Class reunions every year, but they always can't get together.

At most, more than 30 people came over a year. The students who usually get together are the students who usually play well and talk about the teens and twenties.

There were more than 70 people in their class at that time.

After graduating, they went their separate ways.

It is difficult to get together again, people are scattered, and hearts are scattered.

It's just that these classmates who come to the party every year are good, and those in small counties, although they mix well after graduating from college, may be simple people in small places, and there is nothing to show off their wealth when they get together.

Yang Xinyue has made friends over the years because of various relationships and reasons, and she feels that the friendship between these classmates in middle school is the purest.

Everyone has no utilitarian intentions, the three views of the channel are basically the same, everyone helps together when there is difficulty, and there is not so much attention and politeness.

Therefore, every year during the Chinese New Year, everyone is willing to go from various towns and townships to the city to get together, meet each other, and talk about the situation of the year.

This year, I didn't make an appointment in the city, nor did I make an appointment with my alma mater, because a classmate had a housewarming banquet at home, so I went to her hometown to have a banquet together, and got together by the way, so there were more people than in previous years.

Everyone ate the village banquet together, enjoyed the natural scenery of the countryside, frequently clinked glasses, and shouted and fought for wine.

After eating and drinking, they sat together and made all kinds of jokes, chatting about work, life, their own one, and their own bear children.

"This year, the boss of our class is showing his affection for the marriage certificate in the circle of friends, Xin Yue, where are you worse than him?

Every year, everyone gets together to make fun of Yang Xinyue.

Yang Xinyue's group of middle school classmates, most of the children are in junior high school, and there are really few who are not married.

"She's in a big city, and she gets married and has babies later than us in a small place, how can she compare with us! In two years, we will have to eat the children's college banquet collectively, and she will definitely get married and hold a banquet!"

Everyone laughed again.

"Don't look down on Xin Yue so much, people don't have a partner, but I'm afraid that you will be jealous and red-eyed, just cover it and don't say it, I'm afraid you will rob it!"

"Tell me, is there a target or not?"

Several female classmates crowded to Yang Xinyue's side to trouble her.

Yang Xinyue was so troubled that she couldn't do it, and begged for mercy with a smile: "There is ......"

Everyone was instantly energized.

They all came around and asked her to be honest.

Yang Xinyue couldn't dodge, so she said with a smile: "There's nothing to explain, just a man, two eyes, a nose and a mouth, just like everyone." ”

That's it?

Where will everyone follow.

Several female classmates who were close to her came over to tickle her.

Yang Xinyue smiled and hid, but didn't dodge.

laughed uncontrollably, begging for mercy: "It's not that the eight characters haven't been written yet, and I'll report to you when it's all over." The Buddha said, "I can't say it, I can't cover it!" What if I open my mouth and run away!"

"There are so many of us, and we can still let him run!"

"Yes, that can't!"

"If you run away, we'll catch you back!"

Everyone laughed for a while, and then asked her, "Really not?"

Yang Xinyue said: "No, when his family officially comes to my house to meet his parents, I will report to you then." ”

"Okay, after the New Year, you can report the current situation to our classmates. We've been waiting for you for this meal for years. The alcohol addiction is almost gone. We have eaten a lot of 100 days of wine and eaten a year, and then we are really going to eat the children's college banquet, and there are children in the next class who get married early, and they are about to eat the wedding banquet of their classmates' children. ”

Yang Xinyue couldn't laugh: "Isn't it too exaggerated to eat children's wedding banquets!"

"Anyway, Xin Yue, if you drag it out like this any longer, it won't be a few years before we catch up with the children's wedding banquet. ”

Everyone laughed and talked about the interesting things about going to school back then, and felt nostalgic for the good times on campus......