Chapter 129: Father's Love Is Like a Mountain
My father would always play with us for a while despite his tiring day, and his figure was so tall and strong in our eyes, helping us resist the wind and rain outside, and hold up a warm and comfortable little world.
Later, with the development and progress of society, people had more ways to make money, compared to farming, which became less and less profitable, and young people were much better at working in the city than farming at home.
More and more people in their hometowns have given up their land to raise their own land and choose to work in the city, especially young people, and almost no one will stay at home to farm.
As society progressed, life at home became more and more difficult, and the smile on their father's face gradually became less.
Because the young people in their hometown have seen the world of flowers in the city, many of them never want to return to their poor and backward hometowns, even if they return to their hometowns to get married, most of them choose to buy fashionable and complete sets of furniture sofas in the city.
So there are fewer and fewer people who come to my father to make solid wood furniture, the family's income is less and a large family has to support, and the heavy family burden is on his shoulders, although my father is still smiling in front of us, but the wrinkles on his face are increasing day by day, and his back is no longer upright.
In order to support his family, his father finally had to give up his favorite carpentry work, working hard in the fields and sweating.
In the past few years, my father has not only been injured many times, but also has more gray hair on his head, his back is bent, and his hearty laughter is gone.
My father, who has sheltered himself from the wind and rain since he was a child, now sees the hope of a better life because of his farm plan, and is even more proud of his son's ability, and the father of the past seems to be back.
Cao Yifan is very happy to see this, so that the people in his hometown no longer have to leave their hometown and bear the pain of separation, they can earn money and live a good life by farming at home, and the whole family can enjoy the joy of family together is the purpose of his farm in his hometown.
And my father also regained his confidence and hearty personality because he saw the bright future of super vegetables, which was a big surprise!
Now it is my own family, and with the development and growth of my farm, it will benefit the whole village and even the whole town in the future, so that they can also regain their self-confidence and be proud of being a farmer and a farmer.
You can make a lot of money farming at home, drive a car, and live in a villa.
It's going to be a great long-term plan.
Take it one step at a time.
Start it from your own home today!
As soon as Cao Yifan arrived at the mouth of the alley, the panther cleverly sensed that his little master was back, and he quickly stood up from his father and rushed out of the gate excitedly.
When the mother saw it, she stood up in surprise and walked to the door and said: "Look at the excited appearance of the black panther, eighty percent of it is the son Yifan who is back, and this conscienceless self feeds it all day long, and he is still the closest to his son." Although she was complaining, everyone could see the joy on her face.
Although the father was also very excited, he still maintained the stability of the head of the family in front of outsiders, and accompanied the guests to chat as usual, but the smile on his face was stronger.
Cao Yifan was also full of joy when he saw the black panther running from afar to greet him, and they hugged each other intimately at the intersection and frolicked, the big eyes of the black panther were bright and bright, as if they could speak, and they were full of wisdom.
Now looking at the owner of the panther eyes are full of joy and excitement, but it can't speak yet, it lives in a home full of aura during this time, drinking spiritual spring water and eating space food containing aura, although it has not evolved into a civet dog, but its IQ is no different from a seven or eight-year-old child.
It doesn't matter if the panther can't speak, Cao Yifan tried to communicate with it with his mental power, and they have a close relationship, and it can communicate very smoothly after a little adaptation.
The panther found that he could communicate and talk to his master, but he was so excited that he wagged his tail and circled around his master's feet.
Cao Yifan walked home with the panther while playing and communicating, he had already seen his mother welcome out of the door, he hurriedly stepped forward and grabbed his mother's arm and said with a smile: "Mother, I'm back, you look so good, you are getting younger and more beautiful!"
The mother patted his hand and smiled: "You child, your mouth is getting sweeter and sweeter, my mother is an old woman, it's useless to coax, when to coax my mother back with a beautiful daughter-in-law, my mother will be relieved." ”
Cao Yifan couldn't help but be embarrassed when he heard his mother talk about his daughter-in-law, and said in his heart, Niang, you don't have to worry about not having a daughter-in-law in the future, I'm afraid that when Yuanyuan and her sisters are here, the family can't let it go, and it's not good to scare you.
He thought that he wanted to be with Yuanyuan and them in the future, and the parents of both sides were the most critical and important, if they could get the blessing of both parents, they could live happily together, and Yuanyuan and they would not be embarrassed.
You can not care about social ethics and customs, but if the parents of both parties do not agree, you will be embarrassed.
Filial piety comes first.
The kindness of my parents is as great as the sky.
No matter who you are, no matter what height you can reach, the affection of your parents should be kept in mind and current events must not be forgotten.
Cao Yifan had an idea, did he reveal a little news first, and test his mother's tone!
Women hate and dislike men with flowers, the father's level may be easy to pass, and the mother's level is the most critical and difficult.
Cao Yifan thought about it and deliberately smiled and said: "Mother, don't worry! Your son is so good, you still need to be coaxed there! Let me tell you, there are not too many beautiful female classmates in school who like your son!"
The mother looked at her son and sighed secretly, although her son's own conditions are good now, but the family has not been able to save much money over the years, and it is really not easy to marry a daughter-in-law for her son!
She knows that now the girls in the countryside are a little better, and they all want to marry in the big city to enjoy happiness, and they don't even look at the young men in the countryside.
The mother stays at home all the year round, and she sees the current situation in the village very clearly, many young men in the village who are twenty-seven or eighteen years old are not married, and the girls of the same age are basically married and have children, and some have even given birth to a second child.
As for the people who say they are married, they are generally not rural locals, Pingling County is the minimum requirement, and the provincial capital is the first choice.
Don't talk about other people's daughters, even if your baby daughter was going to get married, didn't she also ask her in-laws to buy a wedding house in Pingling County?
This is the current situation in the countryside, and the hearts of parents in the world are pitied.
The parents all thought that their baby daughter would stop following her own old path, facing the loess with her back to the sky, relying on the sky to eat, farming, and suffering all year round, and she couldn't make any money.
Now farming is too hard and tiring, and there is no hope.
I've been scared of farming all these years.
Study hard and get admitted to a good university, and after graduation, you can stay in the big city to work, buy a house, get married, have children, and completely get out of the poor and backward rural areas.
It is what every parent in the countryside has repeatedly told in front of their children since childhood
Words have also become the driving force for rural children to learn hard and get ahead.
As a result, the outflow of young laborers from the rural areas is very serious, with left-behind children and the elderly everywhere, and large tracts of fertile land without adult labor force left uncultivated.
Whether these girls in the village go to college or work in the city, they all end up marrying outside, and few of them come back.
When the mother chats with people, many of the young men in the village can't find a match, the eldest is not too young to get married, and they often complain that the girls in the countryside have changed now, and they are too realistic to endure hardship, and the bride price will be more than 100,000 yuan, and they only have to have a house in the county.
After the rural women complained, when it was their turn to ask their daughters to be opposed, they repeatedly told them that the man must be from the city, at least in the city.
This is the reality in the countryside now.
It is not someone's responsibility, let alone someone's daughter's problem, after all, after the young girl has gained knowledge and broadened her horizons in the big city, it is indeed difficult to endure the poor and backward rural life with no Internet, no supermarkets and shopping malls and convenient transportation.
Everyone has the right to a better life.
What's wrong with other people's daughters pursuing a happy life.
There's nothing wrong with that.
But this is a bitter thing for the young men in the countryside.
Most of them are also very diligent and hardworking, whether they are farming at home or going out to work, they all work hard and do not dare to rest for a moment, because they can't even afford a house in the county town if they don't take advantage of their youth and strength to make money quickly, let alone in a big city.
Now because the marriage has to be married in the county, the housing prices in Pingling County are soaring day by day.
Young men in the countryside may soon find that even if they have worked very hard, they are tired like dogs all day long and are reluctant to smoke cigarettes, and they are reluctant to rest all year round, but it seems that compared with the current housing prices, the gap is still too obvious.
Because you will despair to find that the little money you have worked so hard to earn is not as much as the price of housing in the city.
Because most of the people who go out to work in the rural areas have not gone to college, what can they do after graduating from high school, they have no academic qualifications, no connections, and no professional skills, they can only do the hardest and most tiring most basic work, and the remuneration is naturally not high.
In the face of high housing prices and women's rigid requirements, this situation has made many older leftover men in rural areas slowly lose confidence in marrying a daughter-in-law and are going to despair.
Going home for the Chinese New Year every year is a torment for them, going home to look at their aging parents, most afraid of facing their complex eyes of anticipation, guilt and disappointment, how they look forward to being able to bring a girl home!
It's a pity that the year is looking forward to the end, and what I am waiting for is still disappointment.
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