Chapter 226: Zhong Ya is pregnant again
"That chicken soup from the other day, is it leftover from before?"
Meng Bo ran home aggressively, he didn't expect Zhong Ya to be so bold and dare to fool his comrades with what was left over from a few days ago. He said that the expressions on the faces of his comrades were not quite right, and he thought that they were really in trouble.
After that, Meng Bo also went to chat with those comrades-in-arms at the same level, and wanted to contact them again, but as soon as those comrades-in-arms saw Meng Bo, they shirked and said that they had something. Meng Bo stupidly thought that they were really busy, but it turned out to be because of the meal his wife cooked!
Zhong Ya got up and saw the anger in Meng Bo's eyes, and she instantly understood that what had happened before had probably been seen.
Zhong Ya was still quibbling: "What's the difference between the chickens of a few days ago and the chickens of a few days later? Aren't they all the same and can be eaten?
"It's not bad, everyone has found that there is only one chicken leg and one chicken wing, and the chicken is just a little bit, and you still tell me that it's not bad?" Meng Bo was so angry that Zhong Ya was about to laugh out loud, he now felt that his daughter-in-law was really ignorant, and he couldn't figure out what was right or wrong, "Those beef and mutton are only a little bit, and the food is all underneath! With such a little meat, others will immediately divide it, are you fighting for me or losing face for me? Why is Yongchang's daughter-in-law doing so well, and you doing so badly?"
Zhong Ya was already upset when Meng Bo yelled at her, but now when she heard Meng Bo comparing herself with Wang Guizhi, and praised Wang Guizhi for belittling herself, she also became angry all of a sudden, and shouted at Meng Bo: "Are you embarrassed to say? Don't look at how much money you can earn, Li Yongchang and their family are rich, can our family compare? This beef and mutton is already expensive, are you trying to hollow out our family?"
Meng Bo was a little weak-hearted when Zhong Ya said this, but he replied: "Then you can't be so perfunctory to others? Can't you cook some food sincerely?
"Meng Bo, do you understand, who first said that he wanted me to cook a meal similar to Wang Guizhi?" Zhong Ya felt extremely aggrieved, she was busy for most of the day but was scolded, "Who let me do these things first? Okay, you, if this meal is ready, the credit for the light on your face is all on you, if this messes up, it will all be pushed on me, isn't it? How can there be such a good thing in the world, and you still use Wang Guizhi to compare with me? You really can't do it, you should marry her!"
Zhong Ya admitted that he cut corners, Meng Bo was so angry by her words that he couldn't think of anything for a while, he didn't say a word, and moved directly to the army, sleeping in his office.
Meng Bo now only has Zhong Ya and her children at home, Zhong Ya feels that in the end she is wronged, all the bad things are pushed on herself, and her husband has been blaming herself.
Zhong Ya couldn't help it, so she hugged her child and came to Wang Guizhi's house to cry.
Wang Guizhi was still a little stunned when she saw Zhong Ya, but because of the neighborly relationship, she still let Zhong Ya in.
Wang Guizhi looked at her aggrieved, thinking of the recent rumors that Meng Bo had moved to the army, and she also noticed Zhong Ya's arrival, perhaps because of this incident.
Zhong Ya opened his mouth and said: "Yongchang and his daughter-in-law, why am I so bad, there is such a man in the stall, everything is done by me, and all the bad things are pushed on me, and now he is still running to live in the army alone, leaving me and the child behind, does he still look like a man!"
Wang Guizhi felt that there was indeed something wrong with Zhong Ya's incident, so she educated her: "You, you still have to understand the man and communicate with him more, so that the relationship between the husband and wife can be better for a long time." ”
When Zhong Ya heard Wang Guizhi say this, she was a little puzzled: "Speaking of which, there is one thing I have been curious about for a long time, why do you and Yongchang never quarrel? Is it because you gave birth to a son?"
After that, Zhong Ya lowered her head and said sullenly: "Or my life is not good, I actually gave birth to a daughter, if I give birth to a son, Meng Bo still doesn't serve him as a master? ”
Wang Guizhi saw that Zhong Ya seemed to be patriarchal, and couldn't help but think of what happened to her when she was a child. She is also a girl, and because of this identity, she was thrown into the garbage by Wang Nong and Zhao Huixiu, and then the two of them gave birth to Wang Yanbin, and then they remembered themselves.
Wang Guizhi thought that if her biological parents did not give birth to Wang Yanbin, but gave birth to other sisters, maybe their fate would be the same as herself, and they would be discarded as soon as they were born, maybe her biological parents would not have thought of finding Wang Guizhi.
Wang Guizhi saw Zhong Ya's appearance of admitting death, and hurriedly explained: "It's not because of the problem of having a son, Yongchang and I are not without contradictions, but we can both communicate in real time and reflect on what we have done wrong, so that we can truly understand each other." ”
Zhong Ya didn't go to school and didn't know a few big words, she was confused by Wang Guizhi's reasoning, she shook her head, and said: "Yongchang and his daughter-in-law, what are you talking about, I can't figure it out anyway, I only know that if I had given birth to a son, my life would definitely be much better than now." ”
"That's not right for you, doesn't the country say that giving birth to children is the same?" Wang Guizhi couldn't help but say.
She really didn't want something like this to happen to anyone else. It is precisely because Wang Guizhi has been treated like that by her parents that she can empathize more.
The equality of men and women is not only far from being achieved now, but even in later generations, some people will not take it seriously, and they will ridicule those who demand equal rights between men and women, saying that women's rights are high enough. However, they can't see that men have much lower admission scores than women in both work and school, they can't see gender discrimination in the workplace, and they don't even realize that they have so much power and occupy women's living space step by step.
"How can this be the same? Don't all men like sons more? What's so good about having a daughter? Isn't it time to get married and follow someone else's family?" Zhong Ya didn't care, her thinking was still very backward.
"Aren't you also a woman? Aren't you belittleing yourself by saying this?" Wang Guizhi didn't expect Zhong Ya, as a woman, to be so malicious towards women.
"What's demeaning? I have a low status," Zhong Ya has been completely brainwashed by the words of the patriarchal society, she feels that she was born inferior to men, "But I am also pregnant now, and I hope to give birth to a son, and I plan to demobilize Meng Bo and go home with myself to do other things." ”
Wang Guizhi felt that something was wrong, because of the recent change in the position of the army, saying that he wanted to select a few people from Meng Bo and them to be transferred to other positions, and that position was also a high position, and to put it bluntly, it was a promotion. Meng Bo is also in this critical period now, and he invited his comrades-in-arms to dinner to win people's hearts because of this incident.
His man is in a critical period of his career, but why does this Zhong Ya, instead of helping his man, want to demobilize Meng Bo?
"Why do you keep thinking that you want to go back? I see that your man is not here, is he doing a good job?" Wang Guizhi couldn't help but ask again.
Zhong Ya pursed her lips when she heard Wang Guizhi say this: "Do it well, what's the use of doing it well? If he is really promoted, there may be more warblers and Yanyan around him, and now I am in this family yard, I have no sense of security, and I am worried every day, for fear that he will be hooked by other women in the family yard, and if I and the child are left behind, what should I do?"
"I want to go home, but also because the women around me are not as good as me, and when he goes back to the countryside, he will definitely accept his temperament and treat me well. Zhong Ya was quick to speak, and actually said all these words.
Although Zhong Ya said very vaguely and did not name names, Zhong Ya glanced at Wang Guizhi from time to time, Wang Guizhi was not stupid, of course she could hear Zhong Ya's extraneous voice.
Wang Guizhi's face was a little bad for a while, she felt that she was kind enough to persuade others, why did others still complain about herself?
"What do you mean by that?" asked Wang Guizhi sharply.
Zhong Ya saw that she had slipped her mouth, and felt that her mouth was too fast to control. However, Zhong Ya may have thought that she must be going back with Meng Bo, so she simply said what was in her heart.
Zhong Ya pulled Wang Guizhi and said what she had been thinking about for a long time: "Yongchang and his daughter-in-law, let me tell you the truth, in fact, the first time I saw you on the train, when I learned that you were the daughter-in-law of my husband's comrade-in-arms, I didn't want you to come." Look at how beautiful and fashionable you are, you look like an eldest lady in the city, how can we usually see such a spirited person?"
Zhong Ya thought of the feeling of inferiority in her heart when she saw Wang Guizhi, and now it seemed to come up again. She still remembers that at that time, Wang Guizhi and her mother even asked for a boxed lunch in the car, as well as big chicken legs. And he can only eat the dry food he brings dryly.
At that time, Fan Xiuman also asked Zhong Ya why she didn't buy a boxed lunch, and Zhong Ya found an excuse to deal with the past at that time. But her dry food became more and more unpleasant, and she felt that her life was really bad, and she couldn't even afford the boxed lunch on the train.
Wang Guizhi knew that having money in her family might cause others to be jealous of her, but what she didn't expect was that even Zhong Ya, the first person she met here, had this kind of hostility towards her.
"You don't know, how can I say it, it's also a flower in the village, everyone in the village praises me, I came here, everyone is similar, nothing particularly outstanding, they all live a good life," Zhong Ya couldn't help complaining, she felt that Wang Guizhi shouldn't have come here, it was Wang Guizhi who made a mess here," But as soon as you came, everything changed here, the people in the family courtyard were looking at you, you were so good-looking and fashionable, good-looking and makeup, and you didn't care about other people's eyes, and the family had money, but you could compare us ordinary, honest women, you talk about it, you are so good, how can there be us in the eyes of your own men?"
Wang Guizhi listened to Zhong Ya's bitter water, but was unmoved. She felt that Zhong Ya's words sounded quite reasonable, but in fact, Zhong Ya actually put the blame on others, and she never seemed to realize her mistakes, just like this treat, it was obvious that she did something wrong, but in the end she had to push it on her man.
"You think so, but in the end it's still wrong," Wang Guizhi replied lightly, "Yes, although I am rich, good-looking, and can dress up, but there are more rich-looking people in this world than me, can I guarantee that I will not run into them? ”
When Wang Guizhi said this, Zhong Ya was also not convinced, she pouted and replied: "Why is there a problem? If I were rich, if I were good-looking, if I could dress up, would I have such a relationship with my man now?"
"It's not that you have money to be like me and Yongchang," Wang Guizhi felt that Zhong Ya was really a little unreasonable, "The family status of men and women is the same, as long as you communicate more with your man, if there is any conflict, you can live a good life as soon as possible, even if the family is not very rich." Wouldn't it be as bad if you didn't run and maintain your family, if you had money and looked good, and didn't manage and maintain your family? ”
"Think about it again, the last time you gave birth to a child, your mother-in-law came, didn't she also do her best to take care of you, and in the end you still said bad things, you know, this is your man's mother!" Wang Guizhi thought of the previous incident, and couldn't help but shake his head.
That incident has been going on for a long time, and even Wang Guizhi herself has been involved. But what did Wang Guizhi do wrong? She just kindly took care of Zhong Ya, gave her some honey water, and told her some ways to nourish her body.
Zhong Ya saw that Wang Guizhi had different opinions from herself, so she didn't say anything. Zhong Ya really didn't have the energy to come over and argue with others, anyway, no matter what Wang Guizhi said, Zhong Ya couldn't listen to it. She thinks that women are inferior to men.
Since then, Zhong Ya has gone home to share safely, and she is looking forward to the birth of the child in her womb. Zhong Ya also specially told her mother-in-law the news of her pregnancy.
Her mother-in-law is also a knife-mouthed tofu heart, the last time I saw Zhong Ya, she always disliked herself, and after giving birth to a daughter, she went back to her hometown directly. And now that I heard that Zhong Ya was pregnant, she came all the way here. is still running around at such an old age, Wang Guizhi also admires this old man.