"What you like is the power to dictate the fate of others. Chen Wenjin's expectations for Wang Shuai can't be as enthusiastic, of course he hopes that Ami's situation will be better, but he can't mention it.

If Wang Shuai noticed that he cared about Ami, then he would be more willing to toss something out.

"It's kind of interesting. I've read books that reduce the essence of family problems to a struggle for power. Wang Shuai pondered and said, "Am I actually like my father and like to hold power?"

For example, the desire to break free from the control of parents is the struggle for autonomy; the essence of people's desire to live freely without restraint is to obtain complete autonomy to break free from social rules; the essence of the dispute between father and son in adulthood is the struggle for dominance and control within the family; frequent criticism of current affairs is the desire to obtain the right to influence things, that is, the right to make incomplete decisions; the desire to explore the laws of things, and the pursuit of knowledge is the right to know the truth. Chen Wenjin chatted casually.

"Sounds self-justifying!" Wang Shuai thought it was a little interesting.

"Personally, I think that self-justification is the need for theory, but also the need for communication, because the characteristics of human thinking can only accept what can be justified by itself, and can only believe in what conforms to cognitive logic. However, the existence of objective reality does not exist for the sake of any theory, and it will not conform to the self-justification of theory. So I don't believe in one or a few theories, and I like to pick the core. For example, I think the theory of power-based distinction is more appropriate to apply to a class of people. ”

"Like me?" Wang Shuai felt that this was very clear.

"People with a strong sense of rights have a certain degree of applicability. Chen Wenjin is not aimed at Wang Shuai, and he doesn't think this has a positive or derogatory meaning.

"Then what are you looking for unfettered ambitions, and the right to know the law of things and the truth?" Wang Shuai pondered, these two points are very consistent with Chen Wenjin's behavioral characteristics.

"That's right, that's why you think I like to be a spectator. Sometimes you need to be in it moderately to see more clearly, and sometimes you need to be a spectator not to be involved in it to see clearly. ”

"What's the use of simply understanding?" Wang Shuai didn't understand the meaning of this pursuit.

"From a practical point of view, it's useless. Chen Wenjin was sure that Wang Shuai's confusion was fine, and added with a smile: "You can understand that this act itself is a kind of satisfaction in pursuit." ”

"Understood. So the Justice League thing, you are destined to see more and end less, and I don't expect to use your sympathy to make you positive. Ami's affairs are just as fate, it all depends on Rose's means, I'm not a saint who breaks off love, she can move me, I will start playing with her tonight, if not, Ami is lucky, and Rose can contain Leopard. Wang Shuai was in a very good mood and said with a smile: "It's really nice to have someone who can talk about anything, and it's no wonder that everyone likes to have good brothers and girlfriends." For Ah Bao, you are also a good brother who can say anything, right? That's why you keep taking care of him. ”

"It used to be, but now his mind has changed, I'm not sure. Rose and Li Xiang will undoubtedly have an impact on him, especially Li Xiang, her routine is to try her best to encroach on Ah Leopard's time, and if she is out of today's state, she should intentionally or unintentionally isolate Ah Leopard from her interactions with me, and bring Ah Leopard into her social circle, so that she can continue to suck blood. This process is also accompanied by the influence of consciousness and cognition, and this change can lead to different, or even diametrically opposed, interpretations of the same thing. Ah Bao is not a person who can understand the results from multiple perspectives at the same time, he will be confused by the results interpreted from different cognitive perspectives, and in the end he can only choose to believe the results from one perspective. Chen Wenjin knew that Ah Bao himself was actually a very assertive person, but his cognition belonged to a state of being more pitiful to himself. Generally, it is not easy to be affected too much, but Li Xiang's three views may have parts close to Ah Leopard, and the feeling of 'looking like the same kind' is likely to affect Ah Leopard.

"I'm looking forward to what angle Ah Bao will believe in the end!" Wang Shuai really wanted to know whether Ah Bao was worth his expectations, and whether it was worth Chen Wenjin's concern.

The car drove into the garage of Wang Shuai's house.

Rose has been depressed, no matter how Ami helps her lift her spirits, she can only barely smile, and then sink back like that.

After playing for a while, she said that she was tired and wanted to rest, so Wang Shuai led her to the room and said, "You have a good rest, no one will disturb you, if there is anything you can go to that room to find me, it's very close to here." If you need anything, just ring the bell in the room, and when you connect it, tell them and they will send it to you. ”

"Thank you. Rose's face was not very good, and she closed the door in a depressed mood.

Not long after, her pager rang again, and it was still Li Xiang and A Leopard.

Rose saw that Li Xiang's calls were all Ah Bao's big brother number, so she didn't reply.

Later in the day, Ami came up and knocked on the door. "Rose, we're leaving, are you coming with us?"

"I fell asleep, I was tired and didn't want to move. Rose sat in the room, her voice sounding as if she were tired.

"Alright then, let's go, you have a good rest. Ami went down to Xiao Xiao and Chen Wenjin and said, "Rose is asleep, she said she doesn't want to move, let's go?"

Chen Wenjin already knew that Rose would not go, so he said to go, and then asked Xiao Xiao to take the car keys, saying that he was driving.

got into the car, Xiao Xiao and Ami were in the back row.

Xiao Xiao felt that Ami didn't seem to think much about Rose, and felt that it was necessary to make Ami mentally prepared, so he said: "Chen Wenjin, if Rose doesn't leave, do you have thoughts about Wang Shuai?"

"Maybe. Chen Wenjin could only answer like this.

“...... Wouldn't she? As soon as she was deceived by Li Xiang, she began to worry about Wang Shuai?" "Ami knows what happened to Rose before, but she doesn't know what happened behind Rose, so she will be so surprised.

"The more I thought about it just now, the more I felt that our sense of justice might have been used by Rose, even if it was true that Li Xiang lied to her, I suspect that Rose may be waiting for Li Xiang to snatch Ah Leopard, Rose has a bigger heart, and her target should be Wang Shuai. Xiao Xiao saw Ami's ugly face, and continued: "That's why I'm saying it now, I hope Ami can think clearly." My attitude towards your relationship with Wang Shuai is very clear, and you know it. But I don't know if you've really figured it out, if you're sure that Wang Shuai isn't worth it, then Rose doesn't care what she wants. If you don't want to end your relationship with Wang Shuai, you can stop Rose in time now. ”

Chen Wenjin feels that Xiao Xiao is also a friend enough, indeed, now let Ami think clearly and make a decision, and there is no need to regret it.

Ami was silent for a moment, and then suddenly said, "Let's go." ”

"Are you sure?" asked Chen Wenjin.

"Sure!" Ami was sure.

So, the car started and drove out, and Wang Shuai's home behind him was getting farther and farther away......

It wasn't until she left the community that Ami seemed to feel that there was no possibility of turning back, so she said with relief: "Actually, I am very reluctant to let Wang Shuai go." He's my first love, how long has it been? It's over...... Many times I tried to go back and coax him to forgive, but I forced myself not to do so. You may think that I have known Wang Shuai for a short time, but in fact, I have seen him two years ago, and I have seen him and Tank outside my school many times, although I didn't know him at that time, but I have always thought that he is very handsome, his smile is very sunny and warm, and his eyes will discharge, which is very charming!"

Chen Wenjin was not surprised to hear this, Ami's enthusiasm for Wang Shuai can be seen, and she doesn't care much about material conditions, because she has enjoyed good material conditions since she was a child, and she is not a person with a strong desire to control, the first consideration of a girl of this age is usually 'I like it', so what does Wang Shuai's father do, it doesn't matter at all for a girl like Ami who is really carefree.

Then, the most important, even the only reason for his special enthusiasm for Wang Shuai is that she likes it.

"Every time someone pursues and confesses, I can't help but compare them with Wang Shuai, but I don't know Wang Shuai at that time, so I feel very stupid and funny. So...... You also know that after being with Wang Shuai, I tried my best to please him, really pleased, and always hoped that he would like me more, so I will do it with all my enthusiasm when he likes it. Ami said, thinking, and couldn't help crying, Xiao Xiao hurriedly handed her a tissue, and patted her on the back to comfort her.

"Gold, did I have a low posture from the beginning? So that he turned a blind eye to my efforts, did not cherish me, and did not even treat me as a human being! Do you know? On the day he went to his house to find him after I had talked to you, he actually made me accept the punishment of kneeling and begging for forgiveness! I don't think that is at all like what Wang Shuai would do, he is so gentle and elegant, he doesn't say anything dirty, he treats his friends so patiently and kindly, helps everyone, spares money, and values friendship. But, but he would treat me like that? Did I have a low posture from the beginning, which made him look down on me more and more? Did the things I did to please him, those things that were similar to butterflies, make him look down on me even more? I really don't understand!" The more Ami said, the more sad she became, she could decide not to look back, but she couldn't decide whether she was sad or wronged.

"You're right, don't think too much. Wang Shuai may not be destined to give love to anyone. Chen Wenjin knows that all the good things about Wang Shuai that Ami likes are not the real Wang Shuai.

However, Wang Shuai will always maintain this external image, and for friends, these are what Wang Shuai looks like. However, for lovers, because the relationship is more intimate and the encroachment on private space is higher, Wang Shuai will pretend to be very tired, so he will take a destructive approach to end the relationship.

Wang Shuai's mother left early, how to be an excellent and outstanding man, his father has always taught him, and even forced him to do it. But how to fall in love, why, and how to love a woman, without a mother, he can't see the long-term interaction of his parents' emotions, so he won't have an experience, plus the women around his father give him a feeling of pressure and even threat, and he will even react psychologically with the opposite sex.

Wang Shuai is difficult to fall in love, and all his performances in the relationship are by looking at what others do, analyzing why they do it, and then choosing the appropriate one to do.

In other words, Wang Shuai is simulating, and he does not have an emotional and natural ability to fall in love at all.

But Chen Wenjin won't say this, he can only tell Ami that it's not her who is wrong, and she doesn't have to regret turning back.

"No wonder Wang Shuai will say that you are the one who knows him best, I have always felt that Wang Shuai doesn't seem to love me, at first I thought he still liked Xiao Xiao, but then I found out that it was not, I thought I was not good enough, and I worked hard to please him......" Ami felt that she was saying and repeating, it was meaningless, she herself would feel that she was too bored like this, so she wiped her tears and said: "Don't talk about him, since it has been decided, there is no need to say it again." I think it's okay to be sad for a while...... Should ......"

When Ami said this, suddenly tears rushed out like a spring of tears, she subconsciously hugged Xiao Xiao and cried......

She didn't know how long she would be sad, but she couldn't control it when she thought that this time it was over, very sad, very, sad......

Chen Wenjin listened, looked at Ami's sad appearance in the rearview mirror, and couldn't help thinking: "This is the love of a teenager, strong feelings overwhelm everything, reason, and truth can't stop the surging emotions." It is completely different from the accustomed time of adults to erase sadness. ’